Information about Domestic Shelters Nationwide. https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles rfc822 https://d177u6cr05yfp1.cloudfront.net/production/logo-803c829d761f549ea3f06f69ab3ffcc6e0cb6a954d092446a1e39ca9e02736c5.png https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles Knowing the facts and statistics about domestic violence is the first step toward standing up for its survivors. Tue, 13 May 2014 16:55:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/domestic-violence-statistics https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/domestic-violence-statistics Whether you're being stalked, harassed or abused, a personal protection order is vital in helping you stop the behavior and start feeling safe again. Thu, 05 Jun 2014 19:46:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/how-to-get-a-personal-protection-order https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/how-to-get-a-personal-protection-order Profiling an abuser can start with knowing and recognizing red flags. Thu, 05 Jun 2014 19:46:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/profile-of-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/profile-of-an-abuser Recognizing the red flags early on could save you from an abusive partner. Thu, 05 Jun 2014 19:46:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abusive-red-flags-everyone-should-know https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abusive-red-flags-everyone-should-know You may be with an abusive partner and don't even realize it. Spotting the signs, red flags and warning signals of abuse could save your life. Mon, 07 Jul 2014 22:04:36 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/signs-of-a-violent-relationship https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/signs-of-a-violent-relationship Survivors of abuse can suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder. How to rebuild your confidence after escaping. Mon, 07 Jul 2014 22:17:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/finding-support-after-you-leave https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/finding-support-after-you-leave How to make a safety plan for leaving an abusive partner. The steps you should take to stay safe. Mon, 07 Jul 2014 22:38:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/steps-to-safety-after-a-ppo https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/steps-to-safety-after-a-ppo Children who witness domestic violence are at higher risk of being abused themselves. How to escape an abusive relationship when kids are in the home. Mon, 07 Jul 2014 22:41:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/getting-kids-out-of-harm-s-way https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/getting-kids-out-of-harm-s-way After leaving an abusive partner, it’s vital to protect your identity online. Follow these tips. Mon, 07 Jul 2014 22:41:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protecting-personal-effects/how-to-protect-your-identity https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protecting-personal-effects/how-to-protect-your-identity The Housing First program helps the homeless—including survivors of abusive partners—find real, permanent housing. Mon, 07 Jul 2014 22:43:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/home-safe-home-the-housing-first-program https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/home-safe-home-the-housing-first-program Essential checklist for what to take with you when leaving an abusive partner. Mon, 07 Jul 2014 22:44:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-it-s-time-to-go-part-i https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-it-s-time-to-go-part-i How to create a safety plan when it's time to leave an abusive partner. Mon, 07 Jul 2014 22:46:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-it-s-time-to-go-part-ii https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-it-s-time-to-go-part-ii A guide to housing options after a survivor of domestic violence leaves shelter. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 13:46:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/home-options-beyond-the-shelter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/home-options-beyond-the-shelter For anyone—but especially those who have escaped an abusive relationship—taking control of your own finances is an empowering step. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 13:56:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/do-you-know-where-your-money-is https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/do-you-know-where-your-money-is Before you ask, "Why doesn't she just leave her abusive partner?" you need to understand why that's often not as simple as it sounds. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 14:03:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/why-doesn-t-she-just-leave https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/why-doesn-t-she-just-leave Is there a reason why abusers choose to abuse? Experts say the answer is complicated, but one common factor stands out. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 14:08:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-makes-people-choose-to-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-makes-people-choose-to-abuse Raising awareness of sexual assault during April can make a difference toward ending this crime. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 15:09:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/talk-about-sexual-assault-in-april https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/talk-about-sexual-assault-in-april An abusive partner can use your email activity to control and harass you. How to keep your online communications private. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 15:16:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protecting-personal-effects/protecting-your-email https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protecting-personal-effects/protecting-your-email When sex is forced, it doesn’t matter if you’re married to the perpetrator. Rape is rape. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 15:21:12 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/can-he-rape-me-if-we-re-married https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/can-he-rape-me-if-we-re-married The reasons why domestic violence is less reported among military couples, and how that can change. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 16:40:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/domestic-violence-in-the-military https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/domestic-violence-in-the-military February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, a great reason to talk to the teens in your life about healthy and unhealthy dating relationships. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 17:02:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/teaching-teens-about-dating-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/teaching-teens-about-dating-violence How setting goals for the future can help survivors of domestic violence avoid repeating their past. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 17:16:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/why-survivors-should-set-goals-for-the-future https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/why-survivors-should-set-goals-for-the-future It's important for teens to know what an unhealthy relationship looks like before they become a victim. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 17:20:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/teens-are-you-in-an-unhealthy-relationship https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/teens-are-you-in-an-unhealthy-relationship Stalking is often a component of domestic violence, or a red flag denoting violence is imminent. How to stay safe and help stop your stalker. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 17:31:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/if-you-re-being-stalked https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/if-you-re-being-stalked Find out how witnessing domestic violence can affect children as they grow to be adults. Tue, 08 Jul 2014 17:58:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/when-children-witness-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/when-children-witness-violence LGBTQ+ domestic violence is often underreported. How does gay, lesbian or trans domestic violence differ and how can LGBTQ+ victims get help? Tue, 08 Jul 2014 18:12:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/violence-just-as-prevalent-in-lgbt-relationships https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/violence-just-as-prevalent-in-lgbt-relationships The nonprofit Give Back a Smile helps survivors of abuse rebuild their physical appearance and gain back confidence. Wed, 30 Jul 2014 04:16:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/give-back-a-smile https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/give-back-a-smile Four ways to regain self-esteem after an abusive partner tears it down Wed, 30 Jul 2014 04:22:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/rebuilding-your-self-esteem-after-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/rebuilding-your-self-esteem-after-abuse How the American Overseas Domestic Violence Crisis Center can help American survivors of abuse who are in a foreign country. Wed, 30 Jul 2014 04:26:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/i-m-being-abused-in-another-country https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/i-m-being-abused-in-another-country As a survivor of domestic violence, how to know when you need a lawyer and how to obtain one if you do. Wed, 30 Jul 2014 04:33:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/do-i-need-a-lawyer https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/do-i-need-a-lawyer When leaving an abusive partner, don't forget Fluffy and Fido—how to get the family pets out of danger as well as yourself. Wed, 30 Jul 2014 04:44:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/no-four-legged-family-member-left-behind https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/no-four-legged-family-member-left-behind How an abusive partner can use your phone and computer to stalk or control you. Protect yourself with these steps. Wed, 30 Jul 2014 04:56:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/tips-for-safe-browsing-on-your-computer-phone-and-tablet https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/tips-for-safe-browsing-on-your-computer-phone-and-tablet The National Domestic Violence Hotline, 800-799-SAFE, can be called 24/7—and it's not only for those in abusive relationships. Find out what it's all about. Wed, 30 Jul 2014 05:15:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/the-number-you-need-to-know https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/the-number-you-need-to-know With professional help, some abusers can reform. Before you take your partner back, know the signs that indicate they have changed for the better. Wed, 30 Jul 2014 05:19:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/can-he-change https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/can-he-change Knowledge is power: A list of free online, easy-to-download handbooks with vital information for survivors of domestic violence, or friends and family members of survivors. Wed, 30 Jul 2014 05:30:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/arm-yourself-with-information https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/arm-yourself-with-information The scariest thing next to being in an abusive relationship is not getting out before it turns deadly. Red flags that could save your life. Wed, 30 Jul 2014 05:34:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/will-an-abuser-kill-you https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/will-an-abuser-kill-you The holidays can lead to increased incidences of domestic violence. Learn how to better deal with domestic violence during the holidays. Thu, 18 Sep 2014 05:24:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/domestic-violence-doesn-t-take-a-holiday https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/domestic-violence-doesn-t-take-a-holiday Five fresh and achievable New Year's resolutions that will help end domestic violence. Thu, 18 Sep 2014 05:27:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/new-year-s-resolution-help-stop-violence-in-2015 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/new-year-s-resolution-help-stop-violence-in-2015 Partial transcript from NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell on the league's plans for code of conduct and addressing domestic violence. Press conference video. Fri, 19 Sep 2014 20:41:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/roger-goodell-announces-nfl-s-plans-to-address-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/roger-goodell-announces-nfl-s-plans-to-address-abuse When people in positions of power, such as celebrities, politicians or members of law enforcement, become abusive partners, it can add a layer of difficulty when a survivor wants to escape. Mon, 01 Dec 2014 03:13:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/power-positions https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/power-positions Some survivors of domestic violence have taken to posting selfies of their battered faces on social media. Can this possibly help the cause? Tue, 02 Dec 2014 17:27:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/survivor-selfies https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/survivor-selfies Studies show that a violent relationship in your teens can negatively effect your income in the future. Tue, 02 Dec 2014 17:43:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/violent-teenage-relationships-tied-to-lower-income-as-adults https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/violent-teenage-relationships-tied-to-lower-income-as-adults Domestic violence turns deadly for 4,000 women every year, most often with a firearm that's kept in her own home. Tue, 02 Dec 2014 21:40:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/when-abuse-turns-deadly https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/when-abuse-turns-deadly When illegal immigrants in the United States are living with an abusive partner, they often stay silent, choosing violence over a fear of deportation. Why this needs to change now. Tue, 02 Dec 2014 22:01:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/protection-for-undocumented-victims-of-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/protection-for-undocumented-victims-of-abuse One organization aims to teach boys early how to respect women in hopes of avoiding violence in the future. Wed, 03 Dec 2014 05:58:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/men-can-stop-rape https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/men-can-stop-rape Male victims of domestic violence face different, challenging stigmas than female survivors. Sat, 06 Dec 2014 15:03:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/men-as-survivors/male-victims-of-abuse-face-stigmas https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/men-as-survivors/male-victims-of-abuse-face-stigmas Empowering a survivor means letting them decide on their next steps instead of pushing them into a decision. Sat, 06 Dec 2014 15:16:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/empowering-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/empowering-survivors Domestic violence doesn't always leave visible marks. Identifying the other types of abuse that can occur in a relationship. Sat, 06 Dec 2014 15:55:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/beyond-a-bruise https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/beyond-a-bruise If your abuser is a police officer, you may be more scared to come forward. How to best protect yourself and get out safely. Sat, 06 Dec 2014 16:03:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-your-abuser-is-a-police-officer https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-your-abuser-is-a-police-officer These common terms everyone should know describe all things domestic violence- and abuse-related. Sat, 06 Dec 2014 16:09:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-lingo-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-lingo-of-domestic-violence It’s normal for a survivor of abuse to tell themselves all sorts of reasons to avoid admitting they’re in the midst of domestic violence. But this doesn’t mean it’s not happening. Sat, 06 Dec 2014 16:19:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/the-excuses-we-tell-ourselves https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/the-excuses-we-tell-ourselves Quiz yourself to see if you show any signs of becoming an abusive partner. Sat, 06 Dec 2014 16:34:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/are-you-a-good-partner https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/are-you-a-good-partner Learn some of the most important topline statistics related to domestic violence, abuse and intimate partner violence. Thu, 08 Jan 2015 03:28:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/domestic-abuse-topline-facts-and-statistics https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/domestic-abuse-topline-facts-and-statistics Numerous important facts and statistics related to children and domestic violence, including source citations. Thu, 08 Jan 2015 03:29:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/children-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/children-and-domestic-violence Numerous important facts and statistics related to sexual assault and stalking related to domestic violence, including source citations. Thu, 08 Jan 2015 03:30:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/sexual-assault-and-stalking https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/sexual-assault-and-stalking Numerous important facts and statistics related to homicide and injury from domestic violence, including source citations. Thu, 08 Jan 2015 03:31:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/homicide-and-injury-from-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/homicide-and-injury-from-domestic-violence Numerous important facts and statistics related to the connection between homelessness and domestic violence, including source citations. Thu, 08 Jan 2015 03:32:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/homelessness-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/homelessness-and-domestic-violence Numerous important facts and statistics related to law enforcement, the justice system and domestic violence, including source citations. Thu, 08 Jan 2015 03:33:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/law-enforcement-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/law-enforcement-and-domestic-violence Numerous important facts and statistics related to the demographics of domestic violence victims and abusers, including source citations. Thu, 08 Jan 2015 03:35:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/demographics-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/demographics-and-domestic-violence Numerous important facts and statistics related to abuser’s use of verbal and emotional tactics in domestic violence, including source citations. Thu, 08 Jan 2015 03:36:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/psychological-aggression-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/psychological-aggression-and-domestic-violence Numerous important facts and statistics related to men experiencing domestic violence, including source citations. Thu, 08 Jan 2015 03:37:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/men-experiencing-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/men-experiencing-domestic-violence Numerous important facts and statistics related to the LBGTQ population and domestic violence, including source citations. Thu, 08 Jan 2015 03:38:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/lgbtq-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/lgbtq-and-domestic-violence Numerous important facts and statistics related to the economic impact of domestic violence, including source citations. Thu, 08 Jan 2015 03:39:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/economic-impact-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/economic-impact-of-domestic-violence When celebrities like Ray Rice are accused of domestic violence, the attention can give other abuse survivors a voice Mon, 19 Jan 2015 03:37:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/survivors-step-forward-after-ray-rice-scandal https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/survivors-step-forward-after-ray-rice-scandal The financial impact of domestic violence affects us all either directly or indirectly. Mon, 19 Jan 2015 04:05:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/the-cost-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/the-cost-of-domestic-violence A new smart phone app can tell you if your relationship is in the danger zone. Mon, 19 Jan 2015 04:11:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/new-app-detects-dangerous-relationships https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/new-app-detects-dangerous-relationships Looking for a volunteer opportunity? Your skills could help survivors of domestic violence. Mon, 19 Jan 2015 04:25:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/nonprofits-need-you https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/nonprofits-need-you Only 22, Nadia Ezaldein was killed at work by her abusive ex-boyfriend. Mon, 19 Jan 2015 04:36:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/killed-at-work-by-an-ex-boyfriend https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/killed-at-work-by-an-ex-boyfriend When a friend confides he or she's being abused, this is what they need to hear in return. Mon, 19 Jan 2015 04:52:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/my-friend-told-me-she-s-being-abused https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/my-friend-told-me-she-s-being-abused TODAY show host opens up about her sister's violent partner to raise awareness and money for survivors of domestic violence. Mon, 19 Jan 2015 05:12:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-is-a-family-issue-for-today-show-host https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-is-a-family-issue-for-today-show-host Learn what you need to know to safely escape domestic violence or abuse with your children. Mon, 19 Jan 2015 05:25:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/fleeing-an-abuser-with-your-children https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/fleeing-an-abuser-with-your-children Forcing a woman to become pregnant or end a pregnancy is a type of domestic violence called reproductive coercion Mon, 19 Jan 2015 05:36:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/he-s-forcing-me-to-get-pregnant https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/he-s-forcing-me-to-get-pregnant Air time and local listings for “Violence and Solutions,” a 90-minute show on domestic violence on PBS Monday, Feb. 9, hosted by Nicholas Kristof and Regina Hall. Fri, 06 Feb 2015 00:12:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-special-airs-on-pbs https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-special-airs-on-pbs Is what happens in the movie Fifty Shades of Grey domestic violence? Experts weigh in about the issues. Mon, 09 Feb 2015 03:08:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/is-50-shades-a-violent-movie https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/is-50-shades-a-violent-movie Kurt Busch suspended indefinitely from NASCAR on abuse allegations. Is NASCAR serious about anti-violence standards? Mon, 23 Feb 2015 20:25:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/nascar-driver-suspended-indefinitely-amidst-abuse-allegations https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/nascar-driver-suspended-indefinitely-amidst-abuse-allegations See air times for USA Network's Law& Order: SVU marathon Sunday, March 8, 2015 that is part of NOMOREweek. Fri, 06 Mar 2015 02:30:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/law-order-nomore-marathon-sunday https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/law-order-nomore-marathon-sunday NO MORE Week encore presentations of Stalked and Surviving Evil on Investigation Discovery network, Saturday, March 14th. Sun, 08 Mar 2015 01:49:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/no-more-week-encore-tv-presentations https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/no-more-week-encore-tv-presentations Domestic abuse survivor Carie Charlesworth had no idea she'd married an abuser until after she created a perfect family with him Tue, 24 Mar 2015 17:55:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-carie-charlesworth https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-carie-charlesworth Celeb stylist Sam Russell has a plan to help domestic violence survivors start fresh, one fabulous makeover at a time Wed, 25 Mar 2015 15:40:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/stylist-to-the-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/stylist-to-the-survivors An in-depth study reveals what we know about the perpetrators of domestic violence. Wed, 25 Mar 2015 15:57:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/all-about-the-perp https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/all-about-the-perp Statistics show incidents of domestic violence are down, but advocates say they aren't seeing it. Wed, 25 Mar 2015 16:27:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/are-domestic-violence-rates-dropping https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/are-domestic-violence-rates-dropping Numerous important facts and statistics related to teen and college dating and domestic violence, including source citations. Tue, 07 Apr 2015 16:14:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/dating-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/dating-and-domestic-violence Domestic violence can affect people of all ages. Here's why domestic violence among seniors often goes unreported. Fri, 10 Apr 2015 16:40:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/elder-abuse/when-domestic-violence-happens-later-in-life https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/elder-abuse/when-domestic-violence-happens-later-in-life Domestic violence survivors often endure years of abuse before filing for restraining orders. Fri, 10 Apr 2015 16:46:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/many-survivors-fearful-to-file-restraining-orders https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/many-survivors-fearful-to-file-restraining-orders Many survivors feel leaving their abuser isn't an option because they can't afford it. Fri, 10 Apr 2015 17:19:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/when-you-can-t-afford-to-leave-your-abusive-partner https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/when-you-can-t-afford-to-leave-your-abusive-partner When the local domestic violence shelter is full, what other options do domestic abuse victims have for housing assistance? Fri, 10 Apr 2015 17:43:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/no-room-at-the-shelter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/no-room-at-the-shelter Leaving a safe house can be a redefining period; here are six ways to revitalize your spirit and find a new path. Mon, 13 Apr 2015 17:33:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/revitalizing-your-spirit-after-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/revitalizing-your-spirit-after-abuse The 12 important questions to consider asking when it's time to enter a domestic violence emergency shelter. Mon, 13 Apr 2015 18:22:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/important-questions-to-ask-a-shelter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/important-questions-to-ask-a-shelter The nonprofit A Call to Men aims at stopping violence against women by teaching young men how to respect the opposite gender. Mon, 13 Apr 2015 18:33:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/a-call-to-men https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/a-call-to-men A guide to the symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder or PTSD. Mon, 13 Apr 2015 18:40:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/abuse-survivors-are-you-experiencing-these-symptoms-of-ptsd https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/abuse-survivors-are-you-experiencing-these-symptoms-of-ptsd Eight ways to boost your self-confidence after escaping domestic violence. Mon, 13 Apr 2015 18:49:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/8-confidence-boosters https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/8-confidence-boosters Numerous important facts and statistics related to markers predictive of domestic violence including source citations. Tue, 14 Apr 2015 14:22:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/predictive-indicators-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/predictive-indicators-of-domestic-violence Dr. Phil helps a teen avoid abusive relationships, meets with a survivor about safety planning, and introduces a new emergency alert app called Aspire News. Mon, 20 Apr 2015 05:31:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/dr-phil-talks-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/dr-phil-talks-domestic-violence Author Jeremy Donovan on how to give advice so it actually resonates and makes in impact. Wed, 06 May 2015 04:07:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/be-a-better-advice-giver https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/be-a-better-advice-giver If you grew up with domestic violence, five facts you should be aware of. Thu, 14 May 2015 04:17:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/5-facts-about-children-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/5-facts-about-children-of-domestic-violence The Power and Control Wheel can help survivors, batterers and advocates better understand domestic abuse. Wed, 20 May 2015 16:52:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/is-the-cycle-of-violence-outdated https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/is-the-cycle-of-violence-outdated Free training courses for companies looking to teach employees how to identify domestic violence among coworkers. Wed, 20 May 2015 16:58:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/employers-free-domestic-violence-training-courses-offered https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/employers-free-domestic-violence-training-courses-offered Survivors of domestic violence afraid to step forward, fearing they'll take the blame for the abuse. Wed, 20 May 2015 17:05:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-victim-shaming https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-victim-shaming The story of domestic violence survivor Kit Gruelle, who went from abuse to advocacy. Wed, 20 May 2015 17:15:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-kit-gruelle https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-kit-gruelle Documenting domestic violence could help you be more successful in future court cases. Wed, 20 May 2015 21:41:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/document-domestic-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/document-domestic-abuse Trauma from abuse can create a hefty does of anxiety, exhaustion and depression. Try these five workouts to help combat stress. Wed, 20 May 2015 21:49:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/exercise-can-help-zap-stress https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/exercise-can-help-zap-stress Free summer marathon concert June 6 to raise awareness, funds to stop violence against women. Thu, 21 May 2015 13:50:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/get-noisy-about-stopping-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/get-noisy-about-stopping-violence Ten ways to use your mind and thoughts to recover from violence and refill your life with zest. Fri, 22 May 2015 20:49:36 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/has-life-been-sucked-out-of-you https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/has-life-been-sucked-out-of-you How to participate in National Gun Violence Awareness Day by wearing orange, taking a stand, and helping reduce gun access among abusers. Sat, 30 May 2015 19:24:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/guns-domestic-violence-and-the-color-orange https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/guns-domestic-violence-and-the-color-orange Domestic abuse survivor Melissa Dohme to marry a paramedic who helped save her life Mon, 01 Jun 2015 04:18:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/finding-love-after-tragedy https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/finding-love-after-tragedy Financial abuse IS domestic violence—find out if what your partner is doing falls into this category Mon, 01 Jun 2015 04:25:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/are-you-the-victim-of-financial-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/are-you-the-victim-of-financial-abuse When it comes to domestic violence, is mutual abuse a real thing? Or does the term only hurt victims and survivors? Mon, 01 Jun 2015 04:42:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/is-mutual-abuse-real https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/is-mutual-abuse-real How to ensure your safety at work after you leave an abusive partner without needing to find a new job. Mon, 01 Jun 2015 04:55:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/on-the-clock-how-to-protect-yourself-at-work https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/on-the-clock-how-to-protect-yourself-at-work Inspring TED Talks from both men and women on the topic of domestic violence Mon, 01 Jun 2015 05:10:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/4-ted-speakers-who-aim-to-inspire-change https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/4-ted-speakers-who-aim-to-inspire-change What to do if an abusive partner violates a personal protection order or restraining order. Mon, 01 Jun 2015 05:17:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/what-to-do-if-an-abuser-violates-a-personal-protection-order https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/what-to-do-if-an-abuser-violates-a-personal-protection-order New tool allows victims to compare the features of domestic violence programs side-by-side on 96 attributes and to make the best choice. Mon, 08 Jun 2015 18:07:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/first-shelter-comparison-service-launched https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/first-shelter-comparison-service-launched How law enforcement officers are teaming up with domestic violence advocates in order to help domestic violence survivors get a fair shake. Wed, 10 Jun 2015 18:30:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/advocates-team-with-police-as-first-responders https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/advocates-team-with-police-as-first-responders Schoolyard bullies can grow up to be abusive partners, but the cycle of domestic violence can be stopped. Thu, 02 Jul 2015 22:42:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/from-bully-to-batterer https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/from-bully-to-batterer How to spot when your abuser has installed tracking apps on your phone. Thu, 02 Jul 2015 22:48:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/how-to-spy-spyware-on-your-phone https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/how-to-spy-spyware-on-your-phone Depression can be caused by internal and external factors. Do you know how to recognize the signs of depression in yourself? Thu, 02 Jul 2015 22:59:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/the-signs-of-depression https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/the-signs-of-depression An expert analysis of the long-term effects of domestic violence on adults and children. Thu, 09 Jul 2015 05:10:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/time-doesn-t-heal-all-wounds https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/time-doesn-t-heal-all-wounds Positive results shown when police use GPS to track batters. Thu, 09 Jul 2015 05:24:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/using-gps-to-track-batterers https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/using-gps-to-track-batterers A new program requires domestic violence offenders to turn over their firearms. Thu, 09 Jul 2015 05:37:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/overcoming-the-domestic-violence-gun-law-gotcha https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/overcoming-the-domestic-violence-gun-law-gotcha Use DomesticShelters.org to learn how to escape violence, help other survivors and stay informed Sun, 19 Jul 2015 17:08:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/5-ways-to-use-domesticshelters-org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/5-ways-to-use-domesticshelters-org Domestic violence survivor Wendy's true story of violence, her escape and how she's healed Sun, 19 Jul 2015 17:20:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-wendy https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-wendy If you live in a rural area, will a protection orders be just as effective? Sun, 19 Jul 2015 18:10:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/do-protective-orders-work-in-rural-areas https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/do-protective-orders-work-in-rural-areas Robin McGraw talks about her domestic violence foundation, When Georgia Smiled. Sun, 19 Jul 2015 18:14:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/when-georgia-smiled https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/when-georgia-smiled Mobile advocates bring domestic violence services where survivors feel safe. Sun, 19 Jul 2015 18:20:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/we-ll-come-to-you https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/we-ll-come-to-you Survivor Jessica Houston talks about living through domestic violence and how she finally got away. Sun, 19 Jul 2015 18:21:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-jessica-houston https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-jessica-houston Domestic abuse in pregnancy is a leading cause of harm and even death. Discover warning signs, risks, and how to seek help safely. Thu, 30 Jul 2015 18:15:48 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/when-pregnancy-triggers-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/when-pregnancy-triggers-violence Donating an old, unused, even nonworking cell phone, to the NCADV can help survivors of domestic violence. Mon, 03 Aug 2015 13:18:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/your-old-cell-phone-can-help-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/your-old-cell-phone-can-help-survivors Why hugs can trigger fear in some survivors of domestic violence and other ways to show affection. Mon, 03 Aug 2015 13:28:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/hugs-that-don-t-trigger-fear-in-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/hugs-that-don-t-trigger-fear-in-survivors Research shows a link between intimate partner violence and an increased risk of contracting HIV. Mon, 03 Aug 2015 13:37:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/10-things-to-know-about-ipv-and-hiv https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/10-things-to-know-about-ipv-and-hiv Simple self-defense moves to stun an attacker from Gabrielle Rubin, founder and head instructor of Female Awareness Self-Defense. Mon, 03 Aug 2015 13:50:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/defending-yourself-101 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/defending-yourself-101 Five ways to use DomesticShelters.org to help prevent violence in your community. Sun, 16 Aug 2015 18:00:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/how-you-can-help-just-by-using-this-site https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/how-you-can-help-just-by-using-this-site To help you heal after trauma, cleansing your body of harmful toxins is one place to start. Sun, 16 Aug 2015 18:10:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/recharge-rejuvenate-and-renew https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/recharge-rejuvenate-and-renew When thinking about domestic violence, the image of a young family often comes to mind. But, the truth is, abuse can happen at any age. Know the five signs that may indicate elder abuse. Sun, 16 Aug 2015 19:26:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/5-signs-of-elder-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/5-signs-of-elder-abuse The Equality Wheel is another way to understand the pattern of domestic violence. Fri, 21 Aug 2015 16:42:48 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-equality-wheel-explained https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-equality-wheel-explained How Arkansas domestic abuse survivor Laura Webb fought to change the law and protect future victims. Fri, 21 Aug 2015 16:51:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/new-legislation-to-help-survivors-in-arkansas https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/new-legislation-to-help-survivors-in-arkansas There are some benefits for domestic violence survivors in changing their social security number, but it's not an easy process. Fri, 21 Aug 2015 17:27:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protecting-personal-effects/should-you-change-your-social-security-number https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protecting-personal-effects/should-you-change-your-social-security-number Laughter can help you heal after trauma. Try these ways to get the giggles. Mon, 31 Aug 2015 02:55:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-find-your-laugh-again https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-find-your-laugh-again When pro bodybuilder Roger Lockridge struggled as an adult, he didn't realize it was because he spent his childhood witnessing domestic violence Mon, 31 Aug 2015 03:02:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/finding-a-name-for-his-adversity https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/finding-a-name-for-his-adversity The true story of how Loren surviving domestic violence and how she finally got out - and got better. Mon, 31 Aug 2015 03:12:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/true-survivor-lorel https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/true-survivor-lorel Helping children understand what domestic violence is can be tricky -- six tips to help them understand Tue, 08 Sep 2015 04:06:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/explaining-violence-to-kids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/explaining-violence-to-kids Police officers see domestic violence all too often -- how a former officer is helping them earn the trust of survivors Tue, 08 Sep 2015 04:19:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/domestic-violence-from-a-police-officer-s-perspective https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/domestic-violence-from-a-police-officer-s-perspective Batterer receives a record-breaking 45-year-sentence for domestic violence Sun, 13 Sep 2015 21:05:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/serious-jail-time https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/serious-jail-time Escaping domestic violence for survivors in a rural setting often brings with it additional challenges Mon, 14 Sep 2015 03:59:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/a-rural-barrier https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/a-rural-barrier Domestic violence can happen against men, too. Some eye-opening statistics show how prevalent it is Wed, 16 Sep 2015 02:31:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/men-can-be-abused-too https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/men-can-be-abused-too Intimate partner abuse that is often disguised as love, along with an online assessment to determine if your partner is too controlling. Fri, 18 Sep 2015 04:25:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abuse-that-s-hard-to-recognize-coercive-control https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abuse-that-s-hard-to-recognize-coercive-control Three areas of of domestic violence legislation which advocates say they're lobbying for in 2015 Mon, 28 Sep 2015 21:23:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/the-laws-advocates-say-need-to-change-in-2015 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/the-laws-advocates-say-need-to-change-in-2015 Tips from a divorce coach on proving nonphysical forms of domestic abuse in court Sat, 03 Oct 2015 04:12:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-prove-nonphysical-abuse-in-court https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-prove-nonphysical-abuse-in-court After leaving an abusive partner, adopting a new furry friend may have healing powers Sat, 03 Oct 2015 16:38:36 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/could-adopting-a-pet-help-you-heal https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/could-adopting-a-pet-help-you-heal She was a young mother who fell into an abuser's trap. Now free, what she wishes she would have known earlier Sat, 03 Oct 2015 16:48:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/true-survivor-story-one-abusive-husband-followed-another https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/true-survivor-story-one-abusive-husband-followed-another One survivor's story of escaping coercive control and how we can help stop the cycle. Sat, 03 Oct 2015 17:12:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/my-experience-with-coercive-control https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/my-experience-with-coercive-control They start off as charming and sweet, but abusers who use coercive control are wolves in sheeps' clothing. Sat, 03 Oct 2015 17:13:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-coercive-control https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-coercive-control After domestic abuse, how you can go from simply surviving to living your best life yet Sat, 03 Oct 2015 17:22:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-go-from-thriving-to-surviving-after-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-go-from-thriving-to-surviving-after-abuse Numerous important facts and statistics related to guns and domestic violence, including source citations. Wed, 07 Oct 2015 06:50:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/guns-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/guns-and-domestic-violence When looking at gun violence, like the recent movie theater shooting, are we ignoring the domestic violence behind the scenes? Wed, 14 Oct 2015 03:11:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/trainwreck-shooting-tied-to-dv https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/trainwreck-shooting-tied-to-dv When survivors defend themselves from an abuser, their abuser may claim they were the victim Wed, 14 Oct 2015 03:20:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-self-defense-can-go-wrong https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-self-defense-can-go-wrong An annual conference helps battered mothers fighting for custody of their children come together and find hope Tue, 20 Oct 2015 03:24:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/strong-battered-mothers-custody-conference-strong https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/strong-battered-mothers-custody-conference-strong If a batterer breaks a restraining order, what happens next? What can you do to keep yourself safe? Tue, 20 Oct 2015 03:30:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/what-happens-when-someone-violates-a-court-order https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/what-happens-when-someone-violates-a-court-order Psychopaths aren't necessarily serial killers -- they can be the innocent-seeming person you just started dating. How to spot the signs. Tue, 20 Oct 2015 03:36:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/strong-dating-a-psychopath-strong https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/strong-dating-a-psychopath-strong Should children be taught how to recognize the signs of trauma in their own life, instead of waiting on adults to spot them? Tue, 20 Oct 2015 03:57:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-to-recognize-trauma-in-children https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-to-recognize-trauma-in-children Answering the most frequently asked questions regarding orders of protection and how to get one. Tue, 20 Oct 2015 04:03:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/faqs-about-protection-orders https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/faqs-about-protection-orders Description: At least 33 states have anti-SLAPP laws on the books, preventing abusers from suing survivors who want to speak out about their victimization. Mon, 02 Nov 2015 04:06:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-anti-slapp-laws-work https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-anti-slapp-laws-work Living with or leaving an abusive partner can lead to disruptive sleep—tips for quieting the mind and body Mon, 02 Nov 2015 04:38:12 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/6-ways-to-get-better-sleep https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/6-ways-to-get-better-sleep Gaslighting, a type of psychological abuse, involves the abuser trying to turn the tables and blame the victim Wed, 04 Nov 2015 04:40:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/gaslighting/what-is-gaslighting https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/gaslighting/what-is-gaslighting How a minor can secure an order of protection when they're the victim of domestic abuse Wed, 04 Nov 2015 04:59:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/can-i-get-a-protection-order-if-i-m-under-18 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/can-i-get-a-protection-order-if-i-m-under-18 Domestic abuse survivor Regina Rowley is teaching other women how to feel empowered Wed, 04 Nov 2015 05:13:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-regina-rowley https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-regina-rowley Tips for reentering the dating scene after leaving an abusive relationship. Wed, 04 Nov 2015 15:43:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/dating-after-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/dating-after-domestic-violence When a batterer scares a survivor out of testifying, this is witness tampering. Wed, 04 Nov 2015 16:21:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/threatened-not-to-testify https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/threatened-not-to-testify It's not just a piece of paper—a study shows survivors of domestic violence with an order of protection are less likely to be killed Wed, 04 Nov 2015 16:32:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/seeking-help-could-save-your-life https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/seeking-help-could-save-your-life Eating dinner together is one proven way to heal a fractured family. We talk to an expert who offers more ways to create happiness and unity through daily rituals. Sun, 29 Nov 2015 20:35:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/creating-a-safe-space-at-the-dinner-table https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/creating-a-safe-space-at-the-dinner-table If you suspect emotional abuse, take this five-question emotional abuse test to see if you recognize any of these tactics. Sat, 05 Dec 2015 16:00:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/how-to-recognize-emotional-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/how-to-recognize-emotional-abuse How to represent yourself in court when filing for an order of protection against your abuser Sat, 05 Dec 2015 16:27:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/representing-yourself-in-court https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/representing-yourself-in-court After growing up with childhood domestic violence, one woman sought out the familiar by marrying an abuser Sat, 05 Dec 2015 16:36:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-nancy-virden https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-nancy-virden Tips for teens on understanding what consent means in relationships Sat, 05 Dec 2015 16:40:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/does-your-partner-respect-your-no https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/does-your-partner-respect-your-no One of the pioneers of the domestic violence movement talks about opening the first battered women's shelter Sat, 05 Dec 2015 16:47:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/i-helped-open-one-of-the-first-battered-women-s-shelters https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/i-helped-open-one-of-the-first-battered-women-s-shelters What do you do when no one believes that you are being abused by your partner or spouse? Sat, 05 Dec 2015 17:00:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-no-one-believes-you https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-no-one-believes-you When children witness violence at home, it can be more difficult for parents to teach them that hurting others is wrong. Sat, 12 Dec 2015 20:39:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/mixed-message-for-kids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/mixed-message-for-kids College students are the most likely age demographic for domestic violence. Find out what to do if you suspect you’re with an abusive partner. Sun, 13 Dec 2015 21:12:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/college-women-among-highest-at-risk-for-partner-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/college-women-among-highest-at-risk-for-partner-violence Sly abusers will often use this five-step process to ultimately convince a survivor to recant their story. Sun, 13 Dec 2015 21:20:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/how-abusers-trick-survivors-into-denying-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/how-abusers-trick-survivors-into-denying-abuse After surviving domestic violence, there are different ways you can use your voice and your journey to advocate for others. Sun, 13 Dec 2015 21:33:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/speaking-out https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/speaking-out New California law requires college students get affirmative consent before becoming intimate. Sun, 13 Dec 2015 21:54:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/california-s-yes-means-yes-law https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/california-s-yes-means-yes-law Kids not 'witnesses' to domestic violence, they are the victims we don't talk about enough. Learn about childhood domestic violence. Fri, 18 Dec 2015 18:00:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/why-does-no-one-google-children-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/why-does-no-one-google-children-and-domestic-violence The steps to overcoming adversity from your childhood, according to CDV.org founder and childhood domestic violence expert Brian Martin. Mon, 28 Dec 2015 02:38:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/strong-because-of-the-adversity-i-faced-in-childhood-there-s-nothing-i-can-t-do-strong https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/strong-because-of-the-adversity-i-faced-in-childhood-there-s-nothing-i-can-t-do-strong A family court judge shares her perspective on how domestic abuse cases typically fail or succeed for survivors Wed, 30 Dec 2015 00:01:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/one-judge-s-take-on-the-challenges-of-family-court https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/one-judge-s-take-on-the-challenges-of-family-court Why doesn't she leave? A survivor lists 50 reasons why escaping domestic violence isn't as simple as walking out the door Thu, 31 Dec 2015 02:49:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/barriers-to-leaving-part-i https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/barriers-to-leaving-part-i In homes where violence is present, more teens are choosing the streets to find safety Thu, 31 Dec 2015 02:55:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/runaway-youth https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/runaway-youth Symptoms of seasonal affective disorder and how to combat them Thu, 31 Dec 2015 03:05:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/solutions-for-sad https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/solutions-for-sad How much do you know about stalking? Take this five question quiz to find out. Thu, 31 Dec 2015 03:12:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/the-stats-on-stalking https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/the-stats-on-stalking What are unsafe people and why is it important to spot them early in relationships? Thu, 31 Dec 2015 03:25:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/recognizing-unsafe-people https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/recognizing-unsafe-people Parental alienation in domestic violence cases. What to do when your abuser tries to turn your children against you. Thu, 31 Dec 2015 03:38:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/caught-in-the-middle https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/caught-in-the-middle Dating after domestic violence can be tricky, but looking for safe people starts with learning how to set boundaries Thu, 31 Dec 2015 03:45:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/how-do-you-find-safe-people https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/how-do-you-find-safe-people Dating partners, not spouses, murder their partners most often either when they try to leave or as a final act of control. Tue, 12 Jan 2016 03:02:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/the-rise-of-dating-homicides https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/the-rise-of-dating-homicides When a loved one returns to an abuser, the best ways to support them may not be what you think. Tue, 12 Jan 2016 03:20:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/when-a-survivor-returns-to-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/when-a-survivor-returns-to-an-abuser The challenges of bringing your teens to an emergency shelter when escaping domestic violence. Tue, 12 Jan 2016 03:48:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/escaping-with-older-kids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/escaping-with-older-kids Enduring trauma as a child affects people long-term and can't simply be forgotten as an adult. Tue, 12 Jan 2016 04:07:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/why-you-can-t-just-get-over-the-adversity-you-faced-in-childhood https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/why-you-can-t-just-get-over-the-adversity-you-faced-in-childhood An isolated incident of abuse by a partner might have you questioning—will it happen again? Fri, 29 Jan 2016 03:34:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/will-it-happen-again https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/will-it-happen-again Why can't a survivor just leave an abuser? Ten possible reasons to why it isn't as easy as it seems. Fri, 29 Jan 2016 03:51:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/barriers-to-leaving-part-2 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/barriers-to-leaving-part-2 Why spoiling your kids with love and attention after escaping domestic violence is a good thing Fri, 29 Jan 2016 03:59:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/spoiling-your-kids-the-right-way https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/spoiling-your-kids-the-right-way What is normal jealousy when dating, and what signals a red flag that it's more than just jealousy? Fri, 29 Jan 2016 04:12:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/normal-jealousy-or-the-start-of-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/normal-jealousy-or-the-start-of-abuse A nonprofit that's goal is to uphold orders of protection for domestic violence survivors Sat, 30 Jan 2016 02:11:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/protecting-protection-orders https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/protecting-protection-orders Tattoo artist using her skills to cover scars for domestic violence victims Sat, 30 Jan 2016 02:29:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/free-tattoos-for-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/free-tattoos-for-survivors Survivors step forward to say police aren't taking their reports of domestic violence seriously. Sat, 30 Jan 2016 02:40:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/when-survivors-encounter-discrimination https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/when-survivors-encounter-discrimination What are important items you need to make sure you have before you leave your abuser? Sat, 30 Jan 2016 02:50:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/packing-your-bags https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/packing-your-bags A low mood is common for survivors of domestic violence. These five foods can improve your mood and play an important role in self-care. Sat, 30 Jan 2016 02:55:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/5-mood-boosting-food-for-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/5-mood-boosting-food-for-survivors Domestic violence and abuse questions from survivors answered in monthly advice-finding column. Tue, 09 Feb 2016 02:55:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-can-i-make-anxiety-attacks-stop https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-can-i-make-anxiety-attacks-stop When survivors of abuse turn to alcohol or other substances in order to cope Tue, 09 Feb 2016 03:05:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/using-drugs-and-alcohol-to-cope-with-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/using-drugs-and-alcohol-to-cope-with-abuse Can batterer counseling reform an abuser? One shelter thinks it may be possible Tue, 09 Feb 2016 03:18:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-batterer-counseling https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-batterer-counseling One domestic violence shelter believes violence is learned, and can possibly be unlearned through counseling Tue, 09 Feb 2016 03:30:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-batterer-counseling-part-ii https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-batterer-counseling-part-ii How to get involved in the 2016 Week of Action March 6-12 to help prevent domestic violence Tue, 23 Feb 2016 23:50:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/no-more-week-of-action https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/no-more-week-of-action How supporters of domestic abuse victims can avoid burnout by practicing self care. Fri, 26 Feb 2016 04:09:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-survivor-advocates-can-avoid-burnout https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-survivor-advocates-can-avoid-burnout Victims of domestic violence may stay because of love, a desire to keep their family together or a secret they don't want to reveal Fri, 26 Feb 2016 04:14:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/barriers-to-leaving-part-3 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/barriers-to-leaving-part-3 Teaching about domestic violence with an innovative new board game developed by domestic violence experts. Sat, 27 Feb 2016 11:04:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/a-new-way-to-teach-domestic-violence-awareness https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/a-new-way-to-teach-domestic-violence-awareness Quiz yourself: Do you know the barriers survivors have to overcome to leave their abusers? Sat, 27 Feb 2016 11:17:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/quiz-the-trouble-with-leaving https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/quiz-the-trouble-with-leaving Information and registration for 2016 Battered Mother's Custody Conference on May 6-8, 2016 Sun, 28 Feb 2016 01:24:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/battered-mother-s-custody-conference-2016 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/battered-mother-s-custody-conference-2016 Abusers can manipulate religion to keep a partner trapped in a dangerous marriage. Tue, 01 Mar 2016 17:11:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/do-you-feel-trapped-by-your-faith https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/do-you-feel-trapped-by-your-faith When domestic violence and wealth combine, abusers often feel a sense of entitlement Tue, 08 Mar 2016 03:39:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/domestic-violence-in-affluent-marriages https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/domestic-violence-in-affluent-marriages Bench trial vs. jury trial for an accused abuser—is one more beneficial to a survivor of domestic violence? Tue, 08 Mar 2016 03:48:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda A Dallas, Texas batterer reform program says it's one piece of the puzzle to helping stop abuse. Tue, 08 Mar 2016 04:06:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-batterer-counseling-part-3 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-batterer-counseling-part-3 Five techniques to help banish child-parent bullying from your home and regain your sanity. Tue, 08 Mar 2016 04:19:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/could-my-child-be-abusive https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/could-my-child-be-abusive She endured an abusive boyfriend in her early 20's—what she took away from it influences her parenting style today. Tue, 08 Mar 2016 04:26:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-anna https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-anna A Southern California moving company helps survivors of violence escape their homes. Wed, 09 Mar 2016 00:00:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/movers-help-domestic-violence-survivors-get-out https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/movers-help-domestic-violence-survivors-get-out Technology means abusers have more ways to stalk than ever before. Abusers use these tactics when cyberstalking victims. Wed, 09 Mar 2016 00:09:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/the-new-cyberstalking https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/the-new-cyberstalking The story behind how purple became associated with ending domestic violence. Wed, 09 Mar 2016 00:20:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/the-color-purple https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/the-color-purple Plan for your emotional safety after leaving an abusive partner to ensure you can properly heal after abuse. Wed, 09 Mar 2016 00:28:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/an-emotional-safety-plan-in-4-steps https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/an-emotional-safety-plan-in-4-steps The long-lasting side effects of strangulation, a common tactic of abusers. Wed, 09 Mar 2016 03:15:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/strangulation-can-leave-long-lasting-injuries https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/strangulation-can-leave-long-lasting-injuries How to create boundaries in relationships to safe guard personal goals, dreams, values, autonomy and self-worth. Wed, 09 Mar 2016 03:25:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/where-are-your-boundaries https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/where-are-your-boundaries This mom of two says her experience with dating violence as a teen will influence what she teaches her own two kids when it comes time to date. Wed, 06 Apr 2016 03:46:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-alyssa https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-alyssa These two books are teaching children about domestic violence through picture books. Wed, 06 Apr 2016 03:56:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/putting-domestic-violence-in-pictures https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/putting-domestic-violence-in-pictures La'Porsha Renae had just left a domestic violence shelter two months before auditioning for AMERICAN IDOL. Now she's a season 15 finalist. Read and watch her inspiring story. Thu, 07 Apr 2016 22:58:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-survivor-finalist-american-idol https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-survivor-finalist-american-idol It's not so easy to just leave an abuser, especially if you don't have job skills or any place to go. Wed, 13 Apr 2016 17:40:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/barriers-to-leaving-part-4 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/barriers-to-leaving-part-4 Taking a vacation can be a healing endeavor, but getaways shouldn’t be limited to only those with a hefty savings account. How to plan a fun summer getaway on a tight budget. Wed, 13 Apr 2016 17:48:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/6-ways-to-get-away-for-cheap https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/6-ways-to-get-away-for-cheap An abuser who stops drinking is just a sober abuser, says one expert. Why alcohol is not the cause of domestic violence. Wed, 13 Apr 2016 17:54:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/why-we-can-t-blame-abuse-on-alcohol https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/why-we-can-t-blame-abuse-on-alcohol The FBI begins to track animal abuse in order to help prevent domestic violence. Wed, 13 Apr 2016 18:00:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/fbi-begins-tracking-animal-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/fbi-begins-tracking-animal-abuse When survivors minimize domestic violence, it can be out of fear, guilt or as a self-protection measure. Wed, 13 Apr 2016 18:12:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/why-some-survivors-minimize-their-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/why-some-survivors-minimize-their-abuse Four things to consider when starting a new relationship after domestic violence. Fri, 15 Apr 2016 21:15:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/starting-a-new-relationship-after-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/starting-a-new-relationship-after-abuse Police officers are trained to respond to domestic violence calls in a specific way in order to stay safe. Fri, 15 Apr 2016 21:25:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-police-are-trained-to-respond-to-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-police-are-trained-to-respond-to-domestic-violence Secondary survivors can be cut out of a loved one's life by an abusive partner. Fri, 15 Apr 2016 21:30:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/who-are-secondary-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/who-are-secondary-survivors How strangulation can lead to traumatic brain injury and healing guidelines from the Brain Injury Association of America. Sun, 17 Apr 2016 20:06:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/how-strangulation-affects-the-brain https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/how-strangulation-affects-the-brain Stockholm syndrome can be a survival tactic by survivors or a form of manipulation by abusive partners Thu, 21 Apr 2016 17:44:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/can-dv-survivors-have-stockholm-syndrome https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/can-dv-survivors-have-stockholm-syndrome A woman who escaped a decade of domestic abuse is now healthy and safe, but has one lingering regret—not telling her kids the truth. Thu, 21 Apr 2016 17:55:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-caroline-abbott https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-caroline-abbott Why it's so important to say "violent partner" and to avoid "avoid relationship" when talking or writing about abuse. Thu, 21 Apr 2016 18:08:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/why-the-media-needs-to-start-using-the-right-terms https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/why-the-media-needs-to-start-using-the-right-terms Learn about perspecticide or losing one's own viewpoints and desires by being overwhelmed by those of an abusive or controlling partner. Fri, 22 Apr 2016 21:52:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/gaslighting/perspecticide-erased-by-your-partner https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/gaslighting/perspecticide-erased-by-your-partner Eight steps to healing after an abusive relationships organized by the letters R-E-C-O-V-E-R-Y. Find out what each letter stands for in the healing journey. Fri, 22 Apr 2016 22:35:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/recovery-after-a-controlling-relationship https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/recovery-after-a-controlling-relationship Being a mother is the most challenging job in the world made far more difficult when an abusive father or boyfriend works to separate the children from their mother. Fri, 22 Apr 2016 23:16:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/8-ways-controlling-men-make-mothering-even-harder https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/8-ways-controlling-men-make-mothering-even-harder Award winning poet and playwright Magdalena Gomez confronts the Mother Taboo and how as an adult she "divorced" her abusive mother. Sat, 23 Apr 2016 04:18:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/divorce-your-bad-mother-how-to-leave-her-and-still-be-free https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/divorce-your-bad-mother-how-to-leave-her-and-still-be-free Inspiration for those feeling burdened by the life's mishaps, a journey of life-changing lessons observed by Lisa Fontes, Ph.D. Sat, 23 Apr 2016 04:42:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/building-resilience-after-trauma-lessons-from-chile https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/building-resilience-after-trauma-lessons-from-chile How abusers put survivors on defensive with deceptive custody strategy sometimes called parental alienation syndrome, maternal gate-keeping, or alienation theory. Wed, 27 Apr 2016 22:42:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/children-used-as-pawns-in-court https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/children-used-as-pawns-in-court Another way to protect yourself from an abuser: the address confidentiality program. A look at ways to hide your address. Sun, 08 May 2016 03:59:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protecting-personal-effects/how-to-hide-your-address https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protecting-personal-effects/how-to-hide-your-address 10 reasons why survivors of domestic abuse may not be able to simply walk away from their abuser. Sun, 08 May 2016 04:14:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/barriers-to-leaving-part-5 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/barriers-to-leaving-part-5 Surviving domestic violence as a child can have lasting effects as you become a parent. Sun, 08 May 2016 04:20:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/you-don-t-have-to-earn-the-love-of-your-children https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/you-don-t-have-to-earn-the-love-of-your-children Financial assistance for survivors of domestic abuse is a state-funded program in some states. Sun, 08 May 2016 04:32:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-is-crime-victim-compensation https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-is-crime-victim-compensation A thrift store in Ohio allows victims of domestic violence to shop for free. Mon, 09 May 2016 02:37:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/survivors-shop-free https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/survivors-shop-free South Asian survivors of domestic abuse face unique cultural challenges. Mon, 09 May 2016 03:00:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/the-barriers-for-south-asian-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/the-barriers-for-south-asian-survivors Helping a friend who discloses abuse can be challenging when she’s not ready to listen. Mon, 09 May 2016 03:13:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-they-re-not-ready-for-help https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-they-re-not-ready-for-help Sexual abuse can take on more forms than just rape. Learn the four different types of sexual abuse. Mon, 09 May 2016 03:20:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-abusers-use-sexual-abuse-to-control https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-abusers-use-sexual-abuse-to-control Domestic violence survivors found to be at a higher risk for suicide. Tue, 10 May 2016 02:41:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/domestic-violence-survivors-at-higher-risk-for-suicide https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/domestic-violence-survivors-at-higher-risk-for-suicide One mom's story of escaping domestic violence and what she hopes her kids will take away from it. Tue, 10 May 2016 02:52:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-amy-phoenix https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-amy-phoenix As a teen, what do you do if your friend reveals he or she is with an abusive partner? Tue, 10 May 2016 03:04:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/when-a-friend-is-in-trouble https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/when-a-friend-is-in-trouble Officer-involved domestic violence can mean survivors are more afraid to speak out. Thu, 12 May 2016 02:28:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/not-above-the-law https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/not-above-the-law Why protection orders are important even if there are some flaws in enforcing them. Thu, 12 May 2016 02:46:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/will-my-abuser-retaliate https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/will-my-abuser-retaliate Why some survivors of abuse use self-injury to cope, plus tips from Mental Health America on how to overcome it. Thu, 12 May 2016 02:53:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/when-survivors-self-injure-to-cope https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/when-survivors-self-injure-to-cope What happened to one mom when her abusive ex-husband sexually abused their daughter and then got custody of her. Thu, 12 May 2016 02:59:48 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-maralee-mclean https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-maralee-mclean As a survivor of domestic abuse, where you can turn for help when those closest to you can't provide the support you need Thu, 12 May 2016 03:15:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-your-support-system-isn-t-clear https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-your-support-system-isn-t-clear How survivors of domestic abuse can face these common triggers and get through them with less panic Thu, 12 May 2016 03:32:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/when-the-feelings-rush-back https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/when-the-feelings-rush-back Vicarious trauma and compassion fatigue: when support persons take on too much of a helper role at a detriment to themselves Thu, 12 May 2016 03:50:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/when-domestic-violence-takes-a-toll-on-the-helpers https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/when-domestic-violence-takes-a-toll-on-the-helpers How to protect your children in the court system after they've endured child abuse or domestic violence. Thu, 12 May 2016 04:01:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/protecting-your-children-in-the-court-system https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/protecting-your-children-in-the-court-system Domestic violence can carry over to the survivor's workplace — why employers need to take this issue more seriously Thu, 12 May 2016 04:18:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/when-domestic-violence-follows-you-to-work https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/when-domestic-violence-follows-you-to-work A survivor of domestic violence needs to find a place to leave their pet while they get to safety. Thu, 12 May 2016 18:27:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-to-do-with-pets https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-to-do-with-pets A tool called the Danger Assessment could determine if your abusive partner is capable of homicide. Thu, 12 May 2016 18:40:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/danger-assessment-could-predict-if-an-abuser-will-kill https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/danger-assessment-could-predict-if-an-abuser-will-kill Stylists are often the first person many survivors feel comfortable disclosing abuse to—now, many are getting trained in how to respond.  Thu, 12 May 2016 18:48:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/positioned-to-help https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/positioned-to-help What is the difference between an order of protection and a restraining order when it comes to domestic abuse cases? Thu, 12 May 2016 18:54:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-difference-between-restraining-and-protection-orders https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-difference-between-restraining-and-protection-orders Where incest is occurring, domestic abuse is most likely also present. How the two are connected. Thu, 12 May 2016 20:19:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-incest-accompanies-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-incest-accompanies-domestic-violence A free online tool to help survivors of domestic abuse assess the danger level of their situation. Thu, 12 May 2016 20:37:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/threat-assessment-tool-created-by-em-gift-of-fear-em-author https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/threat-assessment-tool-created-by-em-gift-of-fear-em-author Advice on how a survivor can co-parent with their abuser while protecting themselves and their children from further trauma. Fri, 13 May 2016 21:34:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-I-coparent-with-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-I-coparent-with-an-abuser Discusses the range of emotional stages people go through -- denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance -- as they deal with the end of the relationship. Mon, 23 May 2016 22:43:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/5-stages-of-recovery-after-a-breakup https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/5-stages-of-recovery-after-a-breakup Readers of DomesticShelters.org complete survey and identify the top 15 barriers to leaving an abusive relationship. Fri, 17 Jun 2016 15:22:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/the-biggest-barrier-to-leaving https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/the-biggest-barrier-to-leaving Want to do something to help prevent domestic violence, but not sure what? Start here. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 18:14:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/10-ways-you-can-help-prevent-domestic-violence-where-you-live https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/10-ways-you-can-help-prevent-domestic-violence-where-you-live After two generations of family violence, Katelyn persevered and built her own family free of abuse. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 18:28:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-katelyn https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-katelyn We review three apps that may be helpful in tracking when violence occurs and documenting the abuse to use later as evidence. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 18:38:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/smartphone-apps-that-help-you-document-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/smartphone-apps-that-help-you-document-abuse For individuals who experience traumatic events as an adult or child, they can feel overly stressed even when there's nothing to stress about because of changes to their brain. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 18:51:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/how-trauma-rewires-the-brain https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/how-trauma-rewires-the-brain Organization teaches women how to defend themselves before things get physical, using intuition, awareness, boundaries and more. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 18:59:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/girls-fight-back https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/girls-fight-back There are a multitude of places where you can find quality therapy and counseling, after experiencing domestic abuse, that are free or very affordable. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 21:14:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-get-therapy-if-i-can-t-afford-it https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-get-therapy-if-i-can-t-afford-it Unconventional Apology Project and artist Chantal Barlow create portraits of domestic violence survivors smiling, laughing and thriving along with their intimate stories of abuse. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 21:24:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/powerful-portraits https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/powerful-portraits The truth is, you have already faced one of the greatest fears that any person can face, if you've experienced violence as a child. How to harness this strength as you grow. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 21:44:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/open-letter-to-young-people-growing-up-with-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/open-letter-to-young-people-growing-up-with-domestic-violence Substance abuse may help domestic violence survivors cope or it may be forced upon them by an abuser, in both cases making escaping more difficult. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 22:00:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/strong-strong-when-survivors-are-forced-to-use-strong-strong https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/strong-strong-when-survivors-are-forced-to-use-strong-strong Uncover the hidden signs of gaslighting with our quiz and learn how to protect yourself from this subtle form of abuse and understand how it affects relationships. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 22:12:00 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/gaslighting/gaslighting-could-you-be-missing-the-signs https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/gaslighting/gaslighting-could-you-be-missing-the-signs Domestic violence program in North Carolina uses trauma-sensitive yoga to heal domestic violence survivors and teach control over one's body and mind. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 22:28:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/yoga-instructor-brings-healing-to-one-shelter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/yoga-instructor-brings-healing-to-one-shelter Leaving an abusive relationship means finding another place to live. Start by contacting a domestic violence program, the hub for housing, legal, housing and financial help. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 22:42:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-m-struggling-to-find-a-place-to-stay https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-m-struggling-to-find-a-place-to-stay She’s a healing coach and soul nurturer who is using her experience with dating abuse as a teen to help adult survivors today. Sat, 16 Jul 2016 22:49:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-crystal-sanchez https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-crystal-sanchez Domestic violence law enforcement trainer Mark Wynn provides advice on getting police to take action when protection or restraining orders are violated by abusers. Mon, 18 Jul 2016 04:16:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-can-i-get-police-to-take-action https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-can-i-get-police-to-take-action Ideas for military spouses experiencing domestic violence and isolation. Mon, 18 Jul 2016 04:25:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-about-a-category-for-military-spouses https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-about-a-category-for-military-spouses Tips for advocates of domestic violence survivors to help avoid burning out Tue, 16 Aug 2016 03:24:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/when-the-work-is-too-much https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/when-the-work-is-too-much If you witness domestic violence as a child, there is something you need to know. Tue, 16 Aug 2016 04:02:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/the-one-truth-to-know https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/the-one-truth-to-know How to express yourself without fear after domestic violence as a way of healing. Mon, 22 Aug 2016 02:55:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/express-yourself https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/express-yourself How to help a friend admit that he or she is being abused by their partner. Mon, 22 Aug 2016 03:06:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-friend-is-in-denial https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-friend-is-in-denial A half-acre of greenhouses in Kentucky is more than community-supported agriculture—they're also a domestic violence shelter. Mon, 22 Aug 2016 03:18:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/growing-a-better-life https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/growing-a-better-life A group looks at economic justice for survivors and explores strategies to resolve economic dilemmas that hobble domestic violence survivors. Fri, 26 Aug 2016 16:05:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/she-has-no-money-she-ll-come-crawling-back-not https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/she-has-no-money-she-ll-come-crawling-back-not Teens: How to Talk to Your Parents About Dating Abuse” – A practical guide helping teens open up about unhealthy relationships, red flags, and getting help. Fri, 26 Aug 2016 21:00:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/teens-how-to-talk-to-your-parents-about-dating-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/teens-how-to-talk-to-your-parents-about-dating-abuse Don't believe these five myths about child custody and domestic violence. Sun, 28 Aug 2016 23:56:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/5-myths-about-child-custody-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/5-myths-about-child-custody-and-domestic-violence After enduring 25 years of abuse, it was Brigid Cox's hairdresser who helped her escape. Mon, 29 Aug 2016 00:06:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-brigid-cox https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-brigid-cox Verbal abuse often takes on these patterns. Learn the ten most common patterns from author Patricia Evans. Mon, 29 Aug 2016 00:20:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/10-patterns-of-verbal-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/10-patterns-of-verbal-abuse How to safely search the web when you fear your abuser is tracking you. Mon, 29 Aug 2016 00:25:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/safer-searching-online https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/safer-searching-online How to make a safety plan for leaving your abuser that fits your specific circumstances. Mon, 29 Aug 2016 00:31:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/customizing-your-safety-plan https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/customizing-your-safety-plan We explain what revenge port is and how abusers use it to control and harass their victims. Mon, 29 Aug 2016 00:41:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protecting-personal-effects/when-abusers-threaten-revenge-porn https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protecting-personal-effects/when-abusers-threaten-revenge-porn Where can you go if there's no room at your local domestic violence shelter? Mon, 29 Aug 2016 00:55:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/finding-a-safe-place https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/finding-a-safe-place A survivor's story of barely making it out of domestic violence alive. Mon, 29 Aug 2016 01:11:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-amy-thomson https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-amy-thomson Sign up for the 2017 Women's Revitalization Retreat for survivors of domestic violence. Mon, 29 Aug 2016 20:08:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/break-the-silence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/break-the-silence Twenty-three ways to get involved for Domestic Violence Awareness Month Tue, 13 Sep 2016 21:33:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/october-is-domestic-violence-awareness-month https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/october-is-domestic-violence-awareness-month Janice Fuller-Roberts explains why she hid the abuse she was experiencing and how to help others in situations like hers. Sun, 25 Sep 2016 19:38:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/this-is-why-i-didn-t-tell-you-he-was-beating-me https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/this-is-why-i-didn-t-tell-you-he-was-beating-me What over apologizing might mean for a survivor of abuse and how to react if you know someone who over apologizes. Fri, 30 Sep 2016 02:36:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/you-can-stop-apologizing-now https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/you-can-stop-apologizing-now Legal definitions and cyberstalking laws by state, additional helpful online resources about cyberstalking and ideas about what to do when you're being cyberstalked Fri, 30 Sep 2016 02:44:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-can-i-stop-my-cyberstalker https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-can-i-stop-my-cyberstalker If you grew up with domestic violence, there's something you should know. Fri, 30 Sep 2016 03:00:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/are-you-a-child-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/are-you-a-child-of-domestic-violence While not as common, female abusers do exist and men should not be ashamed to reach out for help. Tue, 04 Oct 2016 03:48:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/women-as-the-abusers https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/women-as-the-abusers How to become certified financially literate after escaping abuse, and how this will help you in the future. Tue, 04 Oct 2016 04:00:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/finding-financial-independence-after-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/finding-financial-independence-after-abuse What happens when domestic violence spills over into a survivor's place of employment? Tue, 04 Oct 2016 04:25:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/breaking-the-grip-of-workplace-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/breaking-the-grip-of-workplace-domestic-violence Out of a murder came a nonprofit hoping to teach violence prevention earlier. Tue, 04 Oct 2016 16:48:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/teaching-kids-to-be-brave https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/teaching-kids-to-be-brave Why some survivors of domestic violence are discriminated against when trying to find housing, and what they can do about it. Tue, 04 Oct 2016 17:47:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/abuse-survivors-not-welcome https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/abuse-survivors-not-welcome Cyber-abuse once was narrowly thought of as cyberbullying. As our world becomes increasingly digital and new technologies develop, so too does the definition of online abuse. Ten ways online abuse occurs. Tue, 04 Oct 2016 18:03:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/abusers-go-online https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/abusers-go-online Proactive ways to make sure your pets are safe when you are separating from an abuser. Tue, 04 Oct 2016 18:27:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/the-battle-for-pet-custody https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/the-battle-for-pet-custody Tips for how survivors can talk to police when called to a domestic violence incident. Tue, 04 Oct 2016 18:41:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/calling-the-police-shouldn-t-be-another-barrier https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/calling-the-police-shouldn-t-be-another-barrier A survivor who lost her mother and sister to domestic violence is spreading a message of hope Tue, 04 Oct 2016 18:50:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-e-marie-hall https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-e-marie-hall Free dental work offered for Toronto-area survivors of domestic violence. Tue, 04 Oct 2016 19:08:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/free-smiles-in-canada https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/free-smiles-in-canada Even though some may not perceive it as glamorous as giving to the arts, shelter board member explains why giving to abused women's groups is more essential. Wed, 05 Oct 2016 22:18:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/philanthropy-isn-t-always-sexy https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/philanthropy-isn-t-always-sexy ​Actress April Hernandez-Castillo talks about enduring dating violence. Tue, 08 Nov 2016 02:19:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-april-hernandez-castillo https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-april-hernandez-castillo Feeling angry even after you've escaped your abuser? Learning some coping techniques to not let the emotion overpower you. Tue, 08 Nov 2016 02:35:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/overcoming-anger https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/overcoming-anger Support is just as necessary after you leave an abusive partner. How to find it. Tue, 08 Nov 2016 03:19:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-to-keep-going-after-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-to-keep-going-after-abuse Volunteer pilots offer free flights for survivors of domestic abuse who need to escape. Tue, 08 Nov 2016 03:29:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/flying-the-survivor-skies https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/flying-the-survivor-skies Unrelenting stress as a child, such as from witnessing domestic violence, can have serious health effects as an adult. Tue, 08 Nov 2016 03:36:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/brain-changes https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/brain-changes Acclaimed photographer Donna Ferrato has been capturing images of domestic violence for the past 30 years. Tue, 08 Nov 2016 03:46:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/images-of-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/images-of-violence Judges look at how domestic abusers can wind up with custody of their children. Sun, 13 Nov 2016 21:06:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/why-are-abusers-getting-their-kids-in-a-split https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/why-are-abusers-getting-their-kids-in-a-split Leaving is often the most dangerous time for a survivor of domestic abuse. Sun, 13 Nov 2016 22:14:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/leaving-without-dying https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/leaving-without-dying A look at domestic violence among military families, including nine facts that indicate domestic violence is alive and well in the armed forces. Sun, 13 Nov 2016 22:52:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/the-facts-about-abuse-in-military-families https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/the-facts-about-abuse-in-military-families Tips on telling your kids you’re divorcing after domestic violence. Sun, 13 Nov 2016 23:33:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/talking-to-young-kids-about-divorce https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/talking-to-young-kids-about-divorce When a police officer was being abused by her husband, also on the force, no one on the PD helped. Sun, 13 Nov 2016 23:40:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/ignoring-abuse-by-a-police-officer https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/ignoring-abuse-by-a-police-officer A list of 18 ways to help children heal after witnessing domestic violence. Tue, 15 Nov 2016 17:20:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/18-ways-to-support-children-who-witness-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/18-ways-to-support-children-who-witness-domestic-violence We review two online therapy sites to see if they can help domestic violence survivors. Tue, 15 Nov 2016 17:55:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/online-virtual-therapy https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/online-virtual-therapy How to leave an abuser when he or she controls all the money even when if feels impossible. Sat, 19 Nov 2016 21:27:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/finding-your-financial-footing-after-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/finding-your-financial-footing-after-abuse Threat assessment consultant Lynn Fairweather gives business leaders 3 reasons and the supporting evidence for why they should proactively take domestic violence seriously. Wed, 23 Nov 2016 16:20:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/3-reasons-why-your-company-should-address-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/3-reasons-why-your-company-should-address-domestic-violence Differences in culture, laws and attitudes are among the challenges for multinational employers in addressing domestic violence. Learn 3 concepts for preventing and managing the issue in global workplaces. Wed, 23 Nov 2016 17:30:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/multinational-employers-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/multinational-employers-and-domestic-violence Medical professionals are urged strongly, but not required, to ask patients about domestic abuse at home. Mon, 28 Nov 2016 22:29:12 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-why-didn-t-my-doctor-ask-about-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-why-didn-t-my-doctor-ask-about-abuse If you suffer trauma as a child, you may turn out more compassionate as an adult Mon, 28 Nov 2016 23:57:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/you-re-more-compassionate-than-resentful-if-you-faced-adversity-in-childhood https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/you-re-more-compassionate-than-resentful-if-you-faced-adversity-in-childhood Domestic violence can have serious long-term effects on brain function. Tue, 29 Nov 2016 02:15:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/how-domestic-violence-can-injure-the-brain https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/how-domestic-violence-can-injure-the-brain One non-profit proves that art therapy can help survivors of domestic violence begin to heal. Tue, 29 Nov 2016 02:29:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/letting-the-art-do-the-healing https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/letting-the-art-do-the-healing A shopping guide that shows you how to give back while giving gifts this holiday season. Fri, 09 Dec 2016 18:26:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/the-gift-guide-that-gives-back https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/the-gift-guide-that-gives-back Techniques that can help ground you when flashbacks of trauma take over. Sun, 18 Dec 2016 12:27:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/stop-a-flashback-in-its-tracks https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/stop-a-flashback-in-its-tracks Arguing is okay, as long as you and your partner can do it in a productive way. Sun, 18 Dec 2016 12:35:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/it-s-okay-to-argue https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/it-s-okay-to-argue A survivor of sexual assault from his former partner, Ron Blake's goal is to now share his story on The Late Show. Sun, 18 Dec 2016 12:55:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-ron-blake https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-ron-blake How therapy dogs can help survivors of domestic violence begin to heal. Sun, 18 Dec 2016 13:08:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/dogs-who-love-unconditionally https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/dogs-who-love-unconditionally Why ending the backlog of rape kits could help prevent future domestic violence cases. Sun, 18 Dec 2016 13:23:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/rape-survivors-ignored-perpetrators-continue-to-abuse-assault https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/rape-survivors-ignored-perpetrators-continue-to-abuse-assault At what age should you involve your kids in your safety plan for leaving an abuser? Sun, 18 Dec 2016 13:34:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/safety-planning-with-your-kids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/safety-planning-with-your-kids Some people don't recognize they were abused until after they've escaped. What delayed trauma looks like from one survivor's perspective. Sun, 18 Dec 2016 17:42:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/my-story-of-delayed-trauma https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/my-story-of-delayed-trauma Domestic violence during pregnancy can lead to dangerous preterm births. Mon, 19 Dec 2016 13:19:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/domestic-violence-can-double-risk-of-preterm-birth https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/domestic-violence-can-double-risk-of-preterm-birth Human trafficking often overlaps with domestic violence in this modern-day form of slavery. Mon, 19 Dec 2016 17:39:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/human-trafficking/bought-and-sold-how-one-woman-survived-human-trafficking https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/human-trafficking/bought-and-sold-how-one-woman-survived-human-trafficking When an abuser gets released from jail, there are steps a survivor can take to help keep herself safe. Mon, 19 Dec 2016 17:51:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/stay-safe-know-when-your-abuser-gets-out https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/stay-safe-know-when-your-abuser-gets-out One woman strikes out on her own to start a domestic violence nonprofit unlike any other. Tue, 20 Dec 2016 02:54:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/she-s-doing-it-her-way https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/she-s-doing-it-her-way Two new documentaries show what happens when abusers try to alienate one parent from their children. Mon, 09 Jan 2017 03:01:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/documentaries-focus-on-domestic-violence-by-proxy https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/documentaries-focus-on-domestic-violence-by-proxy A continuous alcohol monitoring device could help survivors of domestic violence who share custody of their children with their abuser, but courts are underusing the devices, experts say Mon, 16 Jan 2017 02:30:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/making-sure-ex-abusers-are-sober-before-handing-over-the-kids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/making-sure-ex-abusers-are-sober-before-handing-over-the-kids The link between recent mass murderers and their shared history of domestic violence. Wed, 18 Jan 2017 17:07:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/dark-matter-the-relationship-between-domestic-violence-and-mass-murder https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/dark-matter-the-relationship-between-domestic-violence-and-mass-murder If one parent is distant or absent from your child's life, is this considered a type of domestic abuse? Wed, 25 Jan 2017 22:14:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/are-absentee-parents-abusive https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/are-absentee-parents-abusive If your partner threatens to hurt your pet, it could be a precursor for abuse. Wed, 25 Jan 2017 22:23:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-m-afraid-my-partner-is-going-to-hurt-our-dog https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-m-afraid-my-partner-is-going-to-hurt-our-dog How EMDR can help survivors of domestic violence process traumatic memories. Tue, 31 Jan 2017 02:45:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/modifying-memories https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/modifying-memories One expert explains how stalkers are using advanced technologies against their victims. Tue, 31 Jan 2017 03:21:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/high-tech-stalking-tactics https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/high-tech-stalking-tactics Abusers are protected by staying out of the news. Is it the media's fault? Tue, 31 Jan 2017 03:37:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/family-problems-aren-t-newsworthy https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/family-problems-aren-t-newsworthy One way to start the healing process after abuse: Help other survivors move on. Tue, 31 Jan 2017 03:46:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/volunteering-to-heal https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/volunteering-to-heal Abusers aim to control their partners through a range of behaviors including this list of red flags for emotional abuse. Wed, 01 Feb 2017 02:58:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-mind-trip-that-is-emotional-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-mind-trip-that-is-emotional-abuse How moms can protect themselves in court when fighting for custody against an abusive parent. Wed, 01 Feb 2017 03:09:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/moms-protect-yourself-in-court https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/moms-protect-yourself-in-court The markers that might indicate a coworker is being abused at home and what to do when you suspect abuse. Wed, 01 Feb 2017 03:33:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/warning-signs-at-work https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/warning-signs-at-work How tapping therapy can help survivors of domestic abuse heal after trauma. Wed, 01 Feb 2017 03:49:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/tapping-out-of-trauma https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/tapping-out-of-trauma How one man wants to bring awareness to the domestic violence movement through music. Thu, 09 Feb 2017 03:35:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/creating-a-gratitude-movement https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/creating-a-gratitude-movement A live webinar on domestic violence, featuring acclaimed author Lundy Bancroft, begins March 1. Sat, 18 Feb 2017 19:33:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/coming-up-exclusive-webinar-chat-offered-by-domestic-violence-expert-lundy-bancroft https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/coming-up-exclusive-webinar-chat-offered-by-domestic-violence-expert-lundy-bancroft Deaf endure domestic violence at a significantly higher rate than hearing population. Thu, 23 Feb 2017 16:43:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/the-deaf-endure-domestic-violence-more-than-hearing https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/the-deaf-endure-domestic-violence-more-than-hearing A new Illinois law requires hairstylists learn how to spot domestic violence within their clientele. Thu, 23 Feb 2017 16:55:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/training-to-spot-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/training-to-spot-abuse Femicide is the murdering of women because of their gender a practice that has been going on for a long time. Thu, 23 Feb 2017 16:59:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-is-femicide https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-is-femicide One specific population is at a significantly higher risk for domestic violence than others: Native Americans. A look at why. Thu, 23 Feb 2017 17:13:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/domestic-violence-rampant-among-native-americans https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/domestic-violence-rampant-among-native-americans Are 'secret text messages' really a safe idea for survivors? Or are they capable of doing more harm than good? Wed, 01 Mar 2017 03:16:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/apps-help-survivors-messages-stay-secret https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/apps-help-survivors-messages-stay-secret After abuse, filing taxes can be another hurdle for survivors who have experienced financial abuse and control. Wed, 01 Mar 2017 04:03:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/free-tax-prep-for-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/free-tax-prep-for-survivors The SAFE Child Act is legislation proposing everyone involved in child custody cases to have training recognizing domestic abuse. Wed, 01 Mar 2017 04:13:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/the-safe-child-act https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/the-safe-child-act Will a fear of increased violence prevent survivors from leaving their abusers? Fri, 03 Mar 2017 03:09:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/will-my-partner-be-violent-after-i-leave https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/will-my-partner-be-violent-after-i-leave How to spot the signs of human trafficking, which could be happening in your own community Fri, 03 Mar 2017 03:30:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/human-trafficking/23-signs-of-human-trafficking https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/human-trafficking/23-signs-of-human-trafficking Four things to do if you're one of the 5.2 million women and 1.4 million men being stalked annually in the U.S. Fri, 03 Mar 2017 03:41:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/living-through-extreme-stalking https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/living-through-extreme-stalking Is it legal for my husband to refuse to sign up his family for health insurance through his employer? Wed, 15 Mar 2017 03:19:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-husband-is-hoarding-the-health-insurance https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-husband-is-hoarding-the-health-insurance For survivors of domestic violence, not being able to break a lease shouldn’t be a deterrent to leaving abuse. Wed, 15 Mar 2017 03:28:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/breaking-your-lease-without-breaking-the-bank https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/breaking-your-lease-without-breaking-the-bank False allegations of domestic abuse are low, according to studies. So why do people still claim it happens all the time? Wed, 15 Mar 2017 12:54:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/do-survivors-lie https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/do-survivors-lie How to implement a domestic violence prevention program within your company. Tue, 21 Mar 2017 20:47:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/6-steps-to-create-a-corporate-domestic-violence-program https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/6-steps-to-create-a-corporate-domestic-violence-program If you have to face your abuser in court, there are a few things you can do to alleviate your anxiety and stay safe. Thu, 30 Mar 2017 02:40:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/6-tips-for-facing-your-abuser-in-court https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/6-tips-for-facing-your-abuser-in-court Scholarships offer survivors of domestic abuse a way to get an advanced education. Thu, 30 Mar 2017 02:51:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/an-investment-in-independence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/an-investment-in-independence Some people's guts tips them off the first time they meet their abuser. Thu, 30 Mar 2017 03:11:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/3-ways-to-listen-to-your-gut https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/3-ways-to-listen-to-your-gut She went back to her abusive husband and he almost killed her. How she rebuilt her life and learned what normal relationships are. Thu, 30 Mar 2017 03:25:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-jennifer https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-jennifer When your abuser is in discharged from the military, compensation exists for the spouse Mon, 10 Apr 2017 02:58:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/compensation-for-abused-military-spouses https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/compensation-for-abused-military-spouses Six every day examples of rape culture that you may have missed but will want to know. Mon, 10 Apr 2017 03:24:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/what-is-rape-culture https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/what-is-rape-culture A 911 operator may not know where you are if you’re calling from a cell phone, so domestic violence survivors should plan ahead. Mon, 10 Apr 2017 03:31:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-911-can-t-find-you https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-911-can-t-find-you It's not easy to leave an abuser and, sometimes, it's even harder not to return to one Mon, 24 Apr 2017 03:18:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/i-went-back https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/i-went-back He first hit her when she was pregnant. What followed was six more years of abuse Mon, 24 Apr 2017 03:30:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-amy-olsen https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-amy-olsen Caught in a cycle of violence, how running literally and figuratively saved one woman's life Mon, 24 Apr 2017 12:51:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/running-for-her-life https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/running-for-her-life Toxic people engage in maladaptive behaviors in relationships to an excessive extent in an effort to escape accountability for their actions Mon, 24 Apr 2017 16:23:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/20-diversion-tactics-highly-manipulative-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you-part-i https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/20-diversion-tactics-highly-manipulative-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you-part-i Abusive narcissists distort the reality of their victims in order to avoid taking responsibility for their actions Tue, 25 Apr 2017 03:18:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/diversion-tactics-highly-manipulative-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you-part-ii https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/diversion-tactics-highly-manipulative-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you-part-ii When an abuser has a mental illness, they can employ diversionary tactics to avoid taking responsibility for their choices Tue, 25 Apr 2017 03:44:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/diversion-tactics-highly-manipulative-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you-part-iii https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/diversion-tactics-highly-manipulative-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you-part-iii Abusers with mental illnesses avoid blame for their actions by using tactics to silence and degrade their victims. Tue, 25 Apr 2017 04:01:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/diversion-tactics-highly-manipulative-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you-part-iv https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/diversion-tactics-highly-manipulative-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you-part-iv The wife of executed D.C. sniper and former military member speaks out about her abusive husband. Thu, 27 Apr 2017 13:20:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-mildred-muhammed https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-mildred-muhammed Some say consent should be given before every kiss, no matter how long you've been together Thu, 27 Apr 2017 13:39:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/can-i-kiss-you https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/can-i-kiss-you List of tips for staying safe after escaping domestic violence and abusive partners, plus address confidentiality programs in 38 states. Thu, 27 Apr 2017 16:04:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-my-friend-in-danger-after-she-leaves https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-my-friend-in-danger-after-she-leaves New laws protect victims against control and intimidation. Thu, 27 Apr 2017 16:26:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/USA-coercive-control-laws https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/USA-coercive-control-laws Try these meditation techniques right at home to find some peace when anxious Thu, 27 Apr 2017 16:45:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/5-meditations-to-try https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/5-meditations-to-try Turning teens' personal stories of abuse and violence into films in order to change the lives of others. Thu, 27 Apr 2017 18:30:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/sharing-stories-and-changing-lives https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/sharing-stories-and-changing-lives When calling a crisis line as a survivor of domestic violence, what can you expect? Wed, 10 May 2017 03:34:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/calling-a-hotline-what-you-can-expect https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/calling-a-hotline-what-you-can-expect What's working and what's not when it comes to systems in place to help survivors of domestic violence? Wed, 10 May 2017 03:46:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/what-s-working-for-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/what-s-working-for-survivors According to the data the heat of summer can increase stress and incidents of domestic violence. Wed, 10 May 2017 04:17:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/does-domestic-violence-follow-the-seasons https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/does-domestic-violence-follow-the-seasons Domestic violence survivors say these songs help empower them to stay strong Wed, 10 May 2017 16:36:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/the-survivor-s-playlist https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/the-survivor-s-playlist Some abusers use pregnancy as a means of control. There are options if you're pregnant with your abuser's child. Wed, 10 May 2017 16:47:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-m-pregnant-with-my-abuser-s-child https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-m-pregnant-with-my-abuser-s-child Leaving an abuser can result in some daunting obstacles. Be prepared for every possible scenario. Wed, 10 May 2017 17:11:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/the-perils-of-trying-to-leave https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/the-perils-of-trying-to-leave 10 examples of TV shows and movies that glamorize abuse and reinforce abusive stereotypes. Wed, 10 May 2017 21:40:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/mixed-message-media https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/mixed-message-media How to predict if abuse is going to escalate from nonphysical to physical Wed, 10 May 2017 21:46:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-abuse-goes-from-shouting-to-shoving https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-abuse-goes-from-shouting-to-shoving Graduate programs teach students how to prevent gender-based violence. Wed, 10 May 2017 21:57:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/majoring-in-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/majoring-in-domestic-violence Can bringing a gun to work protect you from your abuser? What are the risks and benefits of doing so. Thu, 11 May 2017 03:07:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/should-guns-be-allowed-in-the-workplace https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/should-guns-be-allowed-in-the-workplace When damages are left behind after domestic violence, who's liable? Your legal rights and how to avoid eviction. Thu, 11 May 2017 03:15:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/who-pays-for-damages https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/who-pays-for-damages How advocates say they use the free information and resources on DomesticShelters.org to help survivors. Thu, 11 May 2017 03:23:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-advocates-are-saying-about-domesticshelters-org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-advocates-are-saying-about-domesticshelters-org Muslim American women face unique barriers to reporting domestic violence Thu, 11 May 2017 03:47:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/american-muslim-women-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/american-muslim-women-and-domestic-violence Reading YA novels on dating violence with your teen can help start a dialogue Thu, 11 May 2017 16:13:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/using-fiction-to-teach-facts https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/using-fiction-to-teach-facts Two new apps designed to help college students and military members who have experienced sexual assault. Thu, 11 May 2017 16:23:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/app-review-for-coeds-and-cadets https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/app-review-for-coeds-and-cadets New York City is hoping to combat domestic violence by organizing task force Thu, 11 May 2017 16:54:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/new-york-city-launches-task-force-to-combat-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/new-york-city-launches-task-force-to-combat-domestic-violence Experts say spanking causes long-term damage in children and the practice should be stopped. Thu, 11 May 2017 20:27:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/the-great-spanking-debate https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/the-great-spanking-debate Overcoming a victim mindset means retraining your brain can take a long time but is well worth the effort. Thu, 11 May 2017 21:08:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-end-your-victim-mindset https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-end-your-victim-mindset A flight attendant learns to spot human trafficking victims on her flights and in her neighborhood Thu, 11 May 2017 21:24:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/what-being-a-flight-attendant-taught-me-about-human-trafficking https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/what-being-a-flight-attendant-taught-me-about-human-trafficking One veteran advocate shares a typical day-in-the-life look of a domestic violence advocate. Tue, 20 Jun 2017 02:29:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/a-day-in-the-life-of-an-advocate https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/a-day-in-the-life-of-an-advocate It's not easy for Native American moms to leave their abuser when children and a reservation are involved. Tue, 20 Jun 2017 02:38:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/fleeing-the-reservation-with-children https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/fleeing-the-reservation-with-children Description: Mental illness and substance abuse are not causes of domestic violence. Tue, 20 Jun 2017 02:49:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abuse-cannot-be-blamed-on-mental-illness https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abuse-cannot-be-blamed-on-mental-illness Donna Kaz's boyfriend was famous ... and abusive. She thought no one would believe her, so she kept quiet. Tue, 20 Jun 2017 02:58:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/the-process-of-disclosure https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/the-process-of-disclosure Seasonal affective disorder can come on unexpectedly after the holidays. Here are the symptoms of seasonal affective disorder and how to combat them. Tue, 20 Jun 2017 03:10:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/5-ya-novels-about-dating-violence-teens-and-parents-should-read https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/5-ya-novels-about-dating-violence-teens-and-parents-should-read If you're ready to leave an abusive partner, how do you get into a domestic violence shelter? Tue, 20 Jun 2017 03:17:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-get-into-a-shelter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-get-into-a-shelter An animal rescue nonprofit wants more domestic violence shelters to be pet-friendly. Tue, 20 Jun 2017 03:42:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/redrover-sends-heroes-right-over https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/redrover-sends-heroes-right-over What can you expect when calling a hotline to ask for help escaping domestic violence? Tue, 20 Jun 2017 03:58:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/calling-a-hotline-part-ii https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/calling-a-hotline-part-ii App developers asking survivors of domestic violence to try out new app. Wed, 21 Jun 2017 13:33:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/survivors-wanted-to-test-new-app https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/survivors-wanted-to-test-new-app To prevent unintentional injury or death, parents are urged to ask about unsecured guns in a home before letting their children play at a friend's house. Thu, 22 Jun 2017 03:21:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/parents-are-you-asking-about-guns https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/parents-are-you-asking-about-guns New partners of those who have survived domestic violence have an important role to play Thu, 06 Jul 2017 02:42:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/how-new-partners-can-help-survivors-in-their-healing-journey https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/how-new-partners-can-help-survivors-in-their-healing-journey At home treatments for survivors of domestic violence to help heal from trauma Thu, 06 Jul 2017 03:09:48 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/5-at-home-healing-techniques https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/5-at-home-healing-techniques A couple aims to raise awareness about the deadliness of teen dating violence after their teenage daughter is killed. Thu, 06 Jul 2017 03:36:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/breaking-the-cycle-of-teen-dating-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/breaking-the-cycle-of-teen-dating-violence One survivor says her abusive boyfriend withheld intimacy in order to control her. Tue, 25 Jul 2017 02:51:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/withholding-intimacy-can-be-abusive-too https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/withholding-intimacy-can-be-abusive-too When abusers violate their terms of probation, survivors fear for their safety. Tue, 25 Jul 2017 03:05:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/the-power-of-probation https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/the-power-of-probation Transgender survivors of intimate partner violence face discrimination, mistreatment from legal system. Tue, 25 Jul 2017 03:27:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/domestic-violence-in-the-transgender-community https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/domestic-violence-in-the-transgender-community When people are quick to blame survivors for domestic violence, try these comebacks in return Tue, 25 Jul 2017 03:40:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/why-so-many-are-quick-to-blame-victims-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/why-so-many-are-quick-to-blame-victims-of-domestic-violence Knowing how to recognize sexual assault, particularly in its more subtle forms, can help you better protect yourself and identify instances of assault when they occur. Tue, 25 Jul 2017 03:55:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/sexual-assault-is-more-than-rape https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/sexual-assault-is-more-than-rape Curious about the purple benches around Nova Scotia? They were made to honor women killed by their partners Tue, 25 Jul 2017 20:52:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/purple-benches-honor-domestic-violence-victims https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/purple-benches-honor-domestic-violence-victims Those belittling statements your partner is making about you? That's abuse. Tue, 25 Jul 2017 21:05:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-big-deal-about-belittling https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-big-deal-about-belittling Calling a domestic violence hotline can seem intimidating at first, especially if you have special circumstances standing in your way. Tue, 25 Jul 2017 21:19:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/calling-a-hotline-when-there-are-barriers-in-your-way https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/calling-a-hotline-when-there-are-barriers-in-your-way The ACLU says 'nuisance laws' are unconstitutional and prevent domestic violence survivors from calling police Thu, 27 Jul 2017 03:00:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-are-nuisance-laws https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-are-nuisance-laws Two victims of domestic violence were arrested for fighting back against their abusers. Thu, 27 Jul 2017 12:11:36 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/when-survivors-are-the-criminals https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/when-survivors-are-the-criminals How advocates for domestic violence victims can take care of themselves. Tue, 08 Aug 2017 03:54:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/14-self-care-tips-for-advocates https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/14-self-care-tips-for-advocates Domestic violence shelter rules can be triggering for some survivors used to not having freedom of choice Tue, 22 Aug 2017 02:42:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/rules-vs-rights https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/rules-vs-rights When an adult child suspects elder abuse between parents, there are steps to take to ensure safety. Tue, 22 Aug 2017 02:51:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-elderly-mom-is-being-abused https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-elderly-mom-is-being-abused What happens when you're being abused, but you're still in love with your abuser? Tue, 22 Aug 2017 03:04:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/but-i-love-him https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/but-i-love-him Massage has more benefits than just relaxation—it can help relieve chronic pain in survivors of domestic abuse Tue, 22 Aug 2017 03:30:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/healing-through-massage https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/healing-through-massage The StrongHearts Helpline is open, specifically aimed at helping Native American and Alaska Native survivors of domestic violence. Wed, 23 Aug 2017 03:48:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/stronghearts-helpline-for-native-american-survivors-debuts https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/stronghearts-helpline-for-native-american-survivors-debuts Children exposed to domestic violence are at high risk of becoming victims of abuse or abusers themselves as adults. Learn how to help kids break the cycle of abuse. Wed, 23 Aug 2017 04:09:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/3-steps-to-break-the-cycle-of-domestic-violence-in-kids-lives https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/3-steps-to-break-the-cycle-of-domestic-violence-in-kids-lives A domestic violence shelter should listen to survivors' concerns. If it doesn't, you can take action. Sun, 10 Sep 2017 20:05:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-happens-if-shelter-is-worse-than-home https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-happens-if-shelter-is-worse-than-home In the midst of overcoming trauma, domestic abuse survivors can experience chronic fatigue syndrome. Sun, 10 Sep 2017 20:20:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/the-link-between-abuse-chronic-fatigue-and-fibromyalgia https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/the-link-between-abuse-chronic-fatigue-and-fibromyalgia Sometimes the media calls domestic violence something else like a 'school shooting' but why? Mon, 18 Sep 2017 03:11:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/when-media-missed-the-boat https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/when-media-missed-the-boat Domestic violence survivors often leave relationships in poor financial condition. Here are eight steps to take to repair your credit. Mon, 18 Sep 2017 03:39:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/gimme-some-credit https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/gimme-some-credit How you can spot a potentially abusive partner by using military tactics taught to help seek out the enemy. Mon, 18 Sep 2017 04:04:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/spotting-the-enemy https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/spotting-the-enemy Donating your gently used bras to survivors of domestic violence can make a huge difference in their life. Sun, 24 Sep 2017 15:08:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/she-s-giving-survivors-a-lift https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/she-s-giving-survivors-a-lift The difference between sympathy and empathy and how to be a more empathetic person. Thu, 28 Sep 2017 12:40:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/listening-hard-why-empathy-can-be-your-best-asset https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/listening-hard-why-empathy-can-be-your-best-asset Technology and abuse are linked, with abusers going online to control and exploit. Thu, 28 Sep 2017 12:55:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/technology-and-teen-dating-violence-are-unfortunately-linked https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/technology-and-teen-dating-violence-are-unfortunately-linked A popular online web series teaches teens about consent, dating violence and rape. Thu, 28 Sep 2017 13:09:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/the-popular-online-series-that-s-drawing-attention-to-dating-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/the-popular-online-series-that-s-drawing-attention-to-dating-violence No need to wait for National Domestic Violence Awareness Month to join the movement to end abuse. Wed, 04 Oct 2017 13:00:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/once-you-re-aware-it-s-time-to-do-something-about-it https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/once-you-re-aware-it-s-time-to-do-something-about-it Stealthing and grey rape are two terms describing nefarious forms of sexual assault. Thu, 05 Oct 2017 04:54:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-are-grey-rape-and-stealthing https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-are-grey-rape-and-stealthing If you're wary about that new boyfriend, it's important to listen to your gut. Wed, 11 Oct 2017 02:48:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-have-a-bad-feeling-about-this-guy https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-have-a-bad-feeling-about-this-guy Some abusers are being awarded alimony from the people they abused due to an outdated law. Wed, 11 Oct 2017 02:57:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/some-abusers-are-getting-awarded-alimony https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/some-abusers-are-getting-awarded-alimony In a society where women are supposed to protect themselves against assault, it can make dating tricky. Wed, 11 Oct 2017 03:09:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/dating-despite-rape-culture https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/dating-despite-rape-culture Some abusers purposefully starve their victims as a means of power and control. Thu, 12 Oct 2017 03:50:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/forbidden-food https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/forbidden-food A police officer who was afraid to report abuse for fear she would be fired. Thu, 12 Oct 2017 04:03:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/afraid-of-being-fired https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/afraid-of-being-fired Luke's Place offers free legal assistance to survivors of domestic violence in Canada. Thu, 12 Oct 2017 04:15:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/luke-s-place-offers-legal-assistance-to-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/luke-s-place-offers-legal-assistance-to-survivors After a natural disaster, some survivors of domestic violence may find themselves without resources and in more danger than ever. Wed, 25 Oct 2017 17:49:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/natural-disasters-mean-more-obstacles-for-survivors-shelters https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/natural-disasters-mean-more-obstacles-for-survivors-shelters Is it crazy to feel sorry for the person who abused you and cause you harm? One expert says no. Sat, 28 Oct 2017 16:18:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-feel-sorry-for-my-abuser-am-i-crazy https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-feel-sorry-for-my-abuser-am-i-crazy How to find credible domestic violence statistics in a world where numbers, news, facts are always drawn into question and are not always reliable. Sat, 28 Oct 2017 21:11:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/how-to-spot-faulty-statistics https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/how-to-spot-faulty-statistics Men and women should not be viewed as equals in matters of domestic violence, says one expert. Sun, 29 Oct 2017 21:03:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/an-untrue-comparison https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/an-untrue-comparison A survey says parents need to do a better job at talking about dating abuse. Sun, 05 Nov 2017 12:33:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/survey-says-parents-just-don-t-understand https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/survey-says-parents-just-don-t-understand Giving one of these gifts this holiday season could help end violence. Tue, 07 Nov 2017 04:22:12 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/2017-holiday-gift-guide https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/2017-holiday-gift-guide How to make New Year's resolutions you can actually keep in the coming year. Thu, 16 Nov 2017 12:45:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/set-realistic-reachable-goals-for-2018 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/set-realistic-reachable-goals-for-2018 Stalkers open fraudulent LifeLock accounts to keep tabs on their victims. Find out what's happened and who is doing what to solve the problem. Thu, 16 Nov 2017 13:11:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/life-em-un-em-locked https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/life-em-un-em-locked An incredibly helpful and extensive list of 52 self-care strategies to help you heal from trauma. Thu, 16 Nov 2017 14:06:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/self-care-bucket-list https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/self-care-bucket-list What if your partner is using the teachings of a religion to control and dominate you? Fri, 08 Dec 2017 02:27:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/5-ways-to-recognize-religious-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/5-ways-to-recognize-religious-abuse Misconceptions are abound when it comes to understanding and escape domestic violence. Fri, 08 Dec 2017 02:45:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/14-misconceptions-about-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/14-misconceptions-about-domestic-violence Ready to relocate far from an abuser? Ask yourself these 8 questions in order to stay safe. Fri, 08 Dec 2017 02:59:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/ready-to-relocate https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/ready-to-relocate How to create a budget, stick to a budget and spend smartly, according to Emma Johnson, founder of WealthySingleMommy.com and author of The Kickass Single Mom. Mon, 11 Dec 2017 17:00:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-make-a-household-budget https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-make-a-household-budget Get your finances in order before you separate from a partner—especially an abusive one. Mon, 11 Dec 2017 17:17:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/5-ways-to-get-money-matters-in-order https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/5-ways-to-get-money-matters-in-order Isolation from the outside world—a tactic abusers employ—can have devastating effects. Mon, 11 Dec 2017 17:34:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/are-you-seeing-ghosts https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/are-you-seeing-ghosts An all female-run auto body shop in Wisconsin helps survivors have a functioning vehicle. Mon, 11 Dec 2017 17:43:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/women-run-auto-repair-shop-sparks-change https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/women-run-auto-repair-shop-sparks-change Leaving an abuser can be an instant decision, but that doesn't mean it's any less dangerous. Tue, 09 Jan 2018 03:11:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-deciding-to-leave-happens-in-an-instant https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/when-deciding-to-leave-happens-in-an-instant A survivor of domestic violence calls out courts for protecting her abuser. Tue, 09 Jan 2018 11:44:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/court-goes-easy-on-california-ceo-to-avoid-deportation https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/court-goes-easy-on-california-ceo-to-avoid-deportation In her own words: One woman tells of escaping an abusive marriage only to find herself being stalked by her ex. Wed, 17 Jan 2018 11:58:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-suzanna https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-suzanna R. Kelly is allegedly controlling multiple young women he claims are girlfriends and yes, this is domestic violence Tue, 23 Jan 2018 02:36:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/r-kelly-s-sex-cult-is-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/r-kelly-s-sex-cult-is-domestic-violence Ideas for starting new traditions on Valentine's Day after escaping abuse Tue, 23 Jan 2018 02:47:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/the-survivor-s-guide-to-valentine-s-day https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/the-survivor-s-guide-to-valentine-s-day Spreading rumors turns abusive when kids don't realize how hurtful their words can be. Tue, 23 Jan 2018 03:01:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/kids-and-rumors-when-spreading-lies-becomes-abusive https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/kids-and-rumors-when-spreading-lies-becomes-abusive We have to believe teens when they disclose dating violence or their lives could be at risk Tue, 23 Jan 2018 03:24:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/are-we-believing-teens-when-they-report-dating-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/are-we-believing-teens-when-they-report-dating-violence Quiz yourself on the lingo of domestic violence and learn how to spot these abuse tactics Tue, 23 Jan 2018 03:46:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/quiz-yourself-do-you-know-these-7-terms-for-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/quiz-yourself-do-you-know-these-7-terms-for-abuse A childhood riddled with abuse sent one man on a journey to advocate for others Wed, 31 Jan 2018 19:38:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-christopher-anderson https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-christopher-anderson Survivors of domestic violence often keep their plans to leave a secret Wed, 31 Jan 2018 19:55:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/who-did-you-tell-when-you-were-ready-to-leave https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/who-did-you-tell-when-you-were-ready-to-leave There shouldn't be shame behind reaching out for assistance from a local food bank. Wed, 31 Jan 2018 20:02:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-can-i-visit-a-food-bank https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-can-i-visit-a-food-bank There are ways to be an active bystander when you witness domestic violence. Tue, 06 Feb 2018 17:59:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/5-ways-to-intervene-when-you-suspect-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/5-ways-to-intervene-when-you-suspect-domestic-violence How to help kids regain their confidence after witnessing domestic violence. Tue, 06 Feb 2018 18:16:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-to-help-children-find-their-courage-again-after-trauma https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-to-help-children-find-their-courage-again-after-trauma Survivors, advocates claim the military isn't doing enough to stop domestic violence Tue, 06 Feb 2018 18:30:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/servicemembers-are-getting-away-with-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/servicemembers-are-getting-away-with-abuse Ending the stigma of domestic violence means believing victims and survivors. Tue, 06 Feb 2018 19:28:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/why-we-must-believe-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/why-we-must-believe-survivors A woman caught in a cycle of domestic abuse is attacked by her fourth abusive husband. Wed, 07 Feb 2018 18:15:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-nancy-wilkinson https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-nancy-wilkinson What do you do when someone with Alzheimer's disease turns violent towards you and their caregivers? Sat, 10 Feb 2018 21:56:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/when-alzheimer-s-disease-takes-a-violent-turn https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/when-alzheimer-s-disease-takes-a-violent-turn Certain foods will make you feel worse when you're looking for edible comfort. Swap them out. Sat, 10 Feb 2018 22:11:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/food-swaps https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/food-swaps Abusers manipulate survivors into thinking they're going crazy when they're not. Mon, 19 Feb 2018 19:09:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/my-partner-is-trying-to-make-me-seem-crazy-am-i-crazy https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/my-partner-is-trying-to-make-me-seem-crazy-am-i-crazy All kids need to know how to call 9-1-1- in an emergency, especially if an abusive parent is present. These five tips can help you teach your kids best practices. Mon, 19 Feb 2018 19:19:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/does-your-child-know-how-to-call-911 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/does-your-child-know-how-to-call-911 An arranged marriage and an abusive 10 years—one woman's harrowing tale of escape and survival. Mon, 19 Feb 2018 20:57:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/the-good-wife https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/the-good-wife A new card game teaches about sex, dating violence and consent to both teens and adults. Tue, 20 Feb 2018 16:24:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-to-start-a-sexversation https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-to-start-a-sexversation How to start a movement to end domestic violence in your community that will do real good. Tue, 20 Feb 2018 16:40:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/to-do-start-a-movement https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/to-do-start-a-movement Moms are going to jail when children are involved in domestic abuse due to laws intended to keep children safe. Tue, 20 Feb 2018 17:11:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/moms-are-going-to-jail-when-abusive-partners-hurt-the-kids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/moms-are-going-to-jail-when-abusive-partners-hurt-the-kids The word "witch" has a very different definition today, according to one author Tue, 20 Feb 2018 17:19:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/why-we-still-call-rebellious-women-witches https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/why-we-still-call-rebellious-women-witches A survivor's account of surviving domestic abuse turned into a successful novel, and helped her heal along the way Tue, 20 Feb 2018 17:29:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-michele-weldon https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-michele-weldon When you're in the midst of abuse, it can be difficult to know where to start when you're ready to reach out for help. Wed, 28 Feb 2018 12:54:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-ask-for-help https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-ask-for-help A book club especially for survivors, advocates and others who care about ending domestic violence. Wed, 28 Feb 2018 16:55:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/announcing-the-domesticshelters-book-club-em-crazy-love-em https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/announcing-the-domesticshelters-book-club-em-crazy-love-em It may be uncomfortable to confront it when you hear it, but challenging sexist humor can do a lot to end rape culture. Wed, 28 Feb 2018 17:09:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/it-s-time-to-challenge-sexist-humor https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/it-s-time-to-challenge-sexist-humor Black survivors report distinct barriers to disclosing abuse that can leave many in harms way. Wed, 28 Feb 2018 17:38:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/black-women-are-staying-silent https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/black-women-are-staying-silent When your abuser is also your boss, survivors are afraid of losing their income when they speak up. Wed, 28 Feb 2018 18:33:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/when-your-abuser-is-also-your-boss https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/when-your-abuser-is-also-your-boss Six warning signs that may appear when you first meet someone with abusive tendencies. Mon, 05 Mar 2018 20:27:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/profiling-an-abuser-6-signs-you-should-pay-attention-to https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/profiling-an-abuser-6-signs-you-should-pay-attention-to Lost O.J. Simpson interview to air, detailing a hypothetical of how he would have murdered his wife Thu, 08 Mar 2018 20:46:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/o-j-simpson-s-if-i-did-it-interview-to-air https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/o-j-simpson-s-if-i-did-it-interview-to-air Thirteen ways for dealing with trauma and grief when it feels neverending. Mon, 12 Mar 2018 02:56:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/13-ways-to-endure-emotional-pain https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/13-ways-to-endure-emotional-pain One writer tells how she grew up with domestic violence and no one intervened. Mon, 12 Mar 2018 03:31:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/nobody-would-have-been-surprised-if-i-had-died https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/nobody-would-have-been-surprised-if-i-had-died If you are a victim of domestic violence, it's important to know your rights. Mon, 12 Mar 2018 03:47:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/you-have-rights-as-a-victim https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/you-have-rights-as-a-victim Her abuser convinced her that her gut instinct telling her to be wary of him was wrong. And then, he shot her. Mon, 12 Mar 2018 04:02:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-kate https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-kate Trying to leave an abuser is hard enough, but when you’re deaf or hard-of-hearing the barriers multiply. Thankfully, there is help. Tue, 01 May 2018 02:47:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-help-my-deaf-friend-escape-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-help-my-deaf-friend-escape-abuse Answers to the most frequently asked questions about domestic violence, domestic abuse and intimate partner violence. Tue, 01 May 2018 03:00:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/faq/domestic-violence-faq-you-ask-we-answer https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/faq/domestic-violence-faq-you-ask-we-answer Being intentionally grateful every day can create a new belief system for yourself that can help you heal from trauma and abuse, and give your self-esteem a much-needed boost. Tue, 01 May 2018 17:03:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/gratitude-journals-may-help-anxiety-promote-sleep https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/gratitude-journals-may-help-anxiety-promote-sleep Heading back into the job market after escaping abuse is a big step. Make sure you're prepared with the best possible first impression, aka, a stellar resume. Tue, 01 May 2018 17:24:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/write-a-resume-that-gets-noticed https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/write-a-resume-that-gets-noticed Rethreaded has helped more than 2,200 survivors of sex trafficking worldwide find new hope and a new future through an employment program that teaches employable skills. Tue, 01 May 2018 18:09:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/helping-sex-trade-survivors-sew-new-hope https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/helping-sex-trade-survivors-sew-new-hope Sexual predators are often people that you know. To protect your children, early and repetitive education is important. Tue, 01 May 2018 18:47:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-to-help-protect-your-child-from-sexual-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-to-help-protect-your-child-from-sexual-abuse Stigmas often prevent men from stepping forward and saying #MeToo. One man tells his story of domestic violence, and how he found the courage to get out. Tue, 01 May 2018 20:02:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-gus-brock https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-gus-brock Validating a friend or loved one after they disclose abuse to you can make all the difference. Things to say to help them realize it's not their fault. Tue, 05 Jun 2018 22:03:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/10-ways-to-validate-a-survivor https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/10-ways-to-validate-a-survivor A personal essay from Sushi Tuesdays blogger Charlotte Maya who was widowed and had to figure out how to navigate the intense grief that followed. Wed, 06 Jun 2018 16:00:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/eat-sleep-breathe-healing-my-grieving-heart https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/eat-sleep-breathe-healing-my-grieving-heart There are a lot of avenues to take when recovering from trauma, and some are looking at alternative medicine, like acupuncture, for it's healing properties. Thu, 07 Jun 2018 17:19:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/would-you-try-acupuncture-after-trauma https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/would-you-try-acupuncture-after-trauma How do you trust again after a relationship with an abuser ends? When finding a new partner, rewiring negative messages in your brain is key. Thu, 07 Jun 2018 17:44:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-why-can-t-i-trust-a-new-person https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-why-can-t-i-trust-a-new-person Shelters wanted to test out new program that trains advocates how to be mentors for children affected by domestic violence. Thu, 14 Jun 2018 13:06:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/shelters-wanted-to-test-resiliency-pilot-program-for-kids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/shelters-wanted-to-test-resiliency-pilot-program-for-kids If you're a kid and don't feel safe going home because of abuse, there's help out there. Fri, 20 Jul 2018 21:46:00 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/children-do-you-feel-safe-at-home https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/children-do-you-feel-safe-at-home Why do some survivors take longer than others to step forward and disclose abuse? Fri, 20 Jul 2018 22:29:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/why-is-she-speaking-out-em-now-em https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/why-is-she-speaking-out-em-now-em Men can play a bigger role in ending violence, harassment, according to one advocate. Fri, 20 Jul 2018 22:51:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/can-domestic-violence-awareness-be-funny https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/can-domestic-violence-awareness-be-funny One domestic abuse survivor faced threats of deportation if she told anyone about the abuse. Fri, 20 Jul 2018 23:09:00 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-joanne https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-joanne Survivors of domestic violence wonder if the legal and law enforcement systems will ever be on their side. Fri, 20 Jul 2018 23:27:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/is-the-system-failing-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/is-the-system-failing-survivors Not shocking, abusers can lie to survivors in order to prevent them from receiving help. Fri, 27 Jul 2018 17:39:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-abuser-is-trying-to-keep-from-getting-help https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-abuser-is-trying-to-keep-from-getting-help It's important to open a dialogue with kids who have seen or heard domestic violence. Fri, 27 Jul 2018 18:18:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/8-ways-to-talk-with-kids-exposed-to-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/8-ways-to-talk-with-kids-exposed-to-domestic-violence Former MLB hall-of-fame player Joe Torre started a nonprofit to help children affected by domestic violence. Fri, 27 Jul 2018 18:27:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/feeling-safe-at-home-is-not-every-child-s-reality https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/feeling-safe-at-home-is-not-every-child-s-reality Private investigators can help survivors build a case against their abusers. Fri, 27 Jul 2018 20:46:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/should-survivors-hire-a-private-investigator https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/should-survivors-hire-a-private-investigator An LA nonprofit is helping survivors of domestic violence start their own businesses. Fri, 27 Jul 2018 21:07:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/ceo-survivors-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/ceo-survivors-of-domestic-violence Collecting evidence against an abuser can help your case, but can also put a survivor in more danger. Sat, 04 Aug 2018 17:47:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/collecting-evidence-of-abuse-without-danger https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/collecting-evidence-of-abuse-without-danger There are ways you can keep yourself safe from online stalkers. Sat, 04 Aug 2018 17:54:36 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/8-tips-for-social-media-safety https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/8-tips-for-social-media-safety A Muslim man realizes his wife's cruel and controlling behavior is abuse. Sat, 04 Aug 2018 18:21:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-waquas https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-waquas Witnessing domestic violence as a child can lead to physical and mental health problems as an adult. Tue, 07 Aug 2018 03:55:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/does-childhood-trauma-cause-health-problems-in-adults https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/does-childhood-trauma-cause-health-problems-in-adults Disabled individuals are at a 1 1/2 times higher risk for domestic violence. Tue, 07 Aug 2018 04:12:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-disabled-survivor-with-no-support https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-disabled-survivor-with-no-support Some bars offer sneaky ways to get out of a potentially dangerous date, be it ordering an angel shot or asking for Angela. Tue, 07 Aug 2018 04:24:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/signals-for-safety https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/signals-for-safety A one-woman nonprofit in Florida fosters pets when survivors are ready to escape. Tue, 07 Aug 2018 04:34:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/helping-pets-escape-domestic-violence-too https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/helping-pets-escape-domestic-violence-too You can find your Zen just about anywhere with one of these six meditation apps. Wed, 15 Aug 2018 03:26:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/6-meditation-apps-to-try-anywhere https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/6-meditation-apps-to-try-anywhere Living in the remote areas of Alaska poses unique barriers to those living with domestic violence. Wed, 15 Aug 2018 03:35:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/survivors-in-remote-alaska-face-unique-challenges https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/survivors-in-remote-alaska-face-unique-challenges Abusers use sleep deprivation as a form of power and control. Wed, 15 Aug 2018 17:23:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/sleep-deprivation-as-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/sleep-deprivation-as-abuse How to work directly with refugee children impacted by intimate partner violence to boost their resilience and recovery. Tue, 28 Aug 2018 19:22:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/refugee-children-intimate-partner-violence-part-ii https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/refugee-children-intimate-partner-violence-part-ii Effects of exposure to intimate partner violence (IPV) on refugee children and ways to reduce this exposure by helping their mothers achieve safety Tue, 28 Aug 2018 19:41:00 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/refugee-children-intimate-partner-violence-part-i https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/refugee-children-intimate-partner-violence-part-i A free summer camp is offered to children impacted by domestic violence. Wed, 19 Sep 2018 12:29:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/a-summer-of-hope-for-1-500-kids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/a-summer-of-hope-for-1-500-kids If you're thinking about filming your intimate moments, there's a secure way to do it so it doesn't come back to hurt you later. Mon, 01 Oct 2018 02:52:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/app-aims-to-end-revenge-porn https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/app-aims-to-end-revenge-porn Survivor doesn't want to leave home she shares with abuser, but abuser is refusing to move out. Mon, 01 Oct 2018 03:04:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-abuser-refuses-to-move-out https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-abuser-refuses-to-move-out Tips for surviving gaslighting, a sinister domestic violence tactic where abusers convince victims their memory is false. Mon, 01 Oct 2018 03:21:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/gaslighting/how-to-survive-gaslighting https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/gaslighting/how-to-survive-gaslighting Mom of three says she can't remember a time when violence wasn't a part of her life. Then, she decided to stop the cycle. Mon, 01 Oct 2018 19:48:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-andrea https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-andrea How to back up awareness this month with action that can help survivors of domestic violence. Mon, 01 Oct 2018 20:05:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/is-awareness-of-domestic-violence-good-enough-this-month https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/is-awareness-of-domestic-violence-good-enough-this-month Researchers have found many high-achievers share something in common—living through trauma as a child. Mon, 01 Oct 2018 20:21:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/do-traumatic-childhoods-create-high-achieving-adults https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/do-traumatic-childhoods-create-high-achieving-adults A survivor of domestic abuse murders her abusive husband and found herself behind bars. Wed, 24 Oct 2018 02:54:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-deborah-washington-barrow https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-deborah-washington-barrow Program targets high school athletes to be instrumental in ending violence against women. Wed, 24 Oct 2018 03:05:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/targeting-coaches-young-men-to-end-violence-against-women https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/targeting-coaches-young-men-to-end-violence-against-women Domestic violence is a problem no matter if a few hundred or a few thousand individuals are being abused. Wed, 31 Oct 2018 03:07:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/do-domestic-violence-statistics-matter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/statistics/do-domestic-violence-statistics-matter What are other cultures doing to prevent and criminalize domestic violence in their countries? Wed, 31 Oct 2018 03:32:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/a-worldwide-view-on-what-s-being-done-to-protect-partners https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/a-worldwide-view-on-what-s-being-done-to-protect-partners Sometimes, it's best to cut out toxic people from your life in order to begin healing. Wed, 31 Oct 2018 12:24:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-dealing-with-toxic-family-members https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-dealing-with-toxic-family-members More and more states are realizing that keeping guns away from abusers is a good thing. Wed, 31 Oct 2018 21:09:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/states-fighting-to-keep-guns-away-from-abusers https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/states-fighting-to-keep-guns-away-from-abusers We need to start letting boys cry otherwise the consequences later in life could be violent. Sun, 11 Nov 2018 19:05:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/why-we-need-to-let-boys-cry https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/why-we-need-to-let-boys-cry The DomesticShelters.org Book Club announces its second selection—Girl Up by Laura Bates. Sun, 11 Nov 2018 19:15:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/your-em-crazy-love-em-questions-answered https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/your-em-crazy-love-em-questions-answered Suffocation is perhaps even more sinister than strangulation, but both are deadly tactics used by abusers. Sun, 11 Nov 2018 20:06:00 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abusers-use-suffocation-as-a-power-move https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abusers-use-suffocation-as-a-power-move A holiday gift guide that helps survivors of domestic violence. Sun, 11 Nov 2018 20:51:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/2018-holiday-gift-guide https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/2018-holiday-gift-guide A video game design competition has one goal in mind: ending dating violence among teens. Sun, 11 Nov 2018 21:03:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/getting-through-to-teens-with-video-games https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/getting-through-to-teens-with-video-games A new type of company holiday fundraiser allows you to help domestic violence shelters by giving them the things they need directly. Tue, 13 Nov 2018 12:19:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/a-new-type-of-workplace-fundraiser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/a-new-type-of-workplace-fundraiser The second DomesticShelters.org Book Club selection aims to empower young women with a blunt, funny dose of knowledge. Thu, 29 Nov 2018 12:49:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/em-girl-up-em-is-the-book-we-all-needed-in-our-youth https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/em-girl-up-em-is-the-book-we-all-needed-in-our-youth A survivor of domestic violence questions whether or not now is the right time to let her family adopt a pet. Thu, 29 Nov 2018 12:58:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-are-we-ready-to-adopt-a-pet https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-are-we-ready-to-adopt-a-pet Should grandparents still get to see the grandkids even when their son was abusive? Thu, 29 Nov 2018 13:09:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/should-an-abuser-s-parents-still-get-to-see-the-grandkids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/should-an-abuser-s-parents-still-get-to-see-the-grandkids Tips for self-care for the stressed out, newly single mom. Thu, 29 Nov 2018 17:31:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/keeping-your-cool-as-a-first-time-single-parent https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/keeping-your-cool-as-a-first-time-single-parent Survivor graduates at a domestic violence shelter form group to help incoming women. Thu, 29 Nov 2018 17:41:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/shelter-graduates-pay-it-forward-to-help-incoming-women https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/shelter-graduates-pay-it-forward-to-help-incoming-women The warning signs of possessive behavior that could point to domestic abuse down the road. Fri, 30 Nov 2018 12:29:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/possessiveness-the-precursor-to-power-and-control https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/possessiveness-the-precursor-to-power-and-control A census of homeless individuals is now asking how many are on the streets to flee domestic violence. Wed, 19 Dec 2018 12:50:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/how-many-homeless-people-are-fleeing-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/how-many-homeless-people-are-fleeing-domestic-violence A protective parent's restraining order did little to stop her abusive estranged husband from coming to kidnap and murder her children. Thu, 20 Dec 2018 20:36:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/tragedy-as-a-catalyst-for-change https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/tragedy-as-a-catalyst-for-change Abuse is not a survivors' fault—but not all survivors believe after abusers gaslight them. Thu, 20 Dec 2018 21:08:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/gaslighting/when-survivors-believe-they-re-responsible-for-ending-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/gaslighting/when-survivors-believe-they-re-responsible-for-ending-abuse Survivors of abuse should practice patience when recovering from trauma. Thu, 20 Dec 2018 21:21:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/stages-of-recovery-after-trauma https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/stages-of-recovery-after-trauma Many survivors of abuse question whether or not they should go back after an abuser promises they've changed. Thu, 20 Dec 2018 21:51:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-it-ever-safe-to-go-back https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-it-ever-safe-to-go-back Hospital system in the southwest training all staff to spot possible signs of human trafficking. Thu, 20 Dec 2018 22:11:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/human-trafficking/hospitals-on-the-lookout-for-human-trafficking https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/human-trafficking/hospitals-on-the-lookout-for-human-trafficking You want to talk to your lawmakers about changes that need to happen in the laws—where do you start? Thu, 20 Dec 2018 22:23:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/how-to-call-your-lawmakers https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/how-to-call-your-lawmakers Survivors of abuse are more likely to turn to drugs and alcohol to cope. Is rehab the answer? Thu, 20 Dec 2018 22:34:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/do-i-need-to-go-to-rehab https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/do-i-need-to-go-to-rehab Domestic abusers are hacking into smart home technolgy to stalk and harass victims. Fri, 11 Jan 2019 20:20:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/smart-home-technology-is-being-used-against-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/smart-home-technology-is-being-used-against-survivors The recently passed PAWS Act will help protect animals caught in domestic violence situations. Sat, 19 Jan 2019 12:43:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/paws-act-provides-federal-protections-for-survivors-pets https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/paws-act-provides-federal-protections-for-survivors-pets It's important to use the right words when an abuser commits murder, in order to hold them accountable. Tue, 22 Jan 2019 17:40:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/why-it-s-important-to-say-died-by-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/why-it-s-important-to-say-died-by-domestic-violence An expert explains how being wealthy does not protect you from domestic abuse. Tue, 22 Jan 2019 17:55:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-does-having-money-keep-you-safe-from-abusers https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-does-having-money-keep-you-safe-from-abusers Abusers can groom potential victims from the start. Know how to spot the signs. Tue, 22 Jan 2019 18:15:00 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/from-romance-to-isolation-understanding-grooming https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/from-romance-to-isolation-understanding-grooming Six ways to celebrate yourself this Valentine's Day. Tue, 22 Jan 2019 18:42:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/why-you-should-celebrate-yourself-this-valentine-s-day https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/why-you-should-celebrate-yourself-this-valentine-s-day A high-priced divorce often follows domestic abuse, traumatizing survivors even more. Tue, 22 Jan 2019 21:19:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/after-abuse-a-high-priced-divorce-is-the-next-trauma https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/after-abuse-a-high-priced-divorce-is-the-next-trauma Strangers on a wedding forum talked a survivor out of marrying her abusive fiance. Wed, 23 Jan 2019 12:36:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/the-wedding-forum-that-helped-me-leave-my-abusive-ex https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/the-wedding-forum-that-helped-me-leave-my-abusive-ex Extreme Risk Protection Orders demand guns be removed from the posession of dangerous persons. Fri, 25 Jan 2019 18:27:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/more-states-considering-extreme-risk-protection-orders https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/more-states-considering-extreme-risk-protection-orders The Battered Mothers Custody Conference connects mothers with resources to help them get their children back from abusers. Sun, 03 Feb 2019 13:13:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/battered-mothers-custody-conference-announces-2019-dates https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/battered-mothers-custody-conference-announces-2019-dates Could a domestic violence offender registry curb violence against women? Mon, 25 Feb 2019 21:26:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/are-domestic-violence-offender-registries-a-good-idea https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/are-domestic-violence-offender-registries-a-good-idea An advocate and survivor shares how some states are currently working to end domestic violence homicides. Mon, 25 Feb 2019 21:57:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/listening-to-victims-can-reduce-domestic-violence-deaths https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/listening-to-victims-can-reduce-domestic-violence-deaths Senior survivor leaves abusive husband to start over at the ocean and write a book. Mon, 25 Feb 2019 22:10:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-alex-leaving-abuse-after-47-years https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-alex-leaving-abuse-after-47-years Living under an abusive landlord is similar to living in a domestic violence situation, and there are remedies. Tue, 26 Feb 2019 13:13:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-if-your-landlord-is-abusive https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-if-your-landlord-is-abusive How to tell if children are really okay after living through domestic violence. Tue, 26 Feb 2019 13:27:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/are-the-kids-really-okay https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/are-the-kids-really-okay Abusers can come in many different forms—author Lundy Bancroft names 10. Tue, 26 Feb 2019 16:37:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-frightening-roles-abusers-can-play https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-frightening-roles-abusers-can-play Survivor Hannah Kay Herdlinger shared the lessons she learned after leaving an abusive spouse that changed her outlook on life Tue, 12 Mar 2019 18:24:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/5-things-i-learn-since-i-became-a-domestic-violence-survivor https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/5-things-i-learn-since-i-became-a-domestic-violence-survivor One of abusers' fortes is the be charming—so charming no one believes they can be dangerous. Wed, 13 Mar 2019 03:32:12 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-abusers-turn-on-the-charm https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-abusers-turn-on-the-charm In Hasidic Jewish communities, survivors of domestic abuse find themselves outcast and ostracized when they leave their abusive partner. Wed, 13 Mar 2019 03:43:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/helping-hasidic-jews-escape-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/helping-hasidic-jews-escape-domestic-violence Staying with an abuser when there are kids in the home can put their lives at risk. Wed, 13 Mar 2019 04:07:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/kids-caught-in-the-crossfire https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/kids-caught-in-the-crossfire It's hard to watch the cycle of domestic violence continue through generations. A grandmother reaches out for help for her grandchildren. Wed, 13 Mar 2019 12:31:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-fear-for-my-grandchildren-s-lives https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-fear-for-my-grandchildren-s-lives A survivor of domestic violence gives up her son in order to save his life. Wed, 13 Mar 2019 13:06:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-amy-making-a-heartbreaking-choice https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-amy-making-a-heartbreaking-choice An intereview with the editor of a new anthology of letters from trans and non-binary survivors of abuse. Sat, 06 Apr 2019 12:47:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/trans-and-non-binary-survivors-speak-out-in-a-new-book https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/trans-and-non-binary-survivors-speak-out-in-a-new-book Not all medical practitioners are screening for domestic abuse. Is yours? Sat, 06 Apr 2019 13:06:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/did-your-doctor-ask-about-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/did-your-doctor-ask-about-domestic-violence If you suspect a friend or family member is being abused, what's the best way to ask? Sat, 06 Apr 2019 13:26:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/how-to-ask-about-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/how-to-ask-about-abuse After escaping abuse, prioritizing good sleep can help your body recover more quickly. Sat, 06 Apr 2019 13:41:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/after-trauma-sleep-may-be-what-you-need-most https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/after-trauma-sleep-may-be-what-you-need-most Steps to becoming a trained domestic violence advocate. Sat, 06 Apr 2019 13:50:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-become-a-survivor-advocate https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-become-a-survivor-advocate It needs to be a survivor's choice how and when to leave an abusive partner. Sat, 06 Apr 2019 14:02:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/should-you-stage-an-intervention https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/should-you-stage-an-intervention A new and improved sex-ed manual not just for young adults, but for all ages Sat, 06 Apr 2019 22:13:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/let-s-get-real-about-sex-ed https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/let-s-get-real-about-sex-ed Do those who experience abuse prefer "survivor" or "victim?" Thu, 25 Apr 2019 21:47:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/appreciating-survivors-of-abuse-while-supporting-its-victims https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/appreciating-survivors-of-abuse-while-supporting-its-victims You can still celebrate the love of a parent this Father's Day even if there is no dad in the picture. Thu, 25 Apr 2019 21:56:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-getting-through-father-s-day-after-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-getting-through-father-s-day-after-abuse The new Netflix show You demonstrates how stalking and dating violence can quickly escalate to something deadly. Thu, 25 Apr 2019 22:09:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/netflix-s-em-you-em-is-a-roadmap-to-dating-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/netflix-s-em-you-em-is-a-roadmap-to-dating-violence Disclosure of domestic violence should always be a survivor's choice. Fri, 26 Apr 2019 12:06:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/public-records-reveal-domestic-violence-in-senator-s-past https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/public-records-reveal-domestic-violence-in-senator-s-past An abuser can use the silent treatment as a way to torment a survivor. Mon, 13 May 2019 19:38:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-silent-treatment-an-abuser-s-controlling-tactic https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-silent-treatment-an-abuser-s-controlling-tactic A new book is aimed at teaching judges and attorneys on how to protect domestic violence survivors in court. Mon, 13 May 2019 21:38:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/new-book-for-attorneys-judges-on-protecting-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/new-book-for-attorneys-judges-on-protecting-survivors Sometimes, a survivor of domestic violence can't call for help. Now, they can text. Tue, 14 May 2019 16:41:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/survivors-can-now-text-for-help https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/survivors-can-now-text-for-help Five Louisiana women make history by fighting to pass the most comprehensive changes to domestic violence laws ever in the state. Tue, 14 May 2019 16:51:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/five-awake-women-who-changed-louisiana-s-laws https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/five-awake-women-who-changed-louisiana-s-laws Postpartum depression, or PPD, is a mental health issue that at least 1 in 7 moms struggle with after birth. However, women who experience intimate partner violence while pregnant are three times more likely to experience PPD. Tue, 14 May 2019 19:16:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/postpartum-depression-linked-to-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/postpartum-depression-linked-to-domestic-violence When my friend confided in me about her abusive husband, I had no idea how to help. I decided then that I could never be that unprepared again. Tue, 14 May 2019 21:27:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/why-i-work-the-domestic-violence-helpline https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/why-i-work-the-domestic-violence-helpline Philadelphia's rates of domestic violence homicide are on the rise. The city is combining forces to stop it before it starts. Thu, 16 May 2019 18:40:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/sharing-the-responsibility-of-ending-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/sharing-the-responsibility-of-ending-domestic-violence What victims of domestic violence should know after an abuser gets arrested. Thu, 13 Jun 2019 21:30:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-happens-after-an-abuser-gets-arrested https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-happens-after-an-abuser-gets-arrested Examples of what victim-blaming and shaming sound like, and how you may be doing it without even realizing it. Sat, 15 Jun 2019 13:05:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-victim-blaming-sounds-like https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-victim-blaming-sounds-like The number of domestic violence offenders who actually wind up behind bars is much lower than you'd imagine. Mon, 17 Jun 2019 17:12:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/guess-how-many-domestic-violence-offenders-go-to-jail https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/guess-how-many-domestic-violence-offenders-go-to-jail A new program offers survivors of trauma to unleash their courageous selves in just 45 days. Mon, 17 Jun 2019 17:44:36 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/courage-unleashed-in-45-days https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/courage-unleashed-in-45-days When an order of protection doesn't keep a survivor of abuse safe, what should she do next? Thu, 27 Jun 2019 02:40:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-the-courts-aren-t-keeping-my-friend-safe https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-the-courts-aren-t-keeping-my-friend-safe 10 things you can do to lessen the stress post-divorce. Thu, 27 Jun 2019 02:57:00 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-minimize-stress-and-fear-during-your-divorce https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-minimize-stress-and-fear-during-your-divorce Learn the terms of financial abuse so that you can avoid it at all costs .... literally. Thu, 27 Jun 2019 03:00:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/when-someone-else-controls-the-money https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/when-someone-else-controls-the-money Trauma-related guilt will make survivors feel like it was their fault they endured abuse. That's a lie. Thu, 27 Jun 2019 03:43:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/trauma-related-guilt-is-a-liar https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/trauma-related-guilt-is-a-liar Finding closure after domestic violence is possible. Start with these ideas. Fri, 28 Jun 2019 02:45:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/is-closure-possible-after-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/is-closure-possible-after-abuse Why many survivors of domestic violence are reluctant to come forward and report abuse. Fri, 28 Jun 2019 02:54:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-social-stigma-silences-domestic-violence-victims https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-social-stigma-silences-domestic-violence-victims When an emergency room physician suspects domestic violence, it's not always easy to get a survivor to accept help. Fri, 28 Jun 2019 03:03:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/through-the-eyes-of-an-er-physician https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/through-the-eyes-of-an-er-physician One domestic violence advocate works to restore survivors self-esteem by collecting thousands of lipsticks to donate to shelters nationwide. Fri, 28 Jun 2019 03:18:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/how-beauty-boosts-confidence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/how-beauty-boosts-confidence Identifying the differences between narcissists, psychopaths or sociopaths can help a survivor understand abuse. Fri, 28 Jun 2019 03:42:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/are-abusers-narcissists-psychopaths-or-sociopaths https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/are-abusers-narcissists-psychopaths-or-sociopaths How real-life women combat sexist remarks, and a three-step plan for the best retort. Wed, 07 Aug 2019 03:27:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/slamming-sexism https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/slamming-sexism The best ways—and things—to donate to your local domestic violence shelter. Wed, 07 Aug 2019 03:40:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/how-do-i-donate-items-to-shelters https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/how-do-i-donate-items-to-shelters One survivor of domestic violence is taking what she learned after leaving and helping other survivors, free of charge. Wed, 07 Aug 2019 03:46:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-tonya-from-broke-to-businesswoman https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-tonya-from-broke-to-businesswoman A worried reader writes in after cousin says she's going to a shelter, but goes missing instead. Thu, 08 Aug 2019 03:32:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-cousin-is-missing https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-cousin-is-missing A highly acclaimed new book by Rachel Lousie Snyder highlights what it's going to take to fight domestic violence. Thu, 08 Aug 2019 03:43:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/the-book-that-s-an-urgent-wake-up-call https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/the-book-that-s-an-urgent-wake-up-call A Q&A with Lexie Bean about non-binary survivors of domestic violence. Wed, 14 Aug 2019 03:03:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/it-starts-with-pronouns-understanding-non-binary-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/it-starts-with-pronouns-understanding-non-binary-survivors Once you get an order of protection, how to serve it to an abuser. Wed, 14 Aug 2019 03:58:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/how-to-get-a-protection-order-served-on-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/how-to-get-a-protection-order-served-on-an-abuser The national backlog of rape kits is starting to be cleared, thanks to SVU star’s nonprofit. Wed, 14 Aug 2019 04:11:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/ending-the-backlog-of-rape-kits https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/ending-the-backlog-of-rape-kits One school is offering trauma-informed education for children of domestic violence. Wed, 14 Aug 2019 17:35:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/introducing-trauma-informed-classrooms https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/introducing-trauma-informed-classrooms Stopping toxic masculinity in men means teaching them as boys how to respect the opposite sex. Wed, 14 Aug 2019 17:57:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-masculinity-is-toxic https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-masculinity-is-toxic How to safely break-up with an abuser when you don't live together. Wed, 14 Aug 2019 18:14:48 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/leaving-an-abuser-when-you-live-apart https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/leaving-an-abuser-when-you-live-apart In Iraq, shelters to help women escape abuse must be kept secret because traditions don't condemn controlling one's wife. Wed, 14 Aug 2019 21:36:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/around-the-world/why-domestic-violence-shelters-are-a-secret-in-iraq https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/around-the-world/why-domestic-violence-shelters-are-a-secret-in-iraq A police force in England proposes blunt knives to protect women and other news in domestic violence worldwide. Tue, 03 Sep 2019 16:28:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/around-the-world/around-the-world-england-thailand-and-mexico-in-the-news https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/around-the-world/around-the-world-england-thailand-and-mexico-in-the-news Personal, wearable alarms may be the fad, but can they really keep you safe? Wed, 04 Sep 2019 02:46:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/can-a-personal-alarm-protect-you https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/can-a-personal-alarm-protect-you The symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder vary between children and adults. Wed, 04 Sep 2019 17:50:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/does-ptsd-look-different-in-adults-and-children https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/does-ptsd-look-different-in-adults-and-children Create a custom safety plan to escape domestic violence with this printable worksheet. Wed, 04 Sep 2019 18:00:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/a-safety-planning-worksheet https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/a-safety-planning-worksheet Starting from scratch after leaving an abuser isn't easy, but it is doable. Wed, 04 Sep 2019 18:18:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/starting-from-scratch https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/starting-from-scratch Abusive partners are going to prevent survivors from reaching the polls this month. Wed, 04 Sep 2019 18:51:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/survivors-might-not-make-it-to-the-polls https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/survivors-might-not-make-it-to-the-polls Can emergency shelters ban service animals when survivors are escaping abuse? Wed, 04 Sep 2019 19:03:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/can-a-domestic-violence-shelter-ban-service-animals https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/can-a-domestic-violence-shelter-ban-service-animals Why am I so tired all the time? The reasons behind chronic exhustion explained. Wed, 04 Sep 2019 19:10:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-why-do-i-feel-so-tired-all-the-time https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-why-do-i-feel-so-tired-all-the-time After surviving abuse, there are some unhealthy and healthy coping strategies. Which one will you choose? Fri, 04 Oct 2019 02:38:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/healthy-vs-unhealthy-coping-strategies https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/healthy-vs-unhealthy-coping-strategies The SAFE School in Austin, Texs offers special protections to child victims of domestic violence. Fri, 04 Oct 2019 03:00:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/helping-kids-feel-safe-at-school https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/helping-kids-feel-safe-at-school Stress can take a toll on your physical well being as well as your mental state. Fri, 04 Oct 2019 03:23:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/when-stress-literally-hurts https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/when-stress-literally-hurts A survivor mom escapes abuse after being ruined financially by an abusive partner. Fri, 04 Oct 2019 03:54:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-brianne-i-d-finally-had-enough https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-brianne-i-d-finally-had-enough Survivors of domestic violence talk about what they wish they knew while in the midst of abuse. Fri, 04 Oct 2019 12:26:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/if-survivors-could-go-back-in-time https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/if-survivors-could-go-back-in-time Narcissistic partners plus abuse equals a relationship you may feel trapped indefinitely in. Fri, 01 Nov 2019 12:43:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/a-narcissistic-abuser-will-never-change https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/a-narcissistic-abuser-will-never-change Single mom and survivor of domestic violence is looking for help buying a car to get a new lease on life. Fri, 01 Nov 2019 13:32:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-single-mom-desperately-needs-a-car https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-single-mom-desperately-needs-a-car Making it harder to get an abortion will only allow abusers to more easily trap victims of domestic violence. Mon, 04 Nov 2019 17:28:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/how-limiting-abortion-rights-keeps-survivors-in-danger https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/how-limiting-abortion-rights-keeps-survivors-in-danger A gift guide that gives back to survivors of domestic violence. Mon, 04 Nov 2019 21:36:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/2019-holiday-gift-guide https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/2019-holiday-gift-guide 10 podcasts that can help you learn more about domestic violence and its victims Tue, 05 Nov 2019 03:33:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/10-must-hear-podcasts-on-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/10-must-hear-podcasts-on-domestic-violence Love bombing denotes a tactic abusers use to keep victims dependent on them for validation, security Tue, 05 Nov 2019 03:40:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/it-s-not-love-it-s-love-bombing https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/it-s-not-love-it-s-love-bombing How to compile evidence of abuse when it's not safe at home. Tue, 05 Nov 2019 13:27:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/when-you-can-t-collect-evidence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/when-you-can-t-collect-evidence Immigrants feel like they need to choose between reporting abuse and risking deportation or staying silent. Tue, 12 Nov 2019 03:20:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/when-fighting-abuse-could-lead-to-deportation https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/when-fighting-abuse-could-lead-to-deportation Someone who escapes an abusive partner may wonder if they owe the next partner fair warning. Tue, 12 Nov 2019 03:54:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/the-next-in-line-for-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/the-next-in-line-for-abuse The lasting effects of traumatic brain injuries in domestic violence surviors more serious than once thought. Tue, 12 Nov 2019 16:05:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/undiagnosed-brain-injuries-common-in-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/undiagnosed-brain-injuries-common-in-survivors A story of surviving abuse, starvation from her husband, and how this mom is trying to protect her daughter still today. Tue, 26 Nov 2019 21:13:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/my-brain-created-100-personalities-to-protect-me https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/my-brain-created-100-personalities-to-protect-me What's legal and what's not when recording phone calls for use in court. Tue, 26 Nov 2019 21:20:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/recording-phone-calls-can-help-prove-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/recording-phone-calls-can-help-prove-abuse A trauma-informed yoga class can be sensitive enough for survivors of domestic violence to feel comfortable in. Wed, 27 Nov 2019 12:30:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/i-tried-trauma-sensitive-yoga https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/i-tried-trauma-sensitive-yoga Rachel Louise Snyder answers questions about her new book, No Visible Bruises. Wed, 27 Nov 2019 12:42:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/you-have-to-read-this-book https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/you-have-to-read-this-book A protective mom is desperate to save her daughter from being abused by a boyfriend. Wed, 27 Nov 2019 13:15:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-need-to-get-my-daughter-out https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-need-to-get-my-daughter-out It wasn't rape, but you still didn't say yes. It's called sexual coercion, and it's a tactic of abusers. Wed, 27 Nov 2019 22:07:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-sexual-coercion https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-sexual-coercion Batterer reform programs get a lot of flack, but Phyllis Frank has been trying to change that in New York. Wed, 27 Nov 2019 23:09:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/to-end-abuse-first-end-male-entitlement https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/to-end-abuse-first-end-male-entitlement As well as avoiding for red flags, we should also keep an eye out for green flags that denote a partner is respecting our boundaries. Sat, 07 Dec 2019 22:35:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/maybe-we-should-look-for-these-green-flags-too https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/maybe-we-should-look-for-these-green-flags-too There are many reasons why journaling during and after abuse can be healing and helpful. Sat, 07 Dec 2019 22:45:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/putting-trauma-down-in-words https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/putting-trauma-down-in-words One survivor's story of running for her life to escape an abusive partner. Sat, 28 Dec 2019 17:38:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/i-ran-2-miles-barefoot-in-february https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/i-ran-2-miles-barefoot-in-february There are gaps in the federal gun laws that allow abusive boyfriends to acquire firearms. Sat, 28 Dec 2019 18:59:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/domestic-violence-and-gaps-in-federal-gun-law https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/domestic-violence-and-gaps-in-federal-gun-law The latest news on domestic violence from around the globe. Wed, 08 Jan 2020 11:41:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/around-the-world/around-the-world-canda-britain-and-tribal-lands https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/around-the-world/around-the-world-canda-britain-and-tribal-lands How domestic violence shelters triage the phone calls that come in. Wed, 08 Jan 2020 12:11:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/how-domestic-violence-hotlines-triage-callers https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/how-domestic-violence-hotlines-triage-callers A mother wonders how she can convince her abused daughter to seek emergency shelter. Wed, 08 Jan 2020 12:16:48 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-uneasy-about-going-to-shelter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-uneasy-about-going-to-shelter What happens when domestic violence occurs in polygamous relationships? Wed, 08 Jan 2020 12:26:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-domestic-abuse-happens-in-a-polygamous-relationship https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-domestic-abuse-happens-in-a-polygamous-relationship Instead of your typical resolutions of fad diets and fitness, how you can become mentally stronger in the new year. Thu, 09 Jan 2020 02:23:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/3-ways-to-become-mentally-stronger-in-2020 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/3-ways-to-become-mentally-stronger-in-2020 Six ways a victim of domestic violence can stash away cash in preparation for leaving. Thu, 09 Jan 2020 02:37:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/how-to-stash-cash https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/how-to-stash-cash Domestic violence shelters hardly affect property values and actually make neighborhoods safer. Thu, 09 Jan 2020 02:47:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/not-in-my-neighborhood https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/not-in-my-neighborhood A new study on stellate ganglion block (SGB) proves it has tangible results for those suffering with PTSD. Thu, 09 Jan 2020 02:58:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/new-hope-for-ptsd https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/new-hope-for-ptsd Trauma bonding may be the reason you can't let go of an abusive partner. Tue, 28 Jan 2020 16:33:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-why-do-i-keep-giving-him-another-chance https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-why-do-i-keep-giving-him-another-chance Use this online interactive tool to learn more about what abusive texting sounds like. Tue, 28 Jan 2020 16:51:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/are-these-texts-abusive https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/are-these-texts-abusive Treating the effects of childhood trauma early means lowering the risk of other health issues in adulthood, advises CDC. Tue, 28 Jan 2020 18:54:12 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/cdc-says-we-need-to-pay-more-attention-to-childhood-trauma https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/cdc-says-we-need-to-pay-more-attention-to-childhood-trauma For abuse survivors, there are ways around filing taxes with an abusive ex. Thu, 13 Feb 2020 04:31:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/tax-time-how-do-i-avoid-filing-with-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/tax-time-how-do-i-avoid-filing-with-an-abuser If you suspect child abuse, is calling the police always the best option? Thu, 13 Feb 2020 04:44:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-to-help-a-child-who-s-being-abused https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-to-help-a-child-who-s-being-abused Attorney and advocate Barry Goldstein says where we're going wrong trying to stop domestic violence. Fri, 14 Feb 2020 03:49:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/where-we-re-going-wrong-part-i https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/where-we-re-going-wrong-part-i A former attorney and domestic violence advocate says custody courts are putting children and protective parents in danger by not listening to them. Sat, 15 Feb 2020 13:44:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/custody-courts-aren-t-believing-kids-part-ii https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/custody-courts-aren-t-believing-kids-part-ii A former attorney and advocate on what could happen if abusers were held accountable for their crimes. Sat, 15 Feb 2020 13:57:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/a-world-without-domestic-violence-part-iii https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/a-world-without-domestic-violence-part-iii Is what you learned about money during childhood helping or hurting you? Sun, 16 Feb 2020 13:22:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/what-type-of-money-script-was-passed-down-to-you https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/what-type-of-money-script-was-passed-down-to-you Abusers can use a tactic called toxic triangulation to pit a victim's family and friends against them. Sun, 16 Feb 2020 13:45:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-toxic-triangulation https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-toxic-triangulation Domestic violence expert puts into perspective why state coalitions exist and how the troubling news out of Florida isn't an indicator that the entire system is broken. Tue, 10 Mar 2020 22:33:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/history-and-purpose-of-domestic-violence-coalitions https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/history-and-purpose-of-domestic-violence-coalitions How to end domestic violence? Talk to kids about their boundaries starting at birth. Wed, 11 Mar 2020 03:19:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/turns-out-3-isn-t-too-early-to-talk-boundaries https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/turns-out-3-isn-t-too-early-to-talk-boundaries Anxiety and depression can coexist, but there are ways to deal with the symptoms of both. Wed, 11 Mar 2020 03:36:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/the-fuzzy-line-between-anxiety-and-depression https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/the-fuzzy-line-between-anxiety-and-depression Abusers can disguise control to look a lot like acts of love. Wed, 11 Mar 2020 03:50:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/resisting-control-when-it-s-disguised-as-love https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/resisting-control-when-it-s-disguised-as-love When an estranged husband threatens to report his pregnant teenage wife to CPS, it's a form of power and control. Wed, 11 Mar 2020 04:03:36 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-he-s-threatening-to-call-cps https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-he-s-threatening-to-call-cps COVID-19 is forcing many companies to require employees to work from home. For people who are experiencing domestic violence, a mandate to self-isolate can be a virtual prison sentence. Wed, 18 Mar 2020 15:33:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/tele-commuting-protects-employees-from-viruses-not-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/tele-commuting-protects-employees-from-viruses-not-violence To prevent the spread of COVID-19, we're supposed to stay home, but home isn't safe for everyone. Wed, 18 Mar 2020 22:10:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/the-danger-of-being-quarantined-with-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/the-danger-of-being-quarantined-with-an-abuser A new online tool helps domestic violence survivors find financial compensation after escaping abuse. Wed, 25 Mar 2020 03:57:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/money-means-freedom https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/money-means-freedom One mom talks about what it was like to stay at a domestic violence shelter. Wed, 25 Mar 2020 04:17:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/what-it-s-like-inside-a-domestic-violence-shelter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/what-it-s-like-inside-a-domestic-violence-shelter Worried about how this pandemic will affect your bank account? Some relief is on the way. Mon, 30 Mar 2020 19:35:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/how-to-afford-a-pandemic https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/how-to-afford-a-pandemic Mandatory arrest laws means sometimes victims of domestic violence wind up in jail, too. Tue, 31 Mar 2020 02:58:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/i-got-arrested-too-now-what https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/i-got-arrested-too-now-what A husband talks about marrying a survivor of domestic violence. Tue, 31 Mar 2020 03:32:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/i-married-a-survivor-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/i-married-a-survivor-of-domestic-violence Author Laura Silberstein-Tirch, PsyD answers questions about her book, "How to Be Nice to Yourself." Tue, 31 Mar 2020 03:42:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/it-s-time-we-start-being-nicer-to-ourselves https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/it-s-time-we-start-being-nicer-to-ourselves Domestic violence isn't just going to stop—abusers will always escalate their level of power and control. Fri, 03 Apr 2020 13:30:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abuse-almost-always-escalates https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abuse-almost-always-escalates A victim of domestic violence thinks she's responsible for her abusive partner going to jail. Sat, 04 Apr 2020 21:41:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-feel-guilty-for-putting-him-away https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-feel-guilty-for-putting-him-away An abusive partner may use a survivor's HIV status against them. Sat, 04 Apr 2020 22:22:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/do-you-feel-trapped-because-of-your-hiv-status https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/do-you-feel-trapped-because-of-your-hiv-status Using they and them when discussing domestic violence helps more survivors feel seen. Sun, 05 Apr 2020 17:04:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/including-they-and-them-when-talking-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/including-they-and-them-when-talking-domestic-violence If your partner is asking to open your relationship, make sure it's not a red flag for future abuse. Sun, 05 Apr 2020 17:17:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/when-your-partner-asks-for-an-open-relationship https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/when-your-partner-asks-for-an-open-relationship For survivors of domestic violence, the COVID-19 quarantine can trigger memories of being isolated by an abusive partner. Wed, 15 Apr 2020 13:14:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-the-quarantine-is-triggering https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-the-quarantine-is-triggering It's not true that you need you to surrender your pet during COVID-19. Thu, 23 Apr 2020 18:23:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/you-don-t-need-to-surrender-your-pet-during-covid-19 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/you-don-t-need-to-surrender-your-pet-during-covid-19 It's your legal obligation to complete the 2020 census, but if you're afraid an abusive partner will use it to find you, you don't need to worry. Read this. Tue, 28 Apr 2020 03:04:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/everything-survivors-need-to-know-about-the-census https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/everything-survivors-need-to-know-about-the-census An abusive partner who shames your body doesn't have to define your self-worth. Wed, 29 Apr 2020 21:48:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/6-tips-to-overcome-body-shame https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/6-tips-to-overcome-body-shame When an abuser doesn't let you tell the truth, it's another way to control you. Mon, 04 May 2020 20:51:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-an-abuser-controls-the-story https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-an-abuser-controls-the-story A playlist to empower survivors of domestic violence. Mon, 04 May 2020 21:01:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/the-domestic-violence-survivor-s-playlist-take-2 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/the-domestic-violence-survivor-s-playlist-take-2 The obstacles to escaping an abusive partner are even greater when the survivor is in their golden years. Tue, 05 May 2020 03:38:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/elder-abuse/a-shelter-just-for-senior-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/elder-abuse/a-shelter-just-for-senior-survivors A partner who doesn't allow his partner to buy necessary supplies during a quarantine is wielding financial control. Mon, 18 May 2020 03:37:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-can-t-buy-necessities-during-quarantine https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-can-t-buy-necessities-during-quarantine Domestic violence shelters are going above and beyond to ensure the safety of those who stay with them during the pandemic. Mon, 18 May 2020 03:57:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/shelters-work-to-keep-covid-19-out https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/shelters-work-to-keep-covid-19-out Talking about the COVID-19 and quarantine with trauma-sensitive kids means being open and honest, while giving some extra love. Mon, 18 May 2020 04:11:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-to-talk-to-trauma-sensitive-kids-about-covid-19 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-to-talk-to-trauma-sensitive-kids-about-covid-19 An abusive partner may exert coercive control by claiming to be sick in order to keep a caregiver trapped. Mon, 18 May 2020 04:36:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/how-not-to-fall-into-a-caregiving-trap-with-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/how-not-to-fall-into-a-caregiving-trap-with-an-abuser Dating after domestic violence is possible, even during COVID-19, this article shares what to look out for when looking for love. Thu, 21 May 2020 16:12:48 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/dating-after-domestic-violence-critical-questions-to-ask https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/dating-after-domestic-violence-critical-questions-to-ask Survivors of domestic violence are asking emergency hotlines for emotional support, afraid to go to shelter during COVID-19. Tue, 26 May 2020 03:14:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/what-hotlines-are-hearing-from-survivors-during-covid-19 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/what-hotlines-are-hearing-from-survivors-during-covid-19 Women statistically face longer prison sentences after killing an abusive partner, as compared to men who kill the women they're abusing. Wed, 03 Jun 2020 03:01:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/women-serve-longer-prison-sentences-after-killing-abusers https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/women-serve-longer-prison-sentences-after-killing-abusers The 24-hour news cycle can be taxing on our emotions. Wed, 03 Jun 2020 13:00:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/turning-off-the-news-is-self-care https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/turning-off-the-news-is-self-care Look out for these words and phrases potential abusive partners often say. Tue, 09 Jun 2020 04:02:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/how-abusers-speak https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/how-abusers-speak Letting yourself practice self-care means giving yourself time and grace to heal. Tue, 09 Jun 2020 04:09:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/debunking-the-top-5-self-care-myths https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/debunking-the-top-5-self-care-myths Patrisha McLean survived domestic violence and is now helping other survivors share their voices. Mon, 15 Jun 2020 17:49:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/helping-women-find-their-voices https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/helping-women-find-their-voices Eight tips to help you afford to leave an abusive partner. Tue, 30 Jun 2020 02:37:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-can-i-afford-to-leave https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-can-i-afford-to-leave Canadian father and daughter duo begin a campaign to raise awareness about the homicide of indigenous women in Canada. Tue, 30 Jun 2020 03:05:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/the-moose-hide-campaign-calls-on-men-as-allies https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/the-moose-hide-campaign-calls-on-men-as-allies Seven apps that victims of domestic violence need to download today. Tue, 30 Jun 2020 03:23:12 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/lifesaving-apps-for-survivors-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/lifesaving-apps-for-survivors-of-domestic-violence If a victim is turned away from shelter because of drug use, it doesn't mean the person needs to return to their abuser. There are other options. Tue, 30 Jun 2020 03:38:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/can-you-be-turned-away-from-a-shelter-for-drug-use https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/can-you-be-turned-away-from-a-shelter-for-drug-use Survivors who must change jobs because of threats from an abuser may now qualify for unemployment as a result. Tue, 30 Jun 2020 03:53:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/unemployment-benefits-offered-to-survivors-forced-to-quit https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/unemployment-benefits-offered-to-survivors-forced-to-quit Police officers seem immune to the laws that say, after being convicted of domestic violence, they need to give up their guns. Sat, 11 Jul 2020 13:28:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/officers-charged-with-domestic-violence-still-have-guns https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/officers-charged-with-domestic-violence-still-have-guns Tips on preparing to testify in court against an abusive partner. Sat, 11 Jul 2020 15:42:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/nine-ways-to-prepare-to-testify-in-court https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/nine-ways-to-prepare-to-testify-in-court When you take the stand in court to testify, confidence is half the battle. Sat, 11 Jul 2020 15:56:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/taking-the-stand-in-domestic-violence-tips-for-testifying https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/taking-the-stand-in-domestic-violence-tips-for-testifying Defunding the police doesn't have to put domestic violence survivors at greater risk. Fri, 24 Jul 2020 17:37:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/don-t-use-domestic-violence-victims-to-derail-police-reform https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/don-t-use-domestic-violence-victims-to-derail-police-reform Withholding medical care is another way abusive partners try to control their victims. Sun, 26 Jul 2020 22:52:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/why-abusers-may-withhold-medical-care-and-medication https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/why-abusers-may-withhold-medical-care-and-medication Abusive partners often try to convince a judge the protective parent is keeping their kids from them by claiming parental alienation when, actually, the child is in grave danger. Sun, 26 Jul 2020 23:06:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/abusers-claim-parental-alienation-to-gain-custody-of-kids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/abusers-claim-parental-alienation-to-gain-custody-of-kids A teen says her dad has turned his abuse toward her and her siblings after her mom passed. Sun, 26 Jul 2020 23:21:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-after-mom-died-dad-takes-it-out-on-us https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-after-mom-died-dad-takes-it-out-on-us Some abusers are making up fake injuries to turn the blame around onto survivors. Sun, 26 Jul 2020 23:35:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-abusers-hurt-themselves-to-look-like-a-victim https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-abusers-hurt-themselves-to-look-like-a-victim Racism continues to fuel the fires of domestic violence. Thu, 30 Jul 2020 22:41:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/the-ways-racism-fuels-the-fire-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/the-ways-racism-fuels-the-fire-of-domestic-violence When it comes to advising survivors of domestic violence, telling them to turn to religion can be triggering in a bad way. Thu, 30 Jul 2020 22:46:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/why-we-shouldn-t-be-telling-survivors-to-find-god https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/why-we-shouldn-t-be-telling-survivors-to-find-god The Stand Your Ground Law doesn't protect most survivors of domestic violence for multiple reasons. Fri, 31 Jul 2020 12:25:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/do-stand-your-ground-laws-apply-to-dv-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/do-stand-your-ground-laws-apply-to-dv-survivors Tips for preparing your kids to go back to school after trauma. Tue, 25 Aug 2020 17:52:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-can-kids-concentrate-on-school-after-trauma https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-can-kids-concentrate-on-school-after-trauma Some shelters have found that making their locations public is actually helping survivors, not putting them in danger. Tue, 25 Aug 2020 18:26:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/should-shelter-locations-be-made-public https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/should-shelter-locations-be-made-public The talk all parents of kids who are about to leave home need to have before they go. Tue, 25 Aug 2020 18:33:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/the-talk-you-need-to-have-with-your-college-kid https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/the-talk-you-need-to-have-with-your-college-kid The five largest marches in history have enacted change and encouraged voter turnout. Tue, 25 Aug 2020 20:15:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/the-5-largest-single-day-marches-in-history https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/race-gender-religion-immigration/the-5-largest-single-day-marches-in-history Survivors of abuse are caught off guard by friends and family who judge, shame them. Wed, 26 Aug 2020 12:51:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/after-abuse-everyone-has-an-opinion https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/after-abuse-everyone-has-an-opinion An amazing story of survival from a mom who fled the country to protect her son from sexual abuse. Wed, 26 Aug 2020 13:15:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-she-ll-never-be-able-to-come-home-again https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-she-ll-never-be-able-to-come-home-again How do you begin to heal after an abusive partner takes someone you love? Wed, 26 Aug 2020 19:22:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/coping-with-a-violent-death-for-survivors-of-homicide https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/coping-with-a-violent-death-for-survivors-of-homicide What to do if you're being stalked. Step 1: Take death threats seriously. Wed, 26 Aug 2020 19:54:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-abuser-from-15-years-ago-is-stalking-me https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-abuser-from-15-years-ago-is-stalking-me Even though there was abuse, sometimes all we can remember are the good times after a break-up. Fri, 02 Oct 2020 04:01:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/when-all-you-can-remember-are-the-good-times https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/when-all-you-can-remember-are-the-good-times Around the world, domestic violence cases are on the rise. But in China, an offender database may help stop abuse before it can begin. Fri, 02 Oct 2020 04:30:09 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/around-the-world/around-the-world-domestic-violence-on-the-rise https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/around-the-world/around-the-world-domestic-violence-on-the-rise An abuser will pull out all the stops to get a victim to stay—how to respond to each abusive tactic. Sun, 04 Oct 2020 13:30:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/if-an-abuser-does-that-prepare-to-do-this https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/if-an-abuser-does-that-prepare-to-do-this For some survivors of domestic violence, wearing a face mask can be triggering in that it reminds them of not being able to breathe during violence. Sun, 04 Oct 2020 13:36:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-wearing-a-face-mask-is-triggering-anxiety https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-wearing-a-face-mask-is-triggering-anxiety If abuse is present, couples counseling is not going to fix it. Thu, 08 Oct 2020 03:38:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/couples-counseling-will-not-stop-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/couples-counseling-will-not-stop-abuse How to teach your kids nonviolence and how to stand up for others. Thu, 08 Oct 2020 04:38:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/raising-the-next-generation-of-allies https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/raising-the-next-generation-of-allies Domestic violence advocates weigh in on the progress we've made—or haven't made—in the fight to end domestic violence. Thu, 08 Oct 2020 04:47:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/are-things-getting-any-better https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/are-things-getting-any-better Pay attention to this signal—if you see someone use it, it could mean they're being controlled by an abusive partner. Thu, 08 Oct 2020 15:58:00 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-to-spot-a-signal-for-help-and-how-to-respond https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-to-spot-a-signal-for-help-and-how-to-respond It's normal for kids to have outbursts after living through domestic violence. Thu, 08 Oct 2020 16:17:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/after-domestic-violence-kids-may-cope-through-outbursts https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/after-domestic-violence-kids-may-cope-through-outbursts Finally, a study looks at the long-term effects of TBIs in survivors of domestic violence. Thu, 15 Oct 2020 20:39:48 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/study-looks-at-survivors-with-tbis-caused-by-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/study-looks-at-survivors-with-tbis-caused-by-an-abuser This 2020 gift guide includes 12 presents perfect for survivors or anyone who wants to give back. Sat, 24 Oct 2020 13:46:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/12-holiday-gift-ideas-with-heart https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/12-holiday-gift-ideas-with-heart Woman with diabilities questions how to leave an abusive husband with dementia. Thu, 29 Oct 2020 01:54:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-abusive-pastor-husband-has-dementia https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-abusive-pastor-husband-has-dementia Monique Faison Ross' memoir "Playing Dead," tells a harrowing near-miss with death. Thu, 29 Oct 2020 02:10:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/the-next-book-club-pick-is-a-memoir-of-terror-and-survival https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/the-next-book-club-pick-is-a-memoir-of-terror-and-survival A survivor trying to leave an abusive partner is up against a different set of challenges during a pandemic. Thu, 29 Oct 2020 02:50:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/covid-19/how-leaving-looks-different-during-covid-19 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/covid-19/how-leaving-looks-different-during-covid-19 If an abusive partner stole your pandemic stimulus check in March, is there any hope of getting it back? Thu, 29 Oct 2020 03:25:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/covid-19/an-abuser-stole-your-stimulus-check-now-what https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/covid-19/an-abuser-stole-your-stimulus-check-now-what There are ten other reasons you can call a domestic violence hotline other than needing shelter. Thu, 29 Oct 2020 04:19:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/you-can-call-a-hotline-even-if-you-don-t-want-to-leave https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/you-can-call-a-hotline-even-if-you-don-t-want-to-leave Employers should pay attention to signs of domestic violence in employees' lives. Thu, 12 Nov 2020 20:59:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/how-workplaces-can-protect-domestic-violence-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/how-workplaces-can-protect-domestic-violence-survivors Some believe that pets can help us detect the safe people in our life. Mon, 16 Nov 2020 23:58:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/should-our-pets-help-us-choose-our-partners https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/should-our-pets-help-us-choose-our-partners After leaving abuse, rebuilding self-esteem is key. Thu, 03 Dec 2020 02:40:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/what-did-you-do-for-yourself-after-leaving https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/what-did-you-do-for-yourself-after-leaving A true story of of a domestic violence survivor who met her abusive partner at work. Thu, 03 Dec 2020 03:11:00 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/i-thought-i-knew-what-domestic-violence-was https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/i-thought-i-knew-what-domestic-violence-was Spanking your kids falls under the category of domestic violence. Thu, 03 Dec 2020 03:28:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-husband-wants-me-to-spank-the-kids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-husband-wants-me-to-spank-the-kids How to deal with emotional abuse starts by identifying what kind of abuser you encounter. Thu, 03 Dec 2020 04:02:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/seeing-abusers-as-manipulators-con-artists https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/seeing-abusers-as-manipulators-con-artists A true story of surviving domestic violence and going on to thrive, including meeting Oprah. Thu, 03 Dec 2020 13:02:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-from-homeless-abused-to-meeting-oprah https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-from-homeless-abused-to-meeting-oprah Do we show more compassion overall for animals over human beings? Thu, 03 Dec 2020 13:17:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/do-women-get-as-much-compassion-as-animals https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/do-women-get-as-much-compassion-as-animals Five ways to help survivors recover from trauma in the new year Wed, 23 Dec 2020 02:57:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/5-ways-to-start-fresh-in-2021 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/5-ways-to-start-fresh-in-2021 Turns out, moving home during a pandemic is not curbing incidents of domestic violence in young adults Wed, 23 Dec 2020 03:23:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/majority-of-young-people-have-moved-back-home https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/majority-of-young-people-have-moved-back-home Police need to determine primary aggressor in domestic violence calls, and victims can help by providing information. Wed, 23 Dec 2020 03:34:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/help-police-determine-who-is-the-primary-aggressor https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/help-police-determine-who-is-the-primary-aggressor A comprehensive guide breaks down the facets of domestic violence and abuse tactics. Tue, 05 Jan 2021 03:11:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/understanding-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/understanding-domestic-violence New legislation in memory of Lori Jackson aims to prevent abusive partners from acquiring a gun. Mon, 11 Jan 2021 11:47:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/an-order-of-protection-should-mean-no-guns https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/an-order-of-protection-should-mean-no-guns A comprehensive guide to help potential victims of domestic violence see the signs of abuse in their partner Mon, 11 Jan 2021 12:09:12 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/am-i-being-abused https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/am-i-being-abused How survivor entrepreneurs are finding financial success after abuse Sun, 17 Jan 2021 17:46:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/survivor-entrepreneurs-are-breaking-free https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/survivor-entrepreneurs-are-breaking-free Domestic violence and narcissistic personality disorder often overlap Sun, 17 Jan 2021 18:09:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-narcissistic-personality-disorder https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-narcissistic-personality-disorder Canadian nonprofit moves victims of domestic violence free of charge Sun, 17 Jan 2021 22:13:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/canada-nonprofit-moves-survivors-for-free https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/canada-nonprofit-moves-survivors-for-free Tips for teens and parents on recognizing and responding to dating violence. Mon, 18 Jan 2021 12:20:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/understanding-teen-dating-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/understanding-teen-dating-violence Advice for finding financial freedom after escaping domestic abuse. Fri, 05 Feb 2021 22:41:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-rebuild-my-finances-after-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-rebuild-my-finances-after-abuse Domestic violence survivor on how to never fall into an abuser’s trap again. Fri, 05 Feb 2021 23:10:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/never-settle-for-less-than-you-deserve-again https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/never-settle-for-less-than-you-deserve-again Some say the term battered woman syndrome does a disservice to survivors of abuse. Fri, 26 Feb 2021 02:51:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-is-battered-woman-syndrome https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-is-battered-woman-syndrome Escaping an abusive partner as a gay man in the military provided extra barriers for Rusty Babcock, a domestic violence survivor, in the don’t-ask-don’t-tell era. Fri, 26 Feb 2021 03:11:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/escaping-same-sex-abuse-during-don-t-ask-don-t-tell https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/escaping-same-sex-abuse-during-don-t-ask-don-t-tell Sheri Kurdakul, a survivor of abuse, created a progressive web app called VictimsVoice that helps other victims and survivors safely and discretely collect evidence that is legally admissible in court. Fri, 26 Feb 2021 03:34:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/documenting-domestic-violence-evidence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/documenting-domestic-violence-evidence A controlling husband or spouse can mean domestic abuse. Why you should be able to draw boundaries safely with a partner. Sun, 28 Feb 2021 22:56:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-live-with-a-controlling-husband https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-live-with-a-controlling-husband How to find connection with others when you’re coping with loneliness. Sun, 28 Feb 2021 23:11:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/10-suggestions-for-coping-with-loneliness-in-the-pandemic https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/10-suggestions-for-coping-with-loneliness-in-the-pandemic A guide to understanding trauma bonding to an abusive partner. Sun, 28 Feb 2021 23:39:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-trauma-bonding https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-trauma-bonding Victims of a toxic or abusive partner use the “grey rock method” to avoid being a target. Sat, 27 Mar 2021 21:17:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-using-the-grey-rock-method-to-avoid-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-using-the-grey-rock-method-to-avoid-abuse Abusive partners often use brainwashing, mind control, to isolate, trap and intimidate victims Sat, 27 Mar 2021 21:25:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/yes-abusive-partners-brainwash-their-victims https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/yes-abusive-partners-brainwash-their-victims Understanding restraining orders, also known as orders of protection, and how to get one as a victim of domestic violence. Sat, 27 Mar 2021 21:36:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/a-guide-to-restraining-orders https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/a-guide-to-restraining-orders Survivors leave an abuser seven times before staying away for good—learn how to leave an abusive partner for good. Mon, 29 Mar 2021 12:54:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-survivors-have-left-an-abuser-for-good https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-survivors-have-left-an-abuser-for-good A comprehensive guide to understanding when sexual abuse is a part of domestic violence. Mon, 29 Mar 2021 18:17:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-sexual-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-sexual-abuse The Safety trap is a new book on how to stay safe and avoid dangerous people. Mon, 26 Apr 2021 16:53:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/new-book-club-selection-the-safety-trap https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/new-book-club-selection-the-safety-trap More court hearings are going virtual due to the pandemic, a good thing for survivors of domestic violence. Mon, 26 Apr 2021 17:14:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/virtual-court-hearings-make-testifying-safer https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/virtual-court-hearings-make-testifying-safer One cause of domestic violence is how our childhood impacts us into adulthood. Mon, 26 Apr 2021 17:30:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-fuels-domestic-violence-part-1-a-family-pattern https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-fuels-domestic-violence-part-1-a-family-pattern Understanding the signs and red flags of emotional abuse within domestic violence. Tue, 27 Apr 2021 16:49:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-emotional-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-emotional-abuse Tips for preparing for court when the hearing is virtual via computer teleconferencing. Tue, 27 Apr 2021 17:26:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/tips-to-prepare-for-virtual-court https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/tips-to-prepare-for-virtual-court Financial or economic abuse is one of the most common ways an abuser traps a victim Mon, 03 May 2021 17:49:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-financial-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-financial-abuse True accounts from survivors of domestic violence on the exact moment they decided to leave Wed, 26 May 2021 22:40:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/true-stories-about-the-moment-survivors-decided-to-leave https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/true-stories-about-the-moment-survivors-decided-to-leave A comprehensive guide to understanding verbal abuse. Thu, 27 May 2021 03:04:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-verbal-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-verbal-abuse Jacqueline Franchetti is trying to change the laws to prevent other children, like her daughter Kyra, from being killed by an abusive parent Wed, 02 Jun 2021 03:25:12 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/my-2-year-old-daughter-was-murdered-by-her-father https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/my-2-year-old-daughter-was-murdered-by-her-father A comprehensive guide to understanding elder abuse, or the abuse of seniors by their caretakers or family members. Wed, 02 Jun 2021 12:35:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/elder-abuse/what-is-elder-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/elder-abuse/what-is-elder-abuse The true story of one abuser and the three wives he’s tormented (so far). Tue, 08 Jun 2021 17:34:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/one-abuser-three-wives-and-zero-accountability https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/one-abuser-three-wives-and-zero-accountability An domestic violence survivor is sent to jail for shooting her abusive husband after he tries to kill her. Tue, 08 Jun 2021 18:29:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/part-ii-one-abuser-three-wives-and-zero-accountability https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/part-ii-one-abuser-three-wives-and-zero-accountability Some judges issue gag orders in order to silence victims of domestic violence Thu, 24 Jun 2021 03:02:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-can-a-judge-issue-a-gag-order-against-a-victim https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-can-a-judge-issue-a-gag-order-against-a-victim The true story of one abuser and the three wives he’s tormented (so far).  Thu, 24 Jun 2021 03:19:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/part-iii-one-abuser-three-wives-and-zero-accountability https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/part-iii-one-abuser-three-wives-and-zero-accountability Would legalizing sex work reduce violence against sex workers? Tue, 06 Jul 2021 12:18:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/human-trafficking/should-sex-work-be-legalized https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/human-trafficking/should-sex-work-be-legalized How a misogynistic culture in the U.S. fuels the continuation of domestic violence. Wed, 07 Jul 2021 03:02:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-fuels-domestic-violence-part-2-misogyny https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-fuels-domestic-violence-part-2-misogyny Gaslighting is a manipulation tactic used by more than just abusive partners—it can come from coworkers, friends or family members. Wed, 07 Jul 2021 03:20:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/bad-news-anyone-can-be-a-gaslighter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/bad-news-anyone-can-be-a-gaslighter Abusers can exploit their partners’ labor by forcing them to work and not allowing them to access their earnings. Wed, 07 Jul 2021 03:34:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/is-your-partner-exploiting-your-work https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/is-your-partner-exploiting-your-work New phone app is voice-activated to call for help in an emergency Mon, 12 Jul 2021 11:38:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/survivor-creates-voice-activated-ebodyguard-app https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/survivor-creates-voice-activated-ebodyguard-app It’s not always in the child’s best interest to force an abusive ex-partner to spend time with their child. Wed, 28 Jul 2021 16:15:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-abusive-ex-doesn-t-prioritize-our-daughter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-abusive-ex-doesn-t-prioritize-our-daughter A comprehensive guide to coercive control, a nonphysical tactic of abusers that controls every aspect of a victim’s life. Fri, 30 Jul 2021 00:22:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/a-guide-to-coercive-control https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/a-guide-to-coercive-control In both criminal and civil cases, an expert witness can help a domestic violence survivor make a solid case. Fri, 30 Jul 2021 00:43:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-an-expert-witness-can-help-your-court-case-part-1 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-an-expert-witness-can-help-your-court-case-part-1 How to find an expert witness for a domestic abuse court case and what they might cost. Fri, 30 Jul 2021 01:05:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-find-an-expert-witnesses-for-court-part-2 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-find-an-expert-witnesses-for-court-part-2 The Power and Control Wheel and the Cycle of Violence help victims of domestic violence better understand what they’re going through. Mon, 09 Aug 2021 21:28:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-are-the-power-and-control-wheels https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-are-the-power-and-control-wheels A woman gets up the courage to leave her husband after he strangles her four times. Thu, 19 Aug 2021 12:50:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/after-four-strangulations-i-googled-domestic-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/after-four-strangulations-i-googled-domestic-abuse A new law in Connecticut will include coercive control in its definition of domestic violence. Fri, 20 Aug 2021 19:06:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/jennifers-law-addresses-coercive-control-in-family-court https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/jennifers-law-addresses-coercive-control-in-family-court A true story of surviving and escaping abuse with four kids. Fri, 20 Aug 2021 19:48:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-tara-overcomes-abuse-fights-to-keep-her-children https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-tara-overcomes-abuse-fights-to-keep-her-children Advice to two survivors of domestic violence who feel trauma bonded to abusers. Tue, 24 Aug 2021 02:40:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-still-feel-connected-to-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-still-feel-connected-to-an-abuser This guide can help you better understand what’s involved in physical abuse. Tue, 24 Aug 2021 03:13:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-physical-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-physical-abuse A new law would offer federal protection for victims of revenge porn Tue, 24 Aug 2021 19:59:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/revenge-porn-meets-the-law-federal-protections-for-victims https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/revenge-porn-meets-the-law-federal-protections-for-victims A survivor of domestic violence is falsely accused by her husband of stabbing him the night he strangled her. Wed, 25 Aug 2021 17:14:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-amy-ballon-s-abusive-ex-stabs-himself-to-frame-her https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-amy-ballon-s-abusive-ex-stabs-himself-to-frame-her The history behind and ways you can help during domestic violence awareness month. Wed, 25 Aug 2021 18:29:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/a-comprehensive-guide-to-domestic-violence-awareness-month https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/a-comprehensive-guide-to-domestic-violence-awareness-month Sexual coercion is a type of abuse that involves involuntary sex acts Wed, 25 Aug 2021 19:15:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/sexual-coercion-in-intimate-relationships-eight-tactics https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/sexual-coercion-in-intimate-relationships-eight-tactics NO MORE Foundation creates Global Directory to help survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault find help in more than 200 countries Tue, 14 Sep 2021 12:51:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/no-more-and-domesticshelters-org-to-grow-global-directory https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/no-more-and-domesticshelters-org-to-grow-global-directory New documentary focuses on survivors of abuse wrongfully arrested for defending themselves Tue, 28 Sep 2021 03:32:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/sentenced-for-defending-themselves https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/sentenced-for-defending-themselves It’s never too early to teach kids about sexism, especially when Halloween rolls around. Tue, 28 Sep 2021 13:12:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-can-we-stop-gendering-kids-halloween-costumes https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-can-we-stop-gendering-kids-halloween-costumes Abusers can drug a partner without their knowledge and then assault them—what to do if you suspect you’ve been drugged. Tue, 28 Sep 2021 19:07:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/drugging-an-intimate-partner-as-an-abuse-tactic https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/drugging-an-intimate-partner-as-an-abuse-tactic A guide to helping male victims of domestic violence who often face barriers to reporting Tue, 28 Sep 2021 19:25:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/a-guide-for-male-survivors-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/a-guide-for-male-survivors-of-domestic-violence New legislation means commanders will no longer decide whether to prosecute soldiers for abuse and assault Tue, 28 Sep 2021 19:54:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/national-defense-authorization-act-includes-sweeping-reforms https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/national-defense-authorization-act-includes-sweeping-reforms A comprehensive guide to gaslighting, a dizzying tactic of psychological abuse. Wed, 29 Sep 2021 03:10:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/a-guide-to-gaslighting https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/a-guide-to-gaslighting A letter from a strangulation survivor to Gabby Petito, who lost her life at the hands of her boyfriend earlier this year. Wed, 20 Oct 2021 16:09:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/a-letter-to-gabby-petito-from-a-strangulation-survivor https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/a-letter-to-gabby-petito-from-a-strangulation-survivor Ideas for parents struggling to connect with kids after living through trauma. Tue, 26 Oct 2021 15:41:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-connecting-with-kids-after-trauma https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-connecting-with-kids-after-trauma Jana’s Campaign was created to keep the work of domestic violence victim and advocate Jana Mackey alive by providing violence prevention education to students, educators and communities. Wed, 27 Oct 2021 03:50:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/life-of-activist-jana-mackey-cut-short-by-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/life-of-activist-jana-mackey-cut-short-by-abuser 12 gift ideas the benefit survivors of domestic abuse Wed, 27 Oct 2021 13:03:48 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/2021-holiday-gift-guide https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/2021-holiday-gift-guide How the Violence Against Women Act has helped countless survivors of abuse and assault since 1994.  Mon, 08 Nov 2021 15:37:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-the-violence-against-women-act https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-the-violence-against-women-act A guide to cyberstalking, cyberbullying and cyberharassment, and how to respond if it happens to you. Mon, 08 Nov 2021 16:09:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/a-guide-to-cyberstalking https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/a-guide-to-cyberstalking The key points on psychological and financial abuse that Netflix’s Maid got right. Mon, 29 Nov 2021 04:06:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/netflix-s-maid-highlights-truth-about-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/netflix-s-maid-highlights-truth-about-domestic-violence A guide to reclaiming your holiday joy after trauma. Mon, 29 Nov 2021 12:31:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/a-guide-to-celebrating-the-holidays-after-trauma https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/a-guide-to-celebrating-the-holidays-after-trauma U.S. immigrants who are victims and survivors of domestic abuse face unique challenges in escaping violent situations. These extra steps can help with safety plans for immigrants. Mon, 29 Nov 2021 20:37:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/domestic-violence-safety-planning-for-immigrants https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/domestic-violence-safety-planning-for-immigrants When family members pretend domestic violence never happened, how can a survivor respond? Mon, 06 Dec 2021 15:54:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-family-invites-my-abusive-ex-to-events https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-family-invites-my-abusive-ex-to-events Deciding whether or not to press charges against an abuser can be intimidating, but sometimes it’s not up the victim.  Fri, 10 Dec 2021 20:19:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-happens-when-you-press-charges-for-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-happens-when-you-press-charges-for-domestic-violence A comprehensive guide to understanding the tactics of spiritual abuse. Fri, 10 Dec 2021 20:46:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-spiritual-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-spiritual-abuse A comprehensive guide to understanding a toxic relationship in your life and how it can escalate to abuse. Tue, 14 Dec 2021 12:55:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/signs-of-a-toxic-relationship https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/signs-of-a-toxic-relationship Resolutions can stress us out more than motivate us, so why not give them a new spin this year?  Wed, 29 Dec 2021 03:33:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/new-year-s-resolution-no-more-lists-of-resolutions https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/new-year-s-resolution-no-more-lists-of-resolutions Tips for a survivor of abuse who’s ready to write, and publish, a book about their experience. Fri, 31 Dec 2021 14:28:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/write-your-book https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/write-your-book A guide to understanding the laws that surround domestic violence. Fri, 31 Dec 2021 14:45:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/domestic-violence-and-the-law https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/domestic-violence-and-the-law How to tell a new partner about domestic abuse in the past. Fri, 31 Dec 2021 14:58:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-talk-to-new-partner-about-past-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-talk-to-new-partner-about-past-abuse When a partner is abusive toward animals, your risk of also being abused skyrockets. Thu, 13 Jan 2022 18:56:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/animal-abuse-a-serious-red-flag-for-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/animal-abuse-a-serious-red-flag-for-domestic-violence A guide to understanding stalking, it’s different types and the best way to respond to a stalker Thu, 13 Jan 2022 20:02:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-stalking https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-stalking Children are often still victimized by abusers even after a protective parent escapes. Thu, 27 Jan 2022 18:11:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/post-separation-abuse-harms-children https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/post-separation-abuse-harms-children How to identify the signs of a safe partner and a healthy relationship. Wed, 09 Feb 2022 20:05:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/a-guide-to-healthy-relationships https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/a-guide-to-healthy-relationships Teaching kids empathy for survivors of domestic violence as well as warning signs for abuse Thu, 10 Feb 2022 03:40:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-explain-domestic-violence-to-my-kids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-explain-domestic-violence-to-my-kids How to know if it’s time to take a break from that survivor who isn’t ready to leave an abuser. Fri, 11 Feb 2022 16:35:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/is-it-ok-to-step-away-from-a-survivor-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/is-it-ok-to-step-away-from-a-survivor-of-domestic-violence Six steps to creating a safety plan when it’s time for a domestic violence victim to leave an abusive partner. Fri, 11 Feb 2022 16:47:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/comprehensive-guides/a-guide-to-domestic-violence-safety-planning https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/comprehensive-guides/a-guide-to-domestic-violence-safety-planning High-conflict divorces is a fancy way to say an abuser is using the legal system to control a victim. Fri, 11 Feb 2022 16:59:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/it-s-post-separation-legal-abuse-not-high-conflict-divorce https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/it-s-post-separation-legal-abuse-not-high-conflict-divorce When abusers claim “reactive abuse,” it’s just a psychological trick to blame the victim. Wed, 23 Feb 2022 19:54:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-isn-t-reactive-abuse-just-victim-blaming https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-isn-t-reactive-abuse-just-victim-blaming The Purple Ribbon Awards honor and celebrate the many heroes of the domestic violence movement. Tue, 01 Mar 2022 20:22:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/recognition-helps-domestic-abuse-professionals-avoid-burnout https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/recognition-helps-domestic-abuse-professionals-avoid-burnout Exposure to porn early on makes raising sexually healthy kids a little more challenging. Tue, 01 Mar 2022 20:35:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/teaching-kids-about-healthy-sex-in-a-porn-saturated-culture https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/teaching-kids-about-healthy-sex-in-a-porn-saturated-culture Nonprofits create New York Times Square billboard that speaks to survivors of domestic violence. Thu, 03 Mar 2022 22:45:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/message-of-hope-for-survivors-reaches-ny-s-times-square https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/message-of-hope-for-survivors-reaches-ny-s-times-square The 15th Battered Mothers Custody Conference takes place this March 2022 to give protective moms a place for resources, support and hope. Wed, 09 Mar 2022 12:26:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/2022-battered-mothers-custody-conference-dates-announced https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/2022-battered-mothers-custody-conference-dates-announced In our next Book Club selection, Something Wild tells a realistic story of what living through domestic violence is like Wed, 09 Mar 2022 13:04:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/something-wild-is-gripping-book-club-pick https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/something-wild-is-gripping-book-club-pick Knowing about these three “hidden” signs of abuse can help medical professionals offer support and resources to domestic violence victims. Wed, 09 Mar 2022 18:05:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/three-hidden-signs-of-physical-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/three-hidden-signs-of-physical-abuse Protective moms are losing custody of their children after abusers manipulate court system and judges refuse to listen to scientific evidence. Sat, 19 Mar 2022 13:59:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/courts-refuse-to-listen-to-scientists-despite-kids-in-harm https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/courts-refuse-to-listen-to-scientists-despite-kids-in-harm Domestic abuse survivors are at a higher risk for suicide, but there is hope. Learn more about how to change your mindset and escape domestic violence suicide. Sat, 19 Mar 2022 14:21:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/domestic-violence-survivors-thinking-of-suicide https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/domestic-violence-survivors-thinking-of-suicide What starts out as domestic violence can change to sex trafficking before a survivor even realizes what’s happened. Thu, 31 Mar 2022 03:21:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/human-trafficking/how-does-sex-trafficking-intersect-with-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/human-trafficking/how-does-sex-trafficking-intersect-with-domestic-violence Protective mothers divorcing from an abuser need to find an attorney with domestic violence experience. Unfortunately, they’re often few and far between. Thu, 31 Mar 2022 03:37:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/how-can-protective-mothers-find-a-good-attorney https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/how-can-protective-mothers-find-a-good-attorney Keeping your digital footprint safe before and after leaving an abusive partner. Thu, 31 Mar 2022 12:42:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/protect-your-digital-life-when-leaving-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/protect-your-digital-life-when-leaving-an-abuser Making friends after an abusive partner can be tricky, but it’ll help you heal. Mon, 04 Apr 2022 03:20:48 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-make-new-friends-after-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-make-new-friends-after-abuse Abusers don’t always stop using abusive tactics after a survivor has left the relationship. Mon, 04 Apr 2022 12:24:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/8-common-post-separation-domestic-abuse-tactics https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/8-common-post-separation-domestic-abuse-tactics A dangerous abuser deemed no longer a threat by parole board. Mon, 04 Apr 2022 16:47:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/violent-abuser-murderer-up-for-parole https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/violent-abuser-murderer-up-for-parole Being a victim of an abusive partner shares similarities with survivors of cults. Thu, 14 Apr 2022 03:31:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-connection-between-cults-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-connection-between-cults-and-domestic-violence Doubting yourself when it comes time to leave an abusive partner? If there’s abuse, you’re doing the right thing. Wed, 11 May 2022 12:44:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/dv-survivors-and-self-doubt-am-i-doing-the-right-thing https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/dv-survivors-and-self-doubt-am-i-doing-the-right-thing If watching movies and TV makes you anxious because you’re afraid of being triggered during difficult scenes, there are websites that can warn you ahead of time. Thu, 12 May 2022 03:52:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/sites-that-help-you-avoid-triggers-in-movies-tv-shows https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/sites-that-help-you-avoid-triggers-in-movies-tv-shows Abusers use cyberstalking to control partners — how not to fall victim to this digital trap. Thu, 12 May 2022 12:15:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/defining-digital-threats-amp-protecting-yourself-online https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/defining-digital-threats-amp-protecting-yourself-online An abusive partner who is demanding about sex and often early in a relationship is a red flag for serious danger ahead. Thu, 12 May 2022 17:00:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/Sex-Homicide-Risk-Relationships-Domestic-Abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/Sex-Homicide-Risk-Relationships-Domestic-Abuse After domestic violence, a birthday can be a triggering holiday. Some advice on how to get through it in a healing way. Mon, 16 May 2022 20:47:48 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-celebrating-my-birthday-is-triggering https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-celebrating-my-birthday-is-triggering 10 torture tactics abusers use against their partners and children. Wed, 08 Jun 2022 21:55:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/10-tactics-of-coercive-control-torture-within-a-family https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/10-tactics-of-coercive-control-torture-within-a-family After domestic violence, Father’s Day can be a triggering holiday. Some advice on how to get through it in a healing way. Wed, 08 Jun 2022 22:02:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-reinventing-father-s-day-after-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-reinventing-father-s-day-after-domestic-violence John Stacey killed his 4-year-old son before killing himself after the boy’s mom was denied an order of protection. Fri, 10 Jun 2022 12:59:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/why-didn-t-florida-courts-protect-this-4-year-old https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/why-didn-t-florida-courts-protect-this-4-year-old Tips to keep your identity online safe from abusers, stalkers Fri, 10 Jun 2022 14:01:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/tips-to-stay-safe-online https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/tips-to-stay-safe-online What to do if you suspect your online data has been breached by a hacker. Sat, 11 Jun 2022 13:04:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/what-should-you-do-if-your-data-is-breached https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/what-should-you-do-if-your-data-is-breached In this domestic violence journalist's opinion, Johnny Depp knew exactly what he was doing when he gaslit us all. Mon, 13 Jun 2022 04:46:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/has-johnny-depp-gaslight-us-all https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/has-johnny-depp-gaslight-us-all When she tried to leave an abusive partner, he shot her three times. She lived to tell the story. Thu, 16 Jun 2022 01:21:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/gunned-down-two-dv-survivors-connect-over-shared-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/gunned-down-two-dv-survivors-connect-over-shared-violence Janet Paulsen survived being shot six times and is fighting for other survivors of domestic violence. Thu, 16 Jun 2022 12:53:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/gunned-down-by-an-abuser-part-2 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/gunned-down-by-an-abuser-part-2 Tips to keep your identity safe while online shopping Tue, 28 Jun 2022 04:18:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/shop-safely-securely-and-scam-free-online https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/shop-safely-securely-and-scam-free-online How to help your teen safely date in a highly digital world. Tue, 28 Jun 2022 17:05:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/teen-dating-safety-for-the-digital-world https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/teen-dating-safety-for-the-digital-world Compare and contrast ways to get support as a domestic violence survivior online. Mon, 11 Jul 2022 19:32:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/where-to-find-online-support https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/where-to-find-online-support Preventing sexual violence means starting with teaching our kids about healthy relationships, boundaries Tue, 12 Jul 2022 03:26:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/6-ways-to-raise-sexually-respectful-boys https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/6-ways-to-raise-sexually-respectful-boys Apple AirTags can be used for tracking things, but also for unknowingly stalking people. Tue, 12 Jul 2022 03:51:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/airtags-can-track-belongings-also-people https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/airtags-can-track-belongings-also-people Children and teens can be abusive toward parents. What to do right away if you notice these behaviors Thu, 14 Jul 2022 20:38:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/what-to-do-if-your-teen-or-adult-child-is-abusive https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/what-to-do-if-your-teen-or-adult-child-is-abusive For victims of domestic violence, using cryptocurrency to stash money might mean a way out. Fri, 29 Jul 2022 02:42:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/cryptocurrency-and-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/cryptocurrency-and-domestic-violence Checklist of 9 things to keep your home safe from break-ins Sat, 06 Aug 2022 12:54:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/home-security-checklist-9-things-to-look-for https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/home-security-checklist-9-things-to-look-for After domestic violence, parents can abate anxiety about sending kids back to school by taking a few precautions. Fri, 12 Aug 2022 20:58:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/4-tips-to-get-kids-back-to-school-safely-after-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/4-tips-to-get-kids-back-to-school-safely-after-abuse One author's thoughts on how the Violence Against Women Act promotes a police response meaning victims can sometimes become the perpetrators Fri, 12 Aug 2022 21:16:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/vawa-should-fund-more-housing-not-more-policing https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/vawa-should-fund-more-housing-not-more-policing Victims of sexual assault are provided comfort thanks to nonprofit after undergoing arape kit. Tue, 16 Aug 2022 19:25:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/providing-comfort-kits-after-rape-to-sa-and-abuse-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/providing-comfort-kits-after-rape-to-sa-and-abuse-survivors There are at least 10 reasons why abusive partners pose risks to kids. Mon, 29 Aug 2022 12:55:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/risks-of-domestic-abusers-as-parents https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/risks-of-domestic-abusers-as-parents For survivors of abuse, running a background check on a potential new partner should be one step of several to ensure safety. Mon, 29 Aug 2022 18:16:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-should-i-background-check-my-date https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-should-i-background-check-my-date This list of 25 domestic violence movies may help survivors of domestic abuse feel seen. Mon, 29 Aug 2022 21:28:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/10-dv-films-that-accurately-portray-the-problem https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/10-dv-films-that-accurately-portray-the-problem A national nonprofit is going to brothels and strip clubs to provide humanitarian aid to sex workers. Tue, 30 Aug 2022 17:01:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/sweet-support-for-sex-workers https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/heroes/sweet-support-for-sex-workers A guide on custody issues and how a protective parent can secure custody of their child after domestic violence. Wed, 31 Aug 2022 13:03:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/comprehensive-guides/a-guide-to-child-custody-issues https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/comprehensive-guides/a-guide-to-child-custody-issues Domestic abuse often follows a four-stage Cycle of Abuse, but victims don’t have to stay trapped. Wed, 31 Aug 2022 18:02:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-the-cycle-of-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-the-cycle-of-abuse Being single by choice can be empowering, especially after domestic violence. Wed, 28 Sep 2022 12:58:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-don-t-want-another-relationship https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-don-t-want-another-relationship What happens with an abusive partner tries to flip the script using a secret recording of a survivor’s reaction? Wed, 28 Sep 2022 13:06:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/when-abusers-provoke-and-record https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/technology/when-abusers-provoke-and-record Colleen Hoover's best-seller "It Ends With Us" is missing a vital part of co-parenting with an abuser—it's dangerous and not recommended Fri, 30 Sep 2022 13:17:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/stop-praising-colleen-hoover-s-it-ends-with-us https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/stop-praising-colleen-hoover-s-it-ends-with-us A woman recalls narrowly escaping an abusive boyfriend with her life as a teen. Fri, 30 Sep 2022 20:37:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/i-frowned-on-survivors-of-domestic-violence-until-it-was-me https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/i-frowned-on-survivors-of-domestic-violence-until-it-was-me We recommend these true crime podcasts that help listeners connect the dots between murder and domestic violence, a key piece to understanding how this violence continues. Wed, 12 Oct 2022 13:17:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-your-true-crime-podcast-is-missing https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-your-true-crime-podcast-is-missing Learn eight ways how to help a victim of domestic violence. Your help can save people experiencing abuse. Fri, 14 Oct 2022 03:57:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/8-ways-to-help-a-victim-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/8-ways-to-help-a-victim-of-domestic-violence Domestic violence Survivor of the Year Audrey Prosper talks about being set on fire by an abusive ex and coming back stronger than ever Fri, 14 Oct 2022 04:32:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-audrey-prosper https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-audrey-prosper Survivors of abuse can experience feelings of sympathy towards an abuser known as trauma bonding. Here are the signs of trauma bonding. Tue, 09 Feb 2021 16:09:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/13-signs-of-trauma-bonding https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/13-signs-of-trauma-bonding Emergency rooms are often a place clinicians spot signs of domestic violence and victims have the privacy to disclose the abuse. But, it is not always that easy. Mon, 13 May 2019 22:40:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/obstacles-emergency-rooms-face-in-identifying-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/obstacles-emergency-rooms-face-in-identifying-abuse Survivors share their annual traditions that help them celebrate when they left an abusive partner Thu, 22 Aug 2019 17:56:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/13-ways-to-celebrate-the-anniversary-of-leaving-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/13-ways-to-celebrate-the-anniversary-of-leaving-an-abuser We asked our readers what movies they think accurately depict the various types of domestic violence (physical abuse, sexual abuse, spiritual abuse, emotional abuse, verbal abuse) and narcissistic personality disorder. Fri, 20 Sep 2019 16:46:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/movies-that-depict-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/movies-that-depict-domestic-violence Human trafficking is the act of recruiting, transporting, transferring or keeping and receiving an individual against his or her will. Wed, 23 Jan 2019 23:58:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/signs-of-human-trafficking https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/signs-of-human-trafficking Certain risk factors make it more likely to become perpetrator or victim of domestic violence. Not everyone who is identified as "at risk" becomes involved in violence. Tue, 23 Oct 2018 03:04:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/risk-factors-for-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/risk-factors-for-domestic-violence Gaslighting can be subtle and hard to spot. By looking out for these actions and phrases you may be able to understand the tactics being used by your abuser early on before it's too late. Tue, 05 Jun 2018 14:58:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/18-things-abusers-do-when-they-re-gaslighting https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/18-things-abusers-do-when-they-re-gaslighting Learn about potential warning signs your partner may be using the gaslighting effect to gain control. Tue, 05 Jun 2018 15:08:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/warning-signs-that-you-re-being-gaslighted https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/warning-signs-that-you-re-being-gaslighted Be prepared with as many of these pieces of evidence when battling domestic violence and abuse issues in court. Fri, 23 Mar 2018 19:24:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/ways-survivors-can-collect-evidence-of-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/ways-survivors-can-collect-evidence-of-abuse Learn about potential red flags in a relationship that may be the indicator of abusive behavior to come. Wed, 18 Jan 2017 18:05:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/relationship-red-flags https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/relationship-red-flags Common myths and misconceptions about domestic violence. Mon, 31 Jul 2017 23:43:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/myths-about-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/myths-about-domestic-violence List of behaviors that helps you identify if you are experiencing emotional abuse. Sat, 12 Mar 2016 00:34:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/ways-to-recognize-emotional-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/ways-to-recognize-emotional-abuse Hearing these phrases is an indicator of abuse. It is easy to think it is not abuse if your partner has never hit you. Verbal abuse is often a precursor to physical abuse. Tue, 17 Jan 2017 20:12:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/things-abusers-say https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/things-abusers-say List of different boundaries you can establish in relationships to safe guard your goals, freedom and dreams. Sat, 12 Mar 2016 15:35:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/types-of-personal-boundaries-you-can-set https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/types-of-personal-boundaries-you-can-set Avoid saying these things to someone with an abusive partner and instead look for proactive ways to provide support without judgement. Mon, 17 Apr 2017 17:56:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/things-you-shouldn-t-say-to-someone-with-an-abusive-partner https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/things-you-shouldn-t-say-to-someone-with-an-abusive-partner List of behaviors that helps you identify if you are experiencing financial abuse. Sat, 12 Mar 2016 00:36:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/signs-of-financial-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/signs-of-financial-abuse How to support children who have witnessed, or experienced, abuse. Fri, 01 Sep 2017 20:28:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/ways-to-support-children-after-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/ways-to-support-children-after-domestic-violence List of possessions to consider assembling in a safe place before esacping a violent relationship. Sun, 13 Mar 2016 04:24:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/items-to-pack-when-escaping-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/items-to-pack-when-escaping-domestic-violence List of behaviors that helps you identify if someone that is likely to be a good partner or spouse. Sun, 13 Mar 2016 04:07:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/characteristics-of-safe-people https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/characteristics-of-safe-people List of behaviors that helps you identify if someone is likely to be abusive or will not be a good partner. Sun, 13 Mar 2016 03:57:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/characteristics-of-unsafe-people https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/characteristics-of-unsafe-people Teen dating abuse warning signs for parents and teens alike to be aware of. Moms and dads can read the signs marked "PARENT," while youths can assess their own relationships against the points marked "TEEN." Wed, 01 Feb 2017 04:22:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/teen-dating-abuse-warning-signs https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/teen-dating-abuse-warning-signs One of the greatest challenges to leaving abuse can be starting over financially. We've compiled a list of ideas that can help you get back on your financial feet. Thu, 11 Aug 2016 20:04:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/ways-to-start-over-financially https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/ways-to-start-over-financially Many abuse survivors find themselves dealing with PTSD or anxiety. We've compiled a list of techniques to help you feel centered in your environment. Wed, 23 Nov 2016 22:13:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/grounding-techniques https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/grounding-techniques Tips and pointers to plan for pet safety and custody when fleeing domestic violence. Mon, 12 Dec 2016 23:07:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/planning-for-pet-safety-and-custody https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/planning-for-pet-safety-and-custody Head trauma can result in a variety of symptoms. Here are some warning signs of concussion. Tue, 23 May 2017 16:37:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/warning-signs-of-a-concussion https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/warning-signs-of-a-concussion Taking care of yourself is central to feeling good each day. Here's a list of simple ideas to get you there. Thu, 14 Apr 2016 14:18:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/self-care-strategies https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/self-care-strategies List of behaviors that helps you identify if you or someone you know is likely being stalked. Sun, 13 Mar 2016 04:02:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/stalking-signs https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/stalking-signs Why did I stay? See 50 reasons people experiencing abuse don't leave the relationship, or 50 barriers to leaving an abusive situation. Sun, 15 May 2016 20:51:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/barriers-to-leaving https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/barriers-to-leaving Based on a study of 8,519 domestic abuse survivors by Eleanor Lyon & Jill Bradshaw, University of Connecticut, & Anne Menard, National Resource Center, these services are the most commonly desired when seeking help from domestic violence programs. Mon, 23 May 2016 23:10:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/services-most-commonly-sought-by-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/services-most-commonly-sought-by-survivors List of ways you can help a friend or family member that is experiencing domestic violence or abuse. Sat, 12 Mar 2016 04:53:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/ways-people-help-those-experiencing-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/ways-people-help-those-experiencing-abuse List of ideas that can help you build self-esteem and confidence, and lift your spirit. Sat, 12 Mar 2016 15:27:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/ways-to-build-confidence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/ways-to-build-confidence List of behaviors that helps you identify if you are experiencing post traumatic stress disorder or PTSD. Sat, 12 Mar 2016 05:02:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/signs-of-ptsd https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/signs-of-ptsd List of behaviors that helps you identify if you are experiencing depression. Sat, 12 Mar 2016 15:19:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/signs-of-depresssion https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/signs-of-depresssion List of circumstances that helps you identify if you or someone you know is experiencing elder abuse. Sun, 13 Mar 2016 03:50:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/signs-of-elder-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/signs-of-elder-abuse List of behaviors that helps you identify if your partner may be cheating on you or being unfaithful. Sun, 13 Mar 2016 04:13:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/signs-your-partner-is-cheating https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/lists/signs-your-partner-is-cheating Twitch streamer and OnlyFans creator Amouranth says her husband has been forcing her to create content while controlling her money. Wed, 02 Nov 2022 12:28:00 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/streamer-amouranth-s-husband-forced-her-to-create-content https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/streamer-amouranth-s-husband-forced-her-to-create-content Native advocate says honoring our Indigenous and First Nations communities this month should include acknowledging the truth of how they've been treated Mon, 07 Nov 2022 20:32:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/native-american-history-month-means-accepting-ugly-history https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/native-american-history-month-means-accepting-ugly-history When judges enact the status quo during a divorce, even a survivor of abuse can end up paying their abusive partner. Tue, 08 Nov 2022 12:13:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-why-am-i-paying-my-abuser-during-our-divorce https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-why-am-i-paying-my-abuser-during-our-divorce As the survivor-turned-author behind the hashtag #WhyIStayed, Beverly Gooden knows leaving an abuser isn't always as easy as walking out the door. Tue, 08 Nov 2022 19:39:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/the-woman-behind-the-viral-hashtag-whyistayed https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/book-club/the-woman-behind-the-viral-hashtag-whyistayed A guide to what Adult Protective Services can do to help vulnerable and abused adults. Tue, 15 Nov 2022 13:01:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/elder-abuse/what-does-adult-protective-services-do https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/elder-abuse/what-does-adult-protective-services-do When an abuser turns the tables and blames the victim for the abuse, it can be a manipulative tactic known as DARVO. Wed, 16 Nov 2022 13:06:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/explaining-darvo-deny-attack-reverse-victim-amp-offender https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/explaining-darvo-deny-attack-reverse-victim-amp-offender Thinking about intimacy after abuse can feel scary, but by setting boundaries, a survivor can be in control. Mon, 28 Nov 2022 03:16:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-do-healthy-sex-boundaries-look-like https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-do-healthy-sex-boundaries-look-like A guide to all of the various experts involved in a custody court hearing. Mon, 28 Nov 2022 03:35:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/who-are-all-the-people-involved-in-my-child-custody-case https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/who-are-all-the-people-involved-in-my-child-custody-case The silent and subtle signs that domestic abuse is happening. Tue, 29 Nov 2022 03:27:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-silent-ways-abusers-control https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/the-silent-ways-abusers-control Shelters hoping for a holiday miracle through the generosity of supporters. Tue, 29 Nov 2022 03:45:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/you-can-grant-a-holiday-miracle-for-survivors-of-abuse-today https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/you-can-grant-a-holiday-miracle-for-survivors-of-abuse-today A victim of domestic violence might not be able to leave an abusive partner even if they want to. Mon, 05 Dec 2022 16:09:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/16-reasons-why-she-stayed-and-how-you-can-help https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/16-reasons-why-she-stayed-and-how-you-can-help 10 steps to take when a child is in danger from a domestic abuser. Wed, 21 Dec 2022 12:58:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-do-i-keep-my-young-child-safe-from-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/how-do-i-keep-my-young-child-safe-from-an-abuser If you're pregnant and want to divorce an abusive partner, some judges are saying "not yet." Wed, 21 Dec 2022 15:47:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/pregnant-survivors-forced-to-stay-married-in-these-states https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/pregnant-survivors-forced-to-stay-married-in-these-states Sometimes, it’s not so easy to recognize domestic violence, but your gut is likely telling you something is off. Sat, 31 Dec 2022 13:11:12 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/can-you-spot-the-different-types-of-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/can-you-spot-the-different-types-of-abuse Sexual and reproductive coercion are two dangerous ways that abusive partners control and trap victims. Mon, 02 Jan 2023 13:34:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/comprehensive-guides/a-guide-to-reproductive-and-sexual-coercion https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/comprehensive-guides/a-guide-to-reproductive-and-sexual-coercion Suing an abusive partner in civil court is a way survivors can find justice when criminal court fails them. Mon, 02 Jan 2023 16:40:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/yes-you-can-sue-an-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/yes-you-can-sue-an-abuser An abuser who forces a partner to get tattooed is branding them as a form of control and possession. Mon, 02 Jan 2023 16:54:56 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/some-abusers-force-victims-into-a-tattoo https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/some-abusers-force-victims-into-a-tattoo When a protective parent loses custody to an abusive partner, they can feel panicked. An attorney advises what steps to take to get your child back. Mon, 02 Jan 2023 17:11:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-do-i-do-after-losing-custody-of-my-child https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-do-i-do-after-losing-custody-of-my-child After leaving a domestic violence shelter, how does a survivor avoid returning to their abusive ex? Wed, 25 Jan 2023 12:36:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/resist-returning-to-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/resist-returning-to-abuser When mom can’t see dad’s abuse, what can grown children do to intervene? Learn what adult children of domestic violence can do when mom won’t or can’t protect them from dad’s abuse. Wed, 25 Jan 2023 12:37:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-mom-isn-t-seeing-dad-s-cycle-of-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-mom-isn-t-seeing-dad-s-cycle-of-abuse Fleeing out of state with your kids after separating from an abusive partner can be tricky if you don't know the laws. Wed, 25 Jan 2023 16:24:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/can-i-move-out-of-state-with-my-child https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/can-i-move-out-of-state-with-my-child Can trauma cause memory loss? Yes—trauma and memory loss are connected, explains neurosurgeon. Tue, 14 Feb 2023 18:16:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/fragmented-memories-how-trauma-can-cause-memory-loss https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/fragmented-memories-how-trauma-can-cause-memory-loss Why we should be declaring domestic violence a public health crisis. Tue, 28 Feb 2023 19:39:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/why-domestic-violence-is-a-public-health-crisis https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/why-domestic-violence-is-a-public-health-crisis When women seeking healthcare are written off as emotional, dangerous symptoms may be ignored. Wed, 01 Mar 2023 19:09:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/when-your-doctor-doesn-t-believe-you https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/when-your-doctor-doesn-t-believe-you Spotting and addressing burnout in teenagers is important, especially after trauma. Wed, 01 Mar 2023 19:27:36 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/four-signs-your-teen-is-experiencing-burnout-after-trauma https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/four-signs-your-teen-is-experiencing-burnout-after-trauma Supervised visitation can help alleviate some of the fears protective parents have after splitting from an abusive partner. Wed, 01 Mar 2023 19:40:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/supervised-visitation-keeps-kids-safe-after-domestic-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/supervised-visitation-keeps-kids-safe-after-domestic-abuse When a partner threatens to kill you, take them seriously, even if police say their hands are tied. Wed, 01 Mar 2023 19:52:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-if-the-police-can-t-help https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-if-the-police-can-t-help You may still be in danger after leaving an abuser. Learn about what post-separation abuse might look like so you can be prepared. Thu, 16 Mar 2023 03:20:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/how-to-protect-yourself-from-post-separation-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/how-to-protect-yourself-from-post-separation-abuse News alert: Men, it’s not OK for your girlfriend to hit you. Ever. Tue, 04 Apr 2023 04:04:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-girlfriend-is-hitting-me https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-girlfriend-is-hitting-me What is domestic abuse by proxy? Find out what to do when an abuser is turning your child against you. Tue, 04 Apr 2023 04:43:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/10-tips-when-an-abuser-turns-your-child-against-you https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/10-tips-when-an-abuser-turns-your-child-against-you Neglect is a form of abuse where a victim’s basic needs aren’t being met. Wed, 05 Apr 2023 03:58:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/is-neglect-considered-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/is-neglect-considered-abuse An abuser who threatens suicide may also be thinking of homicide. Wed, 05 Apr 2023 04:24:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-to-do-if-an-abuser-threatens-suicide https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-to-do-if-an-abuser-threatens-suicide Have you experienced head trauma from domestic violence? Learn the signs and symptoms of a traumatic brain injury and how TBIs look different for adults and children. Wed, 05 Apr 2023 13:03:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/signs-of-a-traumatic-brain-injury https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/signs-of-a-traumatic-brain-injury Military domestic violence is a real problem, but military commanders say they’re trying to improve their responses. Mon, 01 May 2023 19:31:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/military-and-domestic-abuse-update https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/military-and-domestic-abuse-update A guide to finding a therapist trained in treating survivors of domestic violence. Mon, 01 May 2023 19:54:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-find-a-domestic-abuse-therapist https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-find-a-domestic-abuse-therapist How to build back up your self-esteem after an abuser tries to tear it down. Sun, 07 May 2023 16:12:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-husband-has-destroyed-me-emotionally https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-husband-has-destroyed-me-emotionally What mental abuse can look like and how an abusive partner uses it to keep a victim trapped. Sun, 07 May 2023 17:55:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-does-mental-abuse-feel-like https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-does-mental-abuse-feel-like After Roxanne Epperson survives nearly being murdered by her partner, she founds an organization to help other women avoid abuse. Mon, 08 May 2023 13:15:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/nonprofit-waar-shows-what-healthy-relationships-look-like https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/nonprofit-waar-shows-what-healthy-relationships-look-like If you're experiencing domestic violence, a women's and children's shelter can help you find safety and build a better future. Mon, 08 May 2023 16:38:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/the-support-you-can-expect-at-a-shelter-for-women-amp-children https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/the-support-you-can-expect-at-a-shelter-for-women-amp-children One woman's abuser failed to break her spirit — her amazing story of survival. Mon, 08 May 2023 17:35:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-mimi-had-hope-until-she-was-taken-hostage https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/survivor-story-mimi-had-hope-until-she-was-taken-hostage When a playful slap turns into something more violent, it’s time for a partner to set clear boundaries. Wed, 31 May 2023 03:51:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-it-ok-for-my-boyfriend-to-hit-me-back https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-it-ok-for-my-boyfriend-to-hit-me-back For survivors of domestic violence, an advocate in the court process can be invaluable. Wed, 31 May 2023 04:09:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-is-a-court-advocate https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-is-a-court-advocate One survivor puts her survivor story on stage in musical form. Thu, 08 Jun 2023 04:55:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/kathryn-keats-puts-her-survivor-story-on-stage https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/kathryn-keats-puts-her-survivor-story-on-stage A guide to escaping from abuse when you’re living with a disability. Mon, 12 Jun 2023 12:43:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/a-guide-to-domestic-violence-and-disabilities https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/a-guide-to-domestic-violence-and-disabilities Find organizations that offer free or affordable legal aid for survivors of domestic violence. Sat, 01 Jul 2023 12:53:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-find-an-affordable-domestic-violence-lawyer https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-find-an-affordable-domestic-violence-lawyer When an abusive partner dies, the survivors can feel a range of different emotions. Thu, 06 Jul 2023 17:50:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-deal-with-an-abuser-s-death https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-do-i-deal-with-an-abuser-s-death Especially for domestic violence survivors, the science of hope can be the key to changing their future. Learn how to find your hope score and get started making positive changes in your life. Thu, 06 Jul 2023 18:15:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/the-science-of-hope https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/the-science-of-hope The U.S. Supreme Court is hearing cases that concern the safety of domestic violence survivors. Tue, 01 Aug 2023 12:58:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/supreme-court-guns-stalking-domestic-violence%2F https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/supreme-court-guns-stalking-domestic-violence%2F Swinging can be a type of sexual coercion when your partner doesn’t respect your boundaries. Tue, 08 Aug 2023 12:32:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/being-coerced-into-swinging-is-sexual-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/being-coerced-into-swinging-is-sexual-abuse For survivors of domestic violence, finding a lawyer with knowledge of domestic abuse is crucial. Wed, 09 Aug 2023 13:00:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-find-a-domestic-violence-lawyer https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-find-a-domestic-violence-lawyer Advocates talk about Tina Turner’s legacy as a survivor of domestic violence. Thu, 10 Aug 2023 12:35:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/tina-turner-star-and-survivor-dies-at-83 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/tina-turner-star-and-survivor-dies-at-83 A domestic violence shelter's services expand far beyond more than just a safe place to stay. Fri, 11 Aug 2023 23:30:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-domestic-violence-services-can-i-get-at-a-shelter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-domestic-violence-services-can-i-get-at-a-shelter Abusive partners teach kids how not to act, but there’s a way protective parents can reduce the harm done. Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:15:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/missocialization-when-abusers-teach-children-to-do-wrong https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/missocialization-when-abusers-teach-children-to-do-wrong It’s hard to hear your partner hates you, even when they were the abusive ones. Fri, 08 Sep 2023 03:25:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-husband-hates-me https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-husband-hates-me Allowing abusers to have joint legal custody of kids after a divorce can mean extra abuse. Wed, 04 Oct 2023 22:37:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/when-domestic-abusers-share-legal-custody-with-their-victims https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/when-domestic-abusers-share-legal-custody-with-their-victims A comprehensive guide to understanding childhood domestic violence. Wed, 04 Oct 2023 22:54:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/a-comprehensive-guide-on-childhood-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/a-comprehensive-guide-on-childhood-domestic-violence A survivor of domestic violence is wondering what to do next, now that her abusive ex has found her. Mon, 16 Oct 2023 18:54:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-m-ashamed-to-tell-people-about-his-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-m-ashamed-to-tell-people-about-his-abuse What ‘justice’ looks like for survivors of domestic violence isn’t always the same. Wed, 01 Nov 2023 18:22:35 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/what-does-justice-look-like-for-domestic-abuse-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/what-does-justice-look-like-for-domestic-abuse-survivors How to find help with holiday gifts for kids after leaving domestic violence. Mon, 06 Nov 2023 12:32:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-after-abuse-how-do-i-afford-christmas-for-my-kids https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-after-abuse-how-do-i-afford-christmas-for-my-kids Medical mandated reporting for domestic violence improves survivor outcomes, so why is there a debate? Learn more about medical mandated reporting, domestic violence and legal action. Tue, 07 Nov 2023 20:34:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/why-medical-mandated-reporting-of-domestic-violence-still-matters https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/why-medical-mandated-reporting-of-domestic-violence-still-matters Advice and tips for creating a stand-out nomination to win a domestic violence recognition award. Wed, 08 Nov 2023 19:13:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/how-to-apply-for-domestic-violence-awards https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/how-to-apply-for-domestic-violence-awards As an immigrant to the U.S., it can seem daunting to try to leave an abusive partner, but there are resources to help you. Wed, 08 Nov 2023 19:49:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/a-guide-to-domestic-violence-for-u-s-immigrants https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/a-guide-to-domestic-violence-for-u-s-immigrants A survivor of domestic violence is often tasked with proving the crime in a court of law. Fri, 17 Nov 2023 21:57:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/prove-it-victims-are-saddled-with-the-burden-of-proof https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/prove-it-victims-are-saddled-with-the-burden-of-proof A male partner inquires about the best way to support his new girlfriend who’s lived through abuse in the past. Sat, 18 Nov 2023 13:04:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-can-men-be-better-partners https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-can-men-be-better-partners Despite calling it self-defense, domestic violence survivor Tyesha Wayne is being charged with the premeditated 2nd-degree murder of her boyfriend, abuser Daniel Walker. Tue, 21 Nov 2023 14:18:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/arizona-survivor-faces-prison-time-for-killing-domestic-abuser https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/arizona-survivor-faces-prison-time-for-killing-domestic-abuser An abuser can use grooming tactics to lure a minor into a dangerous relationship. Learn the signs. Wed, 06 Dec 2023 12:41:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/what-is-grooming-and-how-to-spot-it https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/what-is-grooming-and-how-to-spot-it The nonprofit RedRover wants to see 25 percent of domestic violence shelters pet-friendly by 2025. Fri, 29 Dec 2023 13:37:41 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/making-25-percent-of-domestic-violence-shelters-pet-friendly-by-2025-is-redrover-s-goal https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/making-25-percent-of-domestic-violence-shelters-pet-friendly-by-2025-is-redrover-s-goal An abuser who manipulates or scares a child in order to torture the protective parent after separation is engaging in spiteful disregard. Wed, 03 Jan 2024 18:36:14 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/counter-parenting-spiteful-disregard-in-post-separation-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/counter-parenting-spiteful-disregard-in-post-separation-abuse Survivors talk about their experiences writing victim impact statements after a crime. Sun, 07 Jan 2024 17:07:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-write-a-victim-impact-statement https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-write-a-victim-impact-statement Before you get pregnant, realize that having a baby could tie you to an abuser for 18 years. Fri, 02 Feb 2024 12:29:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-questions-to-ask-before-having-a-baby https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-questions-to-ask-before-having-a-baby The findings of a study on polyvictimization survivors, whose who have endured more than one type of trauma in the lives. Tue, 06 Feb 2024 12:48:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-polyvictimization https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-polyvictimization Police say domestic violence victim Libby Caswell took her own life in 2017. Her family and experts say evidence points to homicide. Tue, 06 Feb 2024 17:09:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/did-domestic-violence-victim-libby-caswell-really-take-her-own-life https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/did-domestic-violence-victim-libby-caswell-really-take-her-own-life Advocates are working to stop a frightening trend of family court judges sending children to reunification camps with abusive parents. Wed, 07 Feb 2024 12:55:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/the-hidden-horrors-of-reunification-camps https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/the-hidden-horrors-of-reunification-camps Affluence does not necessarily protect women from domestic abuse—in fact, it can be yet another barrier. Tue, 20 Feb 2024 00:33:55 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/not-to-people-like-us https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/not-to-people-like-us Finding out your child is engaging in self-harm can be scary, but intervening early can Thu, 29 Feb 2024 13:24:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-daughter-is-cutting-herself https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-my-daughter-is-cutting-herself Answering these five questions can help you determine the best place to go when it’s time to leave an abusive partner. Sat, 30 Mar 2024 13:52:12 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/6-questions-to-help-you-escape-abuse-and-find-a-safe-place https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/6-questions-to-help-you-escape-abuse-and-find-a-safe-place Abuse can be normalized in childhood, but it’s time to break the cycle as an adult. Sat, 30 Mar 2024 19:05:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-it-normal-that-my-husband-hits-me https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-it-normal-that-my-husband-hits-me Inclusivity is necessary for the feminist movement to protect all women, especially women of color. Mon, 08 Apr 2024 19:28:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/white-feminism-has-forgotten-women-of-color https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/white-feminism-has-forgotten-women-of-color How to get your pets to safety when escaping a domestic abuser. Mon, 08 Apr 2024 20:12:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/saving-pets-and-yourself-from-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/saving-pets-and-yourself-from-domestic-violence Tips for parents when it's time to talk to their teen about safe dating and sex. Fri, 10 May 2024 04:17:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-talking-to-your-teen-about-dating-and-sex https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-talking-to-your-teen-about-dating-and-sex A sociologist’s new book focuses on the children trapped in domestic violence. Fri, 17 May 2024 12:52:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/10-important-takeaways-from-children-of-coercive-control https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/10-important-takeaways-from-children-of-coercive-control Controlling behavior by a romantic partner can be a red flag for abuse. Mon, 03 Jun 2024 17:54:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-controlling-behavior-a-type-of-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-controlling-behavior-a-type-of-abuse Could restorative justice be effective for survivors of domestic violence and abuse? Wed, 05 Jun 2024 13:48:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-restorative-justice https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-restorative-justice A powerful ode to Evan Stark, a champion in the fight to end violence against women. Mon, 10 Jun 2024 04:07:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/women-are-safe-only-when-they-are-free-and-equal https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/women-are-safe-only-when-they-are-free-and-equal Protecting children in the midst of custody battles means states need to ban reunification camps, say advocates. Mon, 10 Jun 2024 18:05:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/can-states-protect-kids-from-reunification-camps https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/can-states-protect-kids-from-reunification-camps Survivor Hera McLeod pens a powerful memoir about the murder of her son escaping an abuser. Mon, 10 Jun 2024 19:29:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/one-mother-s-fight-for-justice-after-toddler-son-is-murdered https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/one-mother-s-fight-for-justice-after-toddler-son-is-murdered Being choked during sex is an alarming new trend, especially among young people. Here are the dangers they’re missing. Thu, 13 Jun 2024 17:53:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/being-choked-during-sex-is-rising-in-popularity-among-young-people https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/being-choked-during-sex-is-rising-in-popularity-among-young-people Being strangled by an abusive partner spikes a survivor’s risk of being murdered by them later on. Thu, 04 Jul 2024 13:43:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/strangulation-is-the-highest-predictor-of-murder https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/strangulation-is-the-highest-predictor-of-murder Signs of an abusive relationship may be subtle and hard to see at first. Sat, 06 Jul 2024 23:26:08 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/signs-of-an-abusive-relationship https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/signs-of-an-abusive-relationship Abusers might be getting away with murder in a phenomenon dubbed “hidden homicides”—a new bill could stop them. Mon, 08 Jul 2024 20:39:00 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/hidden-homicides-bill-addresses-abusers-who-cover-up-murder https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/hidden-homicides-bill-addresses-abusers-who-cover-up-murder The term “gender-based violence” covers a wide gamut of atrocities suffered by girls and women worldwide. Mon, 29 Jul 2024 19:13:36 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-gender-based-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-gender-based-violence Abusive partners are using car technology to stalk, monitor and possibly even record their victims. Wed, 31 Jul 2024 23:23:36 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abusers-are-monitoring-and-spying-on-victims-through-their-cars https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abusers-are-monitoring-and-spying-on-victims-through-their-cars The legalities of recording someone vary by state but can be a valuable piece of evidence during abuse. Tue, 13 Aug 2024 21:27:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/can-i-record-my-husband-yelling-at-me https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/can-i-record-my-husband-yelling-at-me Fotis Dulos lied to more than his wife before murdering her—he also lied to his mistress. Sat, 31 Aug 2024 21:55:34 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/fotis-dulos-duped-victims-and-family-court-professionals https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/fotis-dulos-duped-victims-and-family-court-professionals Listen to your fear when you’re afraid of your partner—it may indicate abuse. Wed, 04 Sep 2024 13:07:44 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/i-m-scared-of-my-husband-is-it-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/i-m-scared-of-my-husband-is-it-abuse A survivor is afraid to testify against abuser, but will he go free if she doesn’t show up? Thu, 12 Sep 2024 03:42:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-happens-if-a-domestic-violence-victim-doesn-t-show-up-for-court https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-what-happens-if-a-domestic-violence-victim-doesn-t-show-up-for-court Growing up with domestic violence in the home can still affect you in your adult life. Thu, 12 Sep 2024 12:58:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/unlearning-the-lies-of-childhood-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/unlearning-the-lies-of-childhood-domestic-violence After separation, an abusive partner may resort to one of these four strategies to inflict additional pain on the survivor. Thu, 12 Sep 2024 18:12:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/6-tips-to-survive-an-abuser-s-tactics-of-maximum-pain-maximum-gain https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/after-abuse/6-tips-to-survive-an-abuser-s-tactics-of-maximum-pain-maximum-gain The Violence Against Women Act just turned 30. What does the future hold for protecting survivors? Mon, 23 Sep 2024 18:53:36 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/it-s-the-30th-anniversary-of-the-violence-against-women-act https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/it-s-the-30th-anniversary-of-the-violence-against-women-act Being yelled at by your husband is not OK and may indicate more abuse to come in the future. Mon, 30 Sep 2024 19:18:12 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-why-is-my-husband-yelling-at-me https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-why-is-my-husband-yelling-at-me As an immigrant, documented or not, you are afforded protection from intimate partner abuse. Mon, 30 Sep 2024 20:51:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-u-visas-can-help-immigrant-victims-of-domestic-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-u-visas-can-help-immigrant-victims-of-domestic-abuse When it comes to domestic violence, how much does it matter if police refer to it as a ‘domestic dispute’ instead? Mon, 07 Oct 2024 21:18:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/it-s-not-a-domestic-dispute https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/it-s-not-a-domestic-dispute Coercive control laws can be enacted in every state—here’s how to get involved. Mon, 14 Oct 2024 20:59:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/how-to-pass-a-coercive-control-law-in-your-state https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/how-to-pass-a-coercive-control-law-in-your-state One survivor reflects on life after domestic violence and how she isn't fully free. Thu, 24 Oct 2024 12:41:54 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/october-again https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/october-again When you know who your abusive ex is dating next, should you warn her? Wed, 30 Oct 2024 16:31:39 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-should-i-warn-my-ex-abuser-s-new-girlfriend https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-should-i-warn-my-ex-abuser-s-new-girlfriend When a protection order is in place against an abusive partner, the survivor can find themselves in hot water with the legal system if they try to contact them. Wed, 30 Oct 2024 17:06:30 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-are-the-consequences-of-contacting-an-abuser-with-a-protection-order-in-place https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-are-the-consequences-of-contacting-an-abuser-with-a-protection-order-in-place AI for domestic abuse survivors is coming soon to DomesticShelters.org. Sun, 10 Nov 2024 20:46:11 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/hope-ai-coming-soon https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/hope-ai-coming-soon Strangulation may not have any visible injuries, so police need to know what to look for. Fri, 15 Nov 2024 19:53:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-law-enforcement-should-know-about-strangulation https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-law-enforcement-should-know-about-strangulation Estrangement can be a form of abuse, weaponized to try and manipulate or control one’s partner Sat, 30 Nov 2024 13:59:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-estrangement-a-form-of-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-estrangement-a-form-of-abuse How does coercive control work and what are some of the signs? Thu, 05 Dec 2024 03:48:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/10-ways-to-spot-deceptive-coercive-control https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/10-ways-to-spot-deceptive-coercive-control Romance Fraud: When Abusers Are Motivated by Greed, Not Love – Discover how scammers exploit trust and romance to take your money and resources, plus key recovery steps. Sat, 07 Dec 2024 13:51:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/romance-fraud-when-abusers-are-motivated-by-greed-not-love https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/romance-fraud-when-abusers-are-motivated-by-greed-not-love How a parent could lose custody of their child during a high-conflict divorce. Wed, 11 Dec 2024 13:11:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/surprising-reasons-protective-parents-may-lose-custody https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/surprising-reasons-protective-parents-may-lose-custody Misogynistic language like ‘Your Body, My Choice’ has made its way into middle and high schools. Wed, 11 Dec 2024 18:01:22 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/your-body-my-choice-has-made-its-way-to-high-schools https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/your-body-my-choice-has-made-its-way-to-high-schools A controlling boyfriend may be abusive—if he’s not willing to change. Thu, 02 Jan 2025 12:25:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-my-controlling-boyfriend-abusive https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-my-controlling-boyfriend-abusive Family court professionals are urged to learn the science behind why giving abusers custody of children is never a good idea. Thu, 02 Jan 2025 17:36:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/20-ways-custody-courts-can-keep-kids-safe https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/20-ways-custody-courts-can-keep-kids-safe How to know if your actions are an emotional response or calculated emotional abuse. Tue, 14 Jan 2025 13:09:01 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/am-i-emotionally-abusive https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/am-i-emotionally-abusive Join Verizon Skill Forward for free training in AI, coding, and more. Accessible to all, no experience needed. Start your learning journey today! Sat, 01 Feb 2025 18:27:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/free-professional-certificates-to-help-you-propel-your-career https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/workplace-and-employment/free-professional-certificates-to-help-you-propel-your-career The reason why survivors of domestic violence recant has to do with a very manipulative pattern of control from abusers behind bars. Learn how coercion drives recantation in domestic violence cases and the strategies survivors can use to resist manipulation. Mon, 03 Feb 2025 12:12:28 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-abusers-coerce-recantation https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-abusers-coerce-recantation Discover the role of Family Justice Centers in providing comprehensive support to survivors of domestic violence and abuse, sexual abuse and trauma, and more. Mon, 03 Feb 2025 21:07:38 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-family-justice-centers-help-survivors https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-family-justice-centers-help-survivors How to donate to DomesticShelters.org and help survivors get free from abusers before it’s too late. Wed, 05 Feb 2025 17:30:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-where-do-my-donations-to-domesticshelters-org-go https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-where-do-my-donations-to-domesticshelters-org-go Stay informed about critical issues involving domestic violence. This week's roundup covers the latest news, updates, and developments in the fight against intimate partner violence, including Ashley Elkins, a missing mother from Michigan and Anwar-ul-Haq, who killed his 14-year-old daughter. Fri, 07 Feb 2025 02:29:13 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-news-jan-31-2025 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-news-jan-31-2025 Stay informed about critical issues involving domestic violence. This week's roundup covers the latest news, updates, and developments in the fight against intimate partner violence, including a new Gabby Petito Netflix documentary, concern over Bianca Censori's naked red carpet walk. Fri, 07 Feb 2025 03:14:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-news-feb-3-2025 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-news-feb-3-2025 Stay updated with the latest domestic violence news, including surprise allegations and legal battles. This week, learn about politicians Sean Parnell and Pete Hegseth’s history of domestic violence allegations. Read now for more breaking stories and expert analysis. Thu, 13 Feb 2025 21:18:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headline-news-for-the-week-of-feb-10-2025 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headline-news-for-the-week-of-feb-10-2025 Discover the VOICES Survivor Advocacy Network's domestic violence support group with this review of a community event empowering intimate partner violence survivors. Fri, 14 Feb 2025 04:20:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/empowering-survivors-voices-network-in-action https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/empowering-survivors-voices-network-in-action Learn how mutual protection orders can empower abusers and what survivors and victims can do to protect themselves. Mon, 17 Feb 2025 22:28:18 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/how-mutual-protection-orders-harm-victims-amp-what-to-do https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/protection-orders/how-mutual-protection-orders-harm-victims-amp-what-to-do Stay informed about critical issues involving domestic violence. This week's roundup covers the latest news, updates, and developments in the fight against intimate partner violence, including DEI cuts that affect the military's sexual assault program and a UK man sentenced to life in prison for DV. Thu, 20 Feb 2025 19:04:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-feb-17 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-feb-17 Divorcing an abuser can be a draining journey, but being prepared for family court can save you Wed, 26 Feb 2025 21:50:15 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-divorce-an-abusive-spouse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-divorce-an-abusive-spouse Explore different types of boundaries in relationships and how they foster healthy dynamics. Thu, 27 Feb 2025 12:23:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/understanding-boundaries-and-consent-in-relationships https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/understanding-boundaries-and-consent-in-relationships A headline wrap-up of stories that highlighted domestic violence issues for the week of February 24th. Fri, 28 Feb 2025 04:24:53 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-news-headlines-for-the-week-of-feb-24 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-news-headlines-for-the-week-of-feb-24 Texting your ex is probably never a good idea when he showed red flags of abuse. Wed, 05 Mar 2025 14:26:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-should-i-text-my-ex https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-should-i-text-my-ex A brief summary of headlines covering domestic violence-related issues. Fri, 07 Mar 2025 12:14:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-march-3 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-march-3 Complex PTSD in can happen in domestic violence survivors after periods of long, drawn-out trauma. Tue, 11 Mar 2025 20:17:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/complex-ptsd-from-domestic-violence-persistent-trauma-big-effects https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/complex-ptsd-from-domestic-violence-persistent-trauma-big-effects Stay informed with this week's domestic violence news such as a UK man influenced by Andrew Tate killing three women. Read the latest updates and learn how misogyny and legal loopholes contribute to ongoing violence. Thu, 13 Mar 2025 22:16:06 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-march-10 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-march-10 End the cycle of intergenerational violence with awareness and support. Learn how survivors can break free and protect future generations. Fri, 14 Mar 2025 12:58:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/intergenerational-violence-how-to-break-the-cycle https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/intergenerational-violence-how-to-break-the-cycle Stay informed on the latest domestic violence headlines for the week of March 17. From Xavier Worthy’s high-profile abuse allegations to rising youth violence and missing persons cases, this week’s stories highlight the urgent need for awareness and action. Fri, 21 Mar 2025 04:01:27 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-march-17 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-march-17 In this week’s domestic violence news: an attempted murder in Oahu, police take over two hours responding to an intimate partner violence emergency, and violence against women has risen in Ukraine. Understand more about how DV is a global epidemic with these headlines from domesticshelters.org. Thu, 27 Mar 2025 22:28:07 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-march-24 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-march-24 Blame-shifting is a manipulation tactic used by abusers. Learn how it affects victims and ways to regain control and clarity. Fri, 28 Mar 2025 13:02:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-blame-shifting https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-is-blame-shifting Learn more about this week’s domestic violence news: Jacob Frye convicted, new Netflix show exposes the toxic manosphere, and a female officer faces employer retaliation for seeking protection. Fri, 04 Apr 2025 02:03:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-march-31 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-march-31 Megan Hiatt is a survivor of domestic violence and attempted homicide who advocates for awareness and healing. Her powerful story sheds light on the realities of abuse and the strength it takes to overcome trauma. Learn more about her journey to healing on DomesticShelters.org. Mon, 07 Apr 2025 17:10:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/surviving-the-unsurvivable https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/surviving-the-unsurvivable Discover if anger management truly addresses domestic violence or if deeper issues like control and trauma are the real focus. Mon, 07 Apr 2025 19:14:42 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/does-anger-management-really-stop-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/does-anger-management-really-stop-domestic-violence This week’s domestic violence news headlines highlight delays in rape kit processing, a child porn arrest tied to a DV call, and why downplaying murder as a “situation” is dangerous. Fri, 11 Apr 2025 04:49:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/headlines-for-the-week-of-april-7 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/headlines-for-the-week-of-april-7 Learn how domestic violence survivors can handle conversations with an abusive ex using BIFF, Grey Rock, and Yellow Rock, and EAR tactics.. Wed, 16 Apr 2025 12:33:26 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-hate-having-to-talk-to-my-abusive-ex https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-hate-having-to-talk-to-my-abusive-ex Domestic violence headlines you may have missed for the week of April 14, 2025. Thu, 17 Apr 2025 21:08:32 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/headlines-for-the-week-of-april-14 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/headlines-for-the-week-of-april-14 Navigate the complexities of reporting domestic abuse with our jurisdiction guide. Learn where to seek justice and protection. Mon, 21 Apr 2025 12:33:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/where-to-report-domestic-abuse-jurisdiction-guide https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/where-to-report-domestic-abuse-jurisdiction-guide Indiana debates removing consent from sex ed, while two disturbing domestic violence cases highlight ongoing dangers for women and families in this week’s intimate partner violence news headlines. Thu, 24 Apr 2025 20:58:10 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/headlines-for-the-week-of-april-21 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/headlines-for-the-week-of-april-21 Domestic violence in the military: A survivor's journey and essential advice for navigating a complex system to safety. Tue, 29 Apr 2025 17:48:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-divorce-an-abusive-spouse-military-edition https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/how-to-divorce-an-abusive-spouse-military-edition Learn how depositions in domestic violence cases work and how to navigate a deposition successfully with expert advice and preparation tips. Tue, 29 Apr 2025 18:57:45 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/domestic-violence-depositions-what-to-expect-and-how-to-prepare https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/domestic-violence-depositions-what-to-expect-and-how-to-prepare Federal cuts slash $811M in domestic violence grants, advocates warn of deadly consequences for victims and shelters nationwide. Learn more about intimate partner violence at DomesticShelters.org. Fri, 02 May 2025 04:11:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-april-28 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-april-28 Learn about NFL player Tyreek Hill’s latest domestic violence allegations, the passage of the Take It Down act and more of this week's intimate partner violence news headlines. Fri, 09 May 2025 02:31:59 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-may-5 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-may-5 Learn the difference between violence and abuse to better identify harm and seek safety. Discover key distinctions in this DomesticShelters.org detailed guide. Mon, 12 May 2025 12:48:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-s-the-difference-between-violence-and-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-s-the-difference-between-violence-and-abuse With new threats of ICE agents raiding shelters, domestic violence advocates are worried abuse survivors won’t reach out for help. Mon, 12 May 2025 18:35:33 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/new-threat-of-ice-entering-domestic-violence-shelters https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/new-threat-of-ice-entering-domestic-violence-shelters Read the latest updates on the sex trafficking trial of Sean “P Diddy” Combs, star Halle Bailey’s necessary restraining order, and more in this week’s domestic violence news headlines. Fri, 16 May 2025 03:50:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-may-12 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-may-12 Uncover the tactics of legal abuse and learn how abusers misuse the court system to maintain control over domestic violence survivors. Fri, 16 May 2025 12:44:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-is-legal-abuse https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/what-is-legal-abuse Am I abusive or reacting to being abused? Understand the signs of abuse and self-defense in relationships in this month's Ask Amanda from DomesticShelters.org. Fri, 16 May 2025 13:19:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-m-not-sure-if-i-m-the-abuser-or-the-victim https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-i-m-not-sure-if-i-m-the-abuser-or-the-victim A weekly roundup of domestic violence headlines in the news for the week of May 19, 2025. Fri, 23 May 2025 03:42:58 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-may-19 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-may-19 Understand why survivors are falsely accused of domestic violence, the impact on legal outcomes, and what reforms are needed for justice. Wed, 28 May 2025 00:05:57 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-survivors-get-falsely-accused-of-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-survivors-get-falsely-accused-of-domestic-violence Tennessee is going to create a domestic violence registry, and in Ohio, a cop is shot responding to a domestic violence call. Fri, 30 May 2025 12:10:02 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/headlines-for-the-week-of-may-26 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/headlines-for-the-week-of-may-26 Family annihilation is when someone chooses to murder multiple family members in close succession, usually a spouse and children. Wed, 04 Jun 2025 13:38:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/familicide-when-domestic-abusers-kill-their-families-and-sometimes-themselves https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/familicide-when-domestic-abusers-kill-their-families-and-sometimes-themselves A weekly roundup of domestic violence headlines from June 2025, including details on Travis Decker, the father who killed his three young daughters this week in Washington state. Thu, 05 Jun 2025 17:58:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/headlines-for-the-week-of-june-2 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/headlines-for-the-week-of-june-2 Step-by-step guidance for survivors seeking safety by relocating across state lines or emigrating abroad, including planning, legal, and practical considerations. Sun, 08 Jun 2025 22:43:29 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-to-leave-an-abusive-relationship-fleeing-state-or-country https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/how-to-leave-an-abusive-relationship-fleeing-state-or-country Discover the story of how a child impacted by domestic violence found her voice, confidence and hope for her future at Camp HOPE America. Sun, 08 Jun 2025 22:47:20 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/once-a-camper-now-a-counselor-finding-her-voice-at-camp-hope-america https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/once-a-camper-now-a-counselor-finding-her-voice-at-camp-hope-america The week of June 9, 2025 brought another murder-suicide, an Army major accused of strangling at least 20 women and the current administration once again downplaying the importance of funding anti-violence work. Thu, 12 Jun 2025 23:03:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-june-9 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-june-9 This week, the National Women’s Law Center files suit against the DoJ on behalf of domestic violence organizations, a new study shows the effects of overturning Roe v Wade, and a horrific attempt at family annihilation. Fri, 20 Jun 2025 12:40:00 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-june-16 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-june-16 Struggling with self-blame? Abuse is not your fault. Understand why, recognize abuse patterns and learn how to feel safe again. Mon, 23 Jun 2025 15:52:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-no-being-abused-is-not-your-fault https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-no-being-abused-is-not-your-fault Read up on this week’s domestic violence news headlines: A Girl Named Tom releases survivor anthem, Travis Decker still at large, and police report an intimate partner violence victim to ICE. Thu, 26 Jun 2025 22:07:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/headlines-for-the-week-of-june-23 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/headlines-for-the-week-of-june-23 Discover how domestic violence and pets are connected, and read real survivor stories about the challenges of leaving abuse with animals. Fri, 27 Jun 2025 03:15:47 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/domestic-violence-and-pets-survivors-share-their-stories https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/pets/domestic-violence-and-pets-survivors-share-their-stories Learn more about this week’s domestic violence news with updates on the Diddy trial, a new Georgia law to protect survivors who act in self-defense, and a tragedy out of Oklahoma. Fri, 04 Jul 2025 03:02:05 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-diddy-acquitted https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-diddy-acquitted Custody evaluators will need to see evidence of domestic violence in order to have a reason to keep kids away from an abusive parent. Help them by organizing your documents clearly. Sat, 05 Jul 2025 13:43:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/the-7-c-s-of-organizing-custody-evidence-after-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/legal/the-7-c-s-of-organizing-custody-evidence-after-domestic-violence Understand the seriousness of threats in a relationship, why survivors may minimize them, and how to respond for your safety. Wed, 09 Jul 2025 20:33:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/why-threats-in-a-relationship-should-be-taken-seriously https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/why-threats-in-a-relationship-should-be-taken-seriously A survivor is worried that fleeing to a domestic violence shelter with her children will mean her abusive husband can use it against her later in court. Thu, 10 Jul 2025 18:02:24 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-can-i-lose-my-children-if-i-go-to-a-domestic-violence-shelter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-can-i-lose-my-children-if-i-go-to-a-domestic-violence-shelter Martin Mendoza is arraigned for allegedly stabbing his girlfriend to death, a Youngstown, Ohio man can't stop abusing despite four arrests now and Denver is putting a stalker behind bars for eight years. Fri, 11 Jul 2025 04:21:19 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-july-7 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-july-7 Airman Jacob “Jake” Frye has abused at least three women, but the military’s UCMJ has only given him a slap on the wrist for domestic violence. Learn more about the survivors of his violence. Wed, 16 Jul 2025 13:08:51 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/who-will-stop-airman-jacob-frye https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/who-will-stop-airman-jacob-frye Another NFL player makes domestic violence headlines with Cleveland Browns player Quinshon Judkins’ arrest, and more domestic violence homicide and threats of murder in this week’s news headlines. Thu, 17 Jul 2025 17:54:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-july-14 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-july-14 Uber and Alliance for HOPE International team up, an immigrant mom and her kids are murdered by abuser after being afraid to seek help, a stalker follows through on his threats and a sheriff’s deputy is fired after just a few months on the job for DV. Fri, 25 Jul 2025 04:08:25 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-july-21 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-july-21 In the world of domestic violence downers, a teen bride in Pakistan is murdered by her own family, a new Baton Rouge police officer is hired despite his domestic violence arrest and Washington asks engaged couples to prepay for abuse that may come later. Thu, 31 Jul 2025 23:38:49 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-july-28 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-july-28 For shelters that are full, hotel vouchers are often a valuable tool to help survivors escape. Mon, 04 Aug 2025 01:57:50 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/when-shelters-reach-capacity-hotels-become-lifelines https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/housing/when-shelters-reach-capacity-hotels-become-lifelines Isolation is a tactic abusers use to cut off a survivor from outside support systems. Mon, 04 Aug 2025 15:39:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/survivors-in-isolation-abusers-separate-victims-from-everyone-for-power-and-control https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/survivors-in-isolation-abusers-separate-victims-from-everyone-for-power-and-control Survivor reaches out to DomesticShelters.org for help covering a tattoo an abusive partner forced on her. Mon, 04 Aug 2025 18:02:31 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/branded-no-more-one-survivor-s-tattoo-transformation https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/branded-no-more-one-survivor-s-tattoo-transformation Abusive partners more often target neurodivergent individuals, so setting healthy boundaries before dating can be an important safety precaution. Thu, 07 Aug 2025 21:23:23 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-does-being-autistic-put-me-at-a-higher-risk-for-dating-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-does-being-autistic-put-me-at-a-higher-risk-for-dating-violence Beloved actor Adam Turck dies a hero, a New Jersey state trooper murders his ex, and more women are killed by abusers in this week’s coverage of domestic violence news from DomesticShelters.org. Fri, 08 Aug 2025 16:23:43 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-aug-4-adam-turck https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-aug-4-adam-turck When facing a custody battle, prepare for a custody evaluation interview by making lists of abusive incidents and desired outcomes. Thu, 14 Aug 2025 21:07:21 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/preparing-for-custody-evaluation-interviews-after-domestic-violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/child-custody/preparing-for-custody-evaluation-interviews-after-domestic-violence A protective mother knew her 2-year-old son was in danger, but the NYPD chalked it up to a custody dispute. Now, she's suing. Thu, 14 Aug 2025 21:32:17 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-week-of-aug-11 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-week-of-aug-11 Domestic violence makes the headlines again, with a murder-suicide in New Hampshire leaving four dead, a woman stabbed to death by her new husband and a pregnant teen killed by her partner Fri, 22 Aug 2025 04:26:03 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-aug-18 https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-aug-18 Learn about this week’s intimate partner violence news; the son of Norway’s Princess Mette-Marit charged with rape and domestic violence, a podiatrist plots to kill his wife for a second time and more. Thu, 28 Aug 2025 16:28:46 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-aug-25-son-of-princess-marius-borg-hoiby https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-aug-25-son-of-princess-marius-borg-hoiby Blaming domestic abuse and domestic homicide on mental illness downplays the root problems behind this epidemic. Mon, 01 Sep 2025 13:07:52 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/blaming-mental-health-issues-lets-abusers-off-the-hook https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/health/blaming-mental-health-issues-lets-abusers-off-the-hook Sometimes, feeling both love and hate toward a partner can indicate abuse instead of annoyance. Tue, 02 Sep 2025 12:57:16 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/can-you-both-love-and-hate-your-abusive-partner https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/can-you-both-love-and-hate-your-abusive-partner Miami Dolphins assistant coach arrested for DV, a survivor is rescued after using the universal hand signal for help at a 7-Eleven Thu, 04 Sep 2025 20:12:04 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-sept-1-ryan-crow-miami-dolphins-arrested-domestic-battery https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/domestic-violence-headlines-for-the-week-of-sept-1-ryan-crow-miami-dolphins-arrested-domestic-battery When an abusive father is accused of sexually abusing their own child, why is family court still letting him have custody? Mon, 08 Sep 2025 00:25:40 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/punished-for-protection-the-hidden-cost-of-shielding-children-from-abusive-fathers https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories/punished-for-protection-the-hidden-cost-of-shielding-children-from-abusive-fathers Learning your Adverse Childhood Experiences score can provide insight into future health hurdles. Tue, 09 Sep 2025 19:33:37 +0000 DomesticShelters.org https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-much-does-my-ace-score-matter https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-how-much-does-my-ace-score-matter